When you have a problem you decide how to handle it and how to look at it. And I decided to use it to explain something that might be an eye-opener to some of you.
As a Professional Dog trainer I have learned to study behaviors and patterns and in today's society, we have a tendency to not appreciate the things that are given to us freely or easily. This is the mentality of humans. It is really not nice but this is how it is.
It becomes pretty clear if we take a look at the shelters and rehoming ads of pets today. It is most of the time the cheap mix breeds that are up for adoption and sent to the shelters, dumped in the woods or euthanized when they are ill instead of receiving medical treatment etc.
Pedigree dogs and cats hold a higher value and people seem to take care of them much more, they get medical treatments for them, they go to doggy school, they take out insurance for them and they are rarely sent to the shelters. Why is that? Because they are much more expensive to purchase and people have INVESTED more money into the pedigree pet so it has a higher value.
It is the same with horses, you can get a cheap mix breed horse that has been rehomed 15 times and finally it ends up as a hamburger on your table because they don't want to spend money on medical bills or when they are tired of caring for it. How often do you think that happens to a horse that costs 50.000 Euros to purchase? Do you think they buy the cheap saddle for that horse or a more expensive one? Of course the more expensive one.
Heck even lock at the foster/daycare today, so many kids in foster/daycare today are treated so much worse than the carers own kids, why? They haven't invested emotions, time and money in the child, they didn't carry it for 9 months and they didn't stay up at night to nurse it when it was ill.
The same goes for us Women, a basic chick who is paying for her man to sit home all day and bends over backward for him, she gets cheated on, yelled at, she gets used and abused, she is nothing more than a free pussy and he will leave her and her wet behind when he comes across something more valuable. This is why I cut Mr Z off immediately when he stopped investing in Me. I refuse to be that basic woman.
But men who INVEST his time and money in his woman tends treats Her better. A Woman who is high maintenance seldom gets divorced or cheated on. Why? Because She is VALUABLE and he knows it will cost him so much more if he loses Her. And a smart Woman returns the favor by VALUING his efforts. They are both INVESTING in each other. This is what most people miss when it comes to relationships. You might read My posts here about a generous sub, about how I want to be cared for. There are a reason and logic behind everything I do. And every time I step away from it and lower My standards to fit in the shit hits the fan. This is why I don't INVEST My time and energy in online chat or games if the sub haven't INVESTED in Me. It is never going to happen.
When you take ownership of a man's cock and orgasms, magical things happen to his behavior. That's why I want to have a man in chastity. Besides, we all know that you are not capable to control that thing anyway. And when you take a mans money in combination with his orgasms, then you get his undivided attention and emotional investment and that is when he gets to feel the reward of all of his efforts.
And until this day, the most valuable gift I have ever received was an old Braun electric toothbrush, not because it was very expensive at the time, but because he took every last penny he had, he even walked to the store to buy it because if he took the bus he wouldn't be able to buy it for My birthday. That was more than 17 years ago. So it isn't about the amount that was spent, it is about the effort, the sacrifice and investment.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
Thursday, December 27, 2018
Tuesday, December 25, 2018
Mr Z is such a gentleman..
Mr Z was just here and it ended with Me slamming the door in his face after calling him a son of a bitch. I was fuming and I am still upset. I hope I don't run into him and that he keeps his mouth shut if I do.
Mr Z has kittens that I watched for him, for free, both when he left for Ankara and when he urgently left because his friend was ill. One of them destroyed My earphones and when I told him about it he said don't worry, he would buy new ones for Me. To Me it is kind of important because I need them to sleep and you all know My current financial situation.
Today when I wrote to him reminding him about it, he came around here and was angry and demanded money for the rainboots he bought for Me a few months back (I thought it was as a gift) and that I return the money he sent me when he was away. I never asked him to send Me any money or to buy the boots but it all equals $40 in total. He spent so much time here, behaved like My boyfriend, took up My time, drank My wine, ate My food and now he is asking Me for $40?! What am I missing here? Does this mean that I should charge him for the unsatisfying sex we had and the cat sitting I did for free? I'm just asking..
Mr Z has kittens that I watched for him, for free, both when he left for Ankara and when he urgently left because his friend was ill. One of them destroyed My earphones and when I told him about it he said don't worry, he would buy new ones for Me. To Me it is kind of important because I need them to sleep and you all know My current financial situation.
Today when I wrote to him reminding him about it, he came around here and was angry and demanded money for the rainboots he bought for Me a few months back (I thought it was as a gift) and that I return the money he sent me when he was away. I never asked him to send Me any money or to buy the boots but it all equals $40 in total. He spent so much time here, behaved like My boyfriend, took up My time, drank My wine, ate My food and now he is asking Me for $40?! What am I missing here? Does this mean that I should charge him for the unsatisfying sex we had and the cat sitting I did for free? I'm just asking..
It is sad when you genuinely liked someone and they just use people. I missed him so much when he was away in Ankara and I was longing for him to come back but when I realized that his words were all empty and he left Me in a really difficult predicament then I lost all feelings. It became even worse when he said some really insulting things to Me about who I should date. I totally flatlined, and now when I look at him I just feel disgusted. I can't be with a man I can't trust, who doesn't have My back and doesn't care for Me, I just can't.
I want a genuine, loving D/s relationship with My main partner and possibly lovers. It goes against all of My personal beliefs to use people, I cannot be with a person just because of his money. I would feel sick to My stomach. I still believe in love, but I am really disappointed in so-called men. This is why I want a generous and genuinely submissive man. I am so done with the vanilla men that you wouldn't believe it!
I need to meditate and perhaps use Neville Goddards revision technique and revise the situation. I definitely didn't need this extra drama in My life. Oh, I really hope My visitors will come in January, I need something positive to look forward to.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
I want a genuine, loving D/s relationship with My main partner and possibly lovers. It goes against all of My personal beliefs to use people, I cannot be with a person just because of his money. I would feel sick to My stomach. I still believe in love, but I am really disappointed in so-called men. This is why I want a generous and genuinely submissive man. I am so done with the vanilla men that you wouldn't believe it!
I need to meditate and perhaps use Neville Goddards revision technique and revise the situation. I definitely didn't need this extra drama in My life. Oh, I really hope My visitors will come in January, I need something positive to look forward to.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
The fuckery (Personal Rant about vanilla life)
It then went on to have a conversation with an old colleague who insisted on Me coming to Monte Negro for work. I explained that I don't want to because of health reasons My suspected PTSD is acting up and I don't want to leave My ill furlings. And again, another Turk who wouldn't respect My no.
Then I posted a personal ad in a group on FL and one of the subs threw a temper tantrum on there as well because of My ad.. From that moment, the day just continued to be more gloomy, My dog has been ill all day and it was just a really shitty day.
I normally don't have a problem being alone on Christmas but this year it is extra tough. I'm tired, and I feel alone, I need some serious TLC. I realized that when I was doing the dishes, I started crying. I feel lonely, forgotten and unloved. I'm tired of feeling like Atlas, carrying the world on My shoulders. My 2 primary love languages are when people give Me gifts and when they do something for Me, that's why I liked Mr Z. He took care of the cleaning for Me and it meant so much to come into a clean kitchen and bathroom, not having to clean the litterboxes or taking out the garbage etc. It helped Me think better and to be more creative. Now it feels like I either clean or paint or I work. I cannot do all, I cannot cope. I really need to paint, painting makes Me feel so much better and of course My walks. It is impossible to feel bad on the beach.
So I have made Myself a promise, I will not get involved with another man on a personal level unless he is able to provide for Me so I can focus on being the best Woman and leader for him and give him the very best of Me. I just want him to make My life easier so I can focus on love, sex and being happy. I need a fucking break, I have been fighting non-stop since 2009. I wish I could get at least a year off with 1200 euros every month to just destress. Knowing Me I will most likely come up with some project before the year is over but it would be so nice to be cared for and be able to breathe.
To feel loved and supported. Something seriously needs to change.
Well at least My dog is feeling better, I had some Swedish original gingerbread, marzipan, I had some hot spiced wine, and a real traditional Swedish dinner, not Christmas dinner but it was ok. I talked with 2 very dear friends from Sweden who made me feel a bit better. Hopefully, I will have some visitors coming in January that might lead to something.
I genuinely wish you all a much better Christmas than I had. If you have a relative living abroad/far away, reach out to them, it means so much!
Stay blessed.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
Sunday, December 23, 2018
God Yule and Merry Christmas!
My celebration is not different from any other days except that I eat better, doesn't feel guilty for binge-watching something on Netflix and I talk a lot with a really good friend from Sweden who also celebrates alone.
When I was looking for some nice pictures I noticed something and it was that there wasn't really any nice, beautiful and classy Femdom pictures like the ones below. So I have decided that when I get an IRL sub we will take beautiful pictures because there is definitely a need for that.
By the way, I opened an account on bdsmlr.com and you can find Me here: https://ladyblaze.bdsmlr.com
Until next time, Merry Christmas!
~ Lady Blaze 💋
Saturday, December 22, 2018
Day dreaming and a book recommendation
Hello subs, wimps and others, I hope you are all doing well and that you have behaved well so you will get a gift in your stocking and under the tree.
I must have been a very bad Queen because there is absolutely nothing under the tree this year. My "extra" family normally sends a care package but not this year.
I had another lovely walk down by the beach today and I sat down with My dog and daydreamed for a bit. I was thinking about how nice it could be to have a small secluded B&B here in the Marmaris area, totally run by subs. Like a membership hotel, where munches could be held, Dommes could come with their pets and just enjoy themselves. There is a place called the Address in Selimiye, that has the perfect location, it is My dream home but I am not sure how suitable it is for a B&B. the property is gated to ensure privacy and I would have 2-3 rottweilers guarding the premises. My ex has a small boutique hotel next to it, I could always rent that from him perhaps.. It would definitely make more profit if I did! And it has a larger capacity and it has some privacy. Hmm maybe I could find some submissive and kinky investors, that would be a perfect solution. I need to think more about this. The best thing would be a castle or a mansion but they don't have many of those here and it might a little bit much to start off with.
All rooms would be themed. of course. Most do color themed rooms but I think I would take another approach. There would definitely be a room called La Bastille with a small Madame Guillotine for CBT. Don't worry, not to cut off your most precious little part but to hurt it a bit. Instead of a blade, there could be weights.. I would have so much fun with that. And no dungeon is complete without the Iron Maiden. Yes, I do like old school torture devices because they are so evil.
A slave room with cages and hooks in the wall for the subs to be chained to.
What do you guys think, would you suggest a place like that for your Domme as a holiday location?
By the way, for all of you cuckolds out there. I had a nice date today with a vanilla captain, we will see where it might lead to. He is actually younger than Me but that might be exactly what I need. I have a ferocious appetite these days. ;)
Now it is time to relax with a good book. Lyon on a leash. It is a softcore book about a Domme who is pretty similar to Me, that's why I like it. There are not any real scenes described in the book but I like the dominance and submission that it is about and the everyday dynamic between them. Marcus is like the kind of sub I would be attracted to. I like it but I don't know if you men would like it, but if you are more into D/s I am sure you can relate. If you read it please let Me know what you think in the comments.
If you buy the book via this link you will be supporting Me ;)
Stay obedient!
~ Lady Blaze 💋
I must have been a very bad Queen because there is absolutely nothing under the tree this year. My "extra" family normally sends a care package but not this year.
I had another lovely walk down by the beach today and I sat down with My dog and daydreamed for a bit. I was thinking about how nice it could be to have a small secluded B&B here in the Marmaris area, totally run by subs. Like a membership hotel, where munches could be held, Dommes could come with their pets and just enjoy themselves. There is a place called the Address in Selimiye, that has the perfect location, it is My dream home but I am not sure how suitable it is for a B&B. the property is gated to ensure privacy and I would have 2-3 rottweilers guarding the premises. My ex has a small boutique hotel next to it, I could always rent that from him perhaps.. It would definitely make more profit if I did! And it has a larger capacity and it has some privacy. Hmm maybe I could find some submissive and kinky investors, that would be a perfect solution. I need to think more about this. The best thing would be a castle or a mansion but they don't have many of those here and it might a little bit much to start off with.
All rooms would be themed. of course. Most do color themed rooms but I think I would take another approach. There would definitely be a room called La Bastille with a small Madame Guillotine for CBT. Don't worry, not to cut off your most precious little part but to hurt it a bit. Instead of a blade, there could be weights.. I would have so much fun with that. And no dungeon is complete without the Iron Maiden. Yes, I do like old school torture devices because they are so evil.
A slave room with cages and hooks in the wall for the subs to be chained to.
What do you guys think, would you suggest a place like that for your Domme as a holiday location?
By the way, for all of you cuckolds out there. I had a nice date today with a vanilla captain, we will see where it might lead to. He is actually younger than Me but that might be exactly what I need. I have a ferocious appetite these days. ;)
Now it is time to relax with a good book. Lyon on a leash. It is a softcore book about a Domme who is pretty similar to Me, that's why I like it. There are not any real scenes described in the book but I like the dominance and submission that it is about and the everyday dynamic between them. Marcus is like the kind of sub I would be attracted to. I like it but I don't know if you men would like it, but if you are more into D/s I am sure you can relate. If you read it please let Me know what you think in the comments.
If you buy the book via this link you will be supporting Me ;)
~ Lady Blaze 💋
Monday, December 17, 2018
My wishlist
Hello,
I feel really great today, took the dogs for a long walk along the beach and it was a fabulous scenery. I will practice My painting until I can capture some of its beauty. I just love the beach, the sea, and the air. It gives Me the perfect start of My day.
So some of you remember that I am Swedish so that means that I am celebrating Christmas not just one day but we start the 23rd and celebrates until the 26th and we open our gifts on the 24th.
I am not a fan of big parties, I actually prefer to be home and just enjoy the peace and quiet. But I do however absolutely love to be pampered, eat and drink well and to receive gifts so I made a Christmas wishlist for you guys so you can contribute to making My holiday more relaxed.
Lingerie
(In Turkey all the women wear new red lingerie on New Year's Eve)
Helly Hansen jacket
Box Braids at the salon
Nice wine and champagne for New Years Eve
Massage
Whips, riding crop, tawse, and other BDSM equipment
(all of mine are packed up and stored away in Sweden.)
Domain and hosting for this blog
Kindle Paperwhite
Rowing Machine
A smart TV
Marisa Peer Hypnotherapist course
And of course as always money or Amazon Giftcards (US) so I can buy what I want.
I have decided to make a few changes to My life and some of them are to become more healthy so next year I will start dancing again. I love to dance and especially belly dancing since it is so sensual. It is actually the reason for how I ended up in Turkey. I also decided to change My appearance so I want to have box braids again since it always looks good and it is so easy to maintain. I have to look good when I am out walking the dogs, you never know when I will bump into a nice Alpha lover.. ;) And it will really catch their attention since I would be the only one here who has box braids. I feel that it is time to get back out there and find an Alpha man who can do with Me what you boys can't! *giggles* Oh how I wish I could hold the keys to your chastity devices and just tease the hell out of you. Imagine the rush to be in another country and your key is in Turkey. Now that would be like playing in Champions League. I doubt any of you would be able to do it. ;)
And since you are not here to give Me a massage the least you can do is to give Me a professional massage.
I also want to build up My BDSM toybox again especially since I am planning on being more active in the scene here in Turkey and some of you will actually get the opportunity to come and serve Me in real life. I am playing with the idea of offering a slave room for subs who travels out here on holiday. What do you think, would you like to have a holiday where you serve a Domme, be her domestic little house slave and sleep on a mattress on the floor? Being served porridge and water for a week? Would you like that? If nothing else you would lose some weight..
Another thing I decided to change is to start reading again. I have a very old Kindle without a touch screen and it is driving Me crazy so I want a newer one, paperwhite. I currently don't have a TV but I do enjoy watching the occasional film or documentary on Netflix and YouTube so it would be nice to have one.
Well I think it is it for now.
As always you can reach Me on servingLadyBlaze@gmail.com
Stay obedient,
~ Lady Blaze 💋
I feel really great today, took the dogs for a long walk along the beach and it was a fabulous scenery. I will practice My painting until I can capture some of its beauty. I just love the beach, the sea, and the air. It gives Me the perfect start of My day.
So some of you remember that I am Swedish so that means that I am celebrating Christmas not just one day but we start the 23rd and celebrates until the 26th and we open our gifts on the 24th.
I am not a fan of big parties, I actually prefer to be home and just enjoy the peace and quiet. But I do however absolutely love to be pampered, eat and drink well and to receive gifts so I made a Christmas wishlist for you guys so you can contribute to making My holiday more relaxed.
Lingerie
(In Turkey all the women wear new red lingerie on New Year's Eve)
Helly Hansen jacket
Box Braids at the salon
Nice wine and champagne for New Years Eve
Massage
Whips, riding crop, tawse, and other BDSM equipment
(all of mine are packed up and stored away in Sweden.)
Domain and hosting for this blog
Kindle Paperwhite
Rowing Machine
A smart TV
Marisa Peer Hypnotherapist course
And of course as always money or Amazon Giftcards (US) so I can buy what I want.
I have decided to make a few changes to My life and some of them are to become more healthy so next year I will start dancing again. I love to dance and especially belly dancing since it is so sensual. It is actually the reason for how I ended up in Turkey. I also decided to change My appearance so I want to have box braids again since it always looks good and it is so easy to maintain. I have to look good when I am out walking the dogs, you never know when I will bump into a nice Alpha lover.. ;) And it will really catch their attention since I would be the only one here who has box braids. I feel that it is time to get back out there and find an Alpha man who can do with Me what you boys can't! *giggles* Oh how I wish I could hold the keys to your chastity devices and just tease the hell out of you. Imagine the rush to be in another country and your key is in Turkey. Now that would be like playing in Champions League. I doubt any of you would be able to do it. ;)
And since you are not here to give Me a massage the least you can do is to give Me a professional massage.
I also want to build up My BDSM toybox again especially since I am planning on being more active in the scene here in Turkey and some of you will actually get the opportunity to come and serve Me in real life. I am playing with the idea of offering a slave room for subs who travels out here on holiday. What do you think, would you like to have a holiday where you serve a Domme, be her domestic little house slave and sleep on a mattress on the floor? Being served porridge and water for a week? Would you like that? If nothing else you would lose some weight..
Another thing I decided to change is to start reading again. I have a very old Kindle without a touch screen and it is driving Me crazy so I want a newer one, paperwhite. I currently don't have a TV but I do enjoy watching the occasional film or documentary on Netflix and YouTube so it would be nice to have one.
Well I think it is it for now.
As always you can reach Me on servingLadyBlaze@gmail.com
Stay obedient,
~ Lady Blaze 💋
Sunday, December 16, 2018
I love men and I love subs.
Hello, dear subs,
I just feel the need to express how I feel about you guys and some of you might not like it. That's cool you know where the door is and you can show yourself out.
I am online a lot, and on Twitter and I see so many Instadommes and other Pro Dommes who just seems to hate men. I get that there is a market for that and that so many of you are dreaming of a wicked bitch Domme who abuses you and humiliates you. They degrade you to be nothing and if that is what you want it is fine, each to their own and I embrace diversity.
It has never been My style to see men as inferior, or useless. Of course, some of you are absolutely useless but many are absolutely wonderful and I love it. I love the strength and power you have. I love to see a grown man, who can easily overtake Me, obey My commands and show how much he loves Me. It is a gift from him to Me and I appreciate it. To see him bite his teeth when I torment him just to make Me proud and show himself worthy is such a turn on. When he takes the time to learn how to do something perfectly just to get My approval then it is a sign of love. To see the fire in his eyes when he is teased and denied makes Me so incredibly aroused and it makes Me feel so powerful.
But what makes Me feel really valued and adored is when you subs give Me the financial opportunity to be a fulltime Queen and stay in My femininity, to plan wonderful scenarios for us both to enjoy, the gift of time and relaxation is a gift with a big return for everyone involved. It is equal to when a Queen sent Her warriors out and they return bearing gifts from their raids.
I was born Dominant, I have always understood that I wasn't like other Dommes or other Women even My view on Dominance, Leadership, and Alpha Women/Men. I see Dominance where others fail and just see weakness. And when you are kind and loving towards your sub, it can be seen as a weakness amongst other subs and Dommes but it is on them, I don't care, their opinions hold no values to Me, I treat My subs in a way that makes Me and the sub happy. That's all that matters.
One person who is fiction, but whom I really like is Kahleesi in Game of Thrones, Her unsullied army is Her subs by free will and they stay because they want to serve Her. She gets men to serve here just by being kind but brutal. She is a powerful Woman and yes so Feminine. If you understand Her Dominance, then you understand Me..
Have a great day My unsullied. ;)
~ Lady Blaze 💋
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=50iXfEygDIE
Friday, December 14, 2018
Tips for men who single or looking for a Domme.
Hello boys, I hope you are all doing well.
I know I have been writing about this before but clearly, it needs to be said again.
Many of you who approaches Me and other women online are behaving like neanderthals, even a banjo playing redneck would have better manners! That't why you are single or without a Domme.
You don't introduce yourself, you go straight to what you want. I'm not some fast food place where you can order what you want from a menu! If you would go into a bar or a cafe and you were interested in one woman who returned your smile, would you go straight up to her, not introducing yourself, not asking anything about her, not offer a drink and just say: What do you do for a living? Are you kinky? Do you want to see my dick?
Or would you go into a BDSM munch and approach a Domme you never talked with before and say the following: I would like for you to fuck me with a strap-on / I want you to lock my cock up and keep the key / I want to see you fuck other men / I want to lick your feet and sleep in a cage?
I didn't think so.. But why not? You are doing it every day online to so many women online. What you don't get is that a dating site is like a virtual bar/cafe and a fetish site is like a virtual munch. There is absolutely no difference. And you are a major turn off and no fun and you don't care one bit about the woman.
A genuinly submissive man would never, ever dream about approaching a woman or a Domme like that. She is like royalty and should be treated like such with respect. Most of you who claim to be submissive are not submissive, you are just kinky and gets turned on by being humilated when YOU want to and feel like playing. So many men who screams that they want a keyholder and that they want to be a cuckold become really disappointed when they realize that their KH will gladly lock them up and then that's it. No sex, no strap-on, no play or they don't get to see their wife have sex with other men or suck the bulls dick. Then they start complaining that it wasn't what they wanted... Wait, is your submission about you getting your needs met or are you submitting to make your Domme happy? There is bedroom submission and then there are genuine submission. I prefer the later one, if you submit to Me then your only mission in life is to make Me happy.
The same rule goes for Pro Dommes and Escorts as well gentlemen, treat them nicely and respectfully and they will return the favor and give you great value for your money.
It is not so hard to be polite, well mannered and a bit interesting before you overwhelm us with your desires. We know you are horny and desperate for your dreams to come true, but don't try to take a shortcut. Think about how you would behave if you met Dita von Teese and then behave the same way towards the women you meet and you will be way ahead of most men.
Until next time, be polite!
~ Lady Blaze 💋
I know I have been writing about this before but clearly, it needs to be said again.
Many of you who approaches Me and other women online are behaving like neanderthals, even a banjo playing redneck would have better manners! That't why you are single or without a Domme.
You don't introduce yourself, you go straight to what you want. I'm not some fast food place where you can order what you want from a menu! If you would go into a bar or a cafe and you were interested in one woman who returned your smile, would you go straight up to her, not introducing yourself, not asking anything about her, not offer a drink and just say: What do you do for a living? Are you kinky? Do you want to see my dick?
Or would you go into a BDSM munch and approach a Domme you never talked with before and say the following: I would like for you to fuck me with a strap-on / I want you to lock my cock up and keep the key / I want to see you fuck other men / I want to lick your feet and sleep in a cage?
I didn't think so.. But why not? You are doing it every day online to so many women online. What you don't get is that a dating site is like a virtual bar/cafe and a fetish site is like a virtual munch. There is absolutely no difference. And you are a major turn off and no fun and you don't care one bit about the woman.
A genuinly submissive man would never, ever dream about approaching a woman or a Domme like that. She is like royalty and should be treated like such with respect. Most of you who claim to be submissive are not submissive, you are just kinky and gets turned on by being humilated when YOU want to and feel like playing. So many men who screams that they want a keyholder and that they want to be a cuckold become really disappointed when they realize that their KH will gladly lock them up and then that's it. No sex, no strap-on, no play or they don't get to see their wife have sex with other men or suck the bulls dick. Then they start complaining that it wasn't what they wanted... Wait, is your submission about you getting your needs met or are you submitting to make your Domme happy? There is bedroom submission and then there are genuine submission. I prefer the later one, if you submit to Me then your only mission in life is to make Me happy.
The same rule goes for Pro Dommes and Escorts as well gentlemen, treat them nicely and respectfully and they will return the favor and give you great value for your money.
It is not so hard to be polite, well mannered and a bit interesting before you overwhelm us with your desires. We know you are horny and desperate for your dreams to come true, but don't try to take a shortcut. Think about how you would behave if you met Dita von Teese and then behave the same way towards the women you meet and you will be way ahead of most men.
Until next time, be polite!
~ Lady Blaze 💋
Saturday, December 8, 2018
In memory of the first Alpha sub I ever met.
Today it is a special day, it is My late grandma's birthdate, may She rest in peace. She was a wonderful woman and She raised Me well. 💗But it is also 19 years since I met HIM. The man who changed My life forever and I didn't even know it at the time.
He was 6'6 and he had a body like a God, his deep voice sent shivers down My spine. He was so smart and extremely talented with amazing manners. He treated Me not like a Goddess but like a Druidess. He held out his hand for Me to use it as an ashtray. He sat next to Me the whole evening, paying attention to everyone but he only had eyes for Me. I didn't know that he was the first sub that I interacted with. He was just being the perfect gentleman I thought. Back then I was young and had a pretty bitchy and arrogant attitude and I was used to telling people what I thought and what I wanted. I didn't know that it was perceived as Dominant. (Today I am more calm, polite, assertive and direct, but I still intimidate people lol.)
Anyway, it was a very short saga but boy did he impact My life. I will forever be grateful for him and what he did. He was a sub, but when he opened his jacket that freezing day and pulled Me close it was the safest I have ever felt. I have been chasing that feeling ever since. So today I raise My glass of red wine in memory to one of the greatest men who ever lived and may his afterlife be better than the life he lived here! Forever loved and never forgotten.💕
~ Lady Blaze 💋
Friday, December 7, 2018
I need a goddamn warrior!
I absolutely love this and I wanted to share it with you guys. My vanilla friends tagged Me in this post and I smile because it describes so perfectly the man I long for.. Where is he, My warrior?
~Lady Blaze 💋
You are the strength of Turkish coffee at sunrise darlin’ and don’t try to pretend that You’re not.
You are one of the wild ones, and no matter how You tried to hide that fact, You can’t be anything other than what You are — and that’s okay. You are just as You are supposed to be, magnificently wild in all of Your chaotic beauty.
I know You’ve had Your heart broken and I know that You don’t understand why it always seems to never work out, but I’ve finally figured it out:
You don’t need a man, You need a goddamn warrior.
It doesn’t matter if this warrior drives a Jeep or a shiny sports car, and it won’t matter if he wears silk or cotton — it will not even matter if he works in a high-rise, or on the night shift.
What is going to matter is that when it comes to taking bets on Your heart, he is going to be high stakes — all the way.
This warrior of Yours will crave Your strength, and Your intensity. He’s going to look at You and not see something to tame, but something to just fuckin’ admire. This warrior of Yours won’t be someone that You can manipulate or play with as You have in the past, so honey, don’t even try — and trust me, You’re going to love him even more because of it.
Because You aren’t just a Woman, You’re a goddamn Goddess.
Your fierceness is going to bring him to his knees every single time he looks into Your gorgeous eyes, but the difference is, unlike the others, he isn’t going to be scared off. No, this time, You will have finally metYyour match — because a simple man for You just won’t do.
You need someone to match the fire in Your eyes with his own. Not only that, my little wild thing, but this warrior of Yours is going to want to encourage the flames instead of trying to douse them with his own insecurities.
Because for You, a warrior is the only man who will ever live in the wild with You.
He may not have to slay any dragons to earn Your love, but he would still walk through fire if it meant seeing that amazing smile that You hold in reserve for only him.
This is the thing, free spirit, this warrior You seek….he’s seeking You too.
For he’s had failed relationships that have left him wondering if maybe he was meant to be alone for the rest of his journey — and You’re going to change all of that for him. You both have been traveling along on Your separate journeys and have been doing an okay job at it, but that about to change too.
Because Baby, when You and this warrior of Yours meet and collide — it’s going to be a love set on fire.
Don’t try to run this time — I know Your heart has been broken before, and that You’re not used to things working out, but this time it’s different. Give Yourself time to see that.
This warrior of Yours needs to see that it’s possible for someone to see all of his wild, and still be there when he craves his freedom and ventures off into this world for a bit. You won’t always need to follow him, just as he won’t always follow You. Let Yourself stay wild, even when all You want to do is curl up in that spot along his side and forget the rest of the world exists.
Let yourself still wander naked under the full moon, and drink moonshine with the stars. Let Yourself feel the pull of the wind on Your heart, and the sun toward a new journey. Because this warrior is going to love You because of Your wild — and he’ll want You to keep it.
You’ll be in this together now, this amazing, crazy, chaotic, wonderfully heartbreaking life—because it takes a warrior to love a Goddess. And it takes a Goddess to show a warrior what real love is.
So pack up Your insecurities and Your ideas about picket fences, because that was never You anyway. You were born knowing that You were destined for more, and now is the time for You to see what all those dreams look like.
There is no stopping a love like this, so promise me You’ll hold out just a little bit longer.
Have a little bit of hope, and always give love just one more try, because I promise You my sweet wild Woman — the love that You seek is seeking You as well.
By Kate Rose, Aug 12, 2015
~Lady Blaze 💋
You Don’t Need A Man, You Need a Goddamn Warrior.
To my sweet wild Woman, I know why it hasn’t worked out with anyone else — You don’t need a man, but a goddamn warrior.You are the strength of Turkish coffee at sunrise darlin’ and don’t try to pretend that You’re not.
You are one of the wild ones, and no matter how You tried to hide that fact, You can’t be anything other than what You are — and that’s okay. You are just as You are supposed to be, magnificently wild in all of Your chaotic beauty.
I know You’ve had Your heart broken and I know that You don’t understand why it always seems to never work out, but I’ve finally figured it out:
You don’t need a man, You need a goddamn warrior.
It doesn’t matter if this warrior drives a Jeep or a shiny sports car, and it won’t matter if he wears silk or cotton — it will not even matter if he works in a high-rise, or on the night shift.
What is going to matter is that when it comes to taking bets on Your heart, he is going to be high stakes — all the way.
This warrior of Yours will crave Your strength, and Your intensity. He’s going to look at You and not see something to tame, but something to just fuckin’ admire. This warrior of Yours won’t be someone that You can manipulate or play with as You have in the past, so honey, don’t even try — and trust me, You’re going to love him even more because of it.
Because You aren’t just a Woman, You’re a goddamn Goddess.
Your fierceness is going to bring him to his knees every single time he looks into Your gorgeous eyes, but the difference is, unlike the others, he isn’t going to be scared off. No, this time, You will have finally metYyour match — because a simple man for You just won’t do.
You need someone to match the fire in Your eyes with his own. Not only that, my little wild thing, but this warrior of Yours is going to want to encourage the flames instead of trying to douse them with his own insecurities.
Because for You, a warrior is the only man who will ever live in the wild with You.
He may not have to slay any dragons to earn Your love, but he would still walk through fire if it meant seeing that amazing smile that You hold in reserve for only him.
This is the thing, free spirit, this warrior You seek….he’s seeking You too.
For he’s had failed relationships that have left him wondering if maybe he was meant to be alone for the rest of his journey — and You’re going to change all of that for him. You both have been traveling along on Your separate journeys and have been doing an okay job at it, but that about to change too.
Because Baby, when You and this warrior of Yours meet and collide — it’s going to be a love set on fire.
Don’t try to run this time — I know Your heart has been broken before, and that You’re not used to things working out, but this time it’s different. Give Yourself time to see that.
This warrior of Yours needs to see that it’s possible for someone to see all of his wild, and still be there when he craves his freedom and ventures off into this world for a bit. You won’t always need to follow him, just as he won’t always follow You. Let Yourself stay wild, even when all You want to do is curl up in that spot along his side and forget the rest of the world exists.
Let yourself still wander naked under the full moon, and drink moonshine with the stars. Let Yourself feel the pull of the wind on Your heart, and the sun toward a new journey. Because this warrior is going to love You because of Your wild — and he’ll want You to keep it.
You’ll be in this together now, this amazing, crazy, chaotic, wonderfully heartbreaking life—because it takes a warrior to love a Goddess. And it takes a Goddess to show a warrior what real love is.
So pack up Your insecurities and Your ideas about picket fences, because that was never You anyway. You were born knowing that You were destined for more, and now is the time for You to see what all those dreams look like.
There is no stopping a love like this, so promise me You’ll hold out just a little bit longer.
Have a little bit of hope, and always give love just one more try, because I promise You my sweet wild Woman — the love that You seek is seeking You as well.
By Kate Rose, Aug 12, 2015
Another one bites the dust.
Hello peasants,
I hope you are all doing well. It is freezing here today and I finally had to give in and start the AC unit for some heat (buildings here are not insulated so they are pretty cold). I wish I could find some form of self-heating socks/slippers and a heated poncho because it is so freezing inside. If I could I would wrap My electric blanket around Me.
I know it doesn't sound glamorous or sexy for one bit, but guess what, Dommes are not always dressed in leather and latex (mind you I would love to have a pair of leather trousers again for everyday use). In fact most of the time I am dressed like a dog trainer in jeans or very practical and comfortable clothes. At least in the winter, in the summertime, I wear dresses and skirts so I can show off My nice legs and shape.
Anyway, if you have any solutions on how to stay warm inside please share it in the comments because I am trying to cut back on electricity costs.
Some of you know that Mr Z had an accident where he hit his head pretty bad and he hasn't really been himself after that and it strained our friendship and relationship. I have been very patient with him but he let Me down one time too many and if people are not making Me happy, not contributing to improving My life and just gives Me stress, then they have to go. I only have time for things and humans that make Me happy, makes Me grow or makes Me money. It is a shame really because I will miss his cleaning service and the adult breastfeeding part tremendously but once the trust and respect are gone, then there is nothing left. He would have to make some major changes to gain My trust and respect back and honestly, I don't think he can man up for the task.
Unfortunately, Mr Z:s actions left Me in a very difficult situation financially so if anyone of you has been thinking about booking a session with Me, involving humiliation, online cuckolding, jerk off instructions, online missions or keyholding then please do so since I need to get back on track. I will also post My fetish paintings in the fetish shop HERE if anyone would like to purchase one.
If you want to reach out and show your support via tribute then please do so on: paypal.me/MissNielsen
I am planning to move this blog to a private domain as soon as possible and if you are an adult blogger with ideas on how to monetize this blog then please feel free to contact Me since all ideas and input are appreciated.
I am considering taking on a female sub or a CD just for doing the chores around the house. It is soo boring to do the dishes, it is not a task suitable for a Queen, wouldn't you agree? ;) I have been thinking about doing an alternative AIR BNB for subs who need a week or weekend away, they can come and they will have a room with a mattress on the floor, water, and porridge during their stay. What do you think, can it be a hit? It is a bit risky but there are ways to make it safe. I really wish I could buy an apartment and turn it into a BDSM dungeon and B&B. I think it could work out really well. Share your thoughts and comments below.
Until next time stay obedient.
~Lady Blaze 💋
I hope you are all doing well. It is freezing here today and I finally had to give in and start the AC unit for some heat (buildings here are not insulated so they are pretty cold). I wish I could find some form of self-heating socks/slippers and a heated poncho because it is so freezing inside. If I could I would wrap My electric blanket around Me.
I know it doesn't sound glamorous or sexy for one bit, but guess what, Dommes are not always dressed in leather and latex (mind you I would love to have a pair of leather trousers again for everyday use). In fact most of the time I am dressed like a dog trainer in jeans or very practical and comfortable clothes. At least in the winter, in the summertime, I wear dresses and skirts so I can show off My nice legs and shape.
Anyway, if you have any solutions on how to stay warm inside please share it in the comments because I am trying to cut back on electricity costs.
Some of you know that Mr Z had an accident where he hit his head pretty bad and he hasn't really been himself after that and it strained our friendship and relationship. I have been very patient with him but he let Me down one time too many and if people are not making Me happy, not contributing to improving My life and just gives Me stress, then they have to go. I only have time for things and humans that make Me happy, makes Me grow or makes Me money. It is a shame really because I will miss his cleaning service and the adult breastfeeding part tremendously but once the trust and respect are gone, then there is nothing left. He would have to make some major changes to gain My trust and respect back and honestly, I don't think he can man up for the task.
Unfortunately, Mr Z:s actions left Me in a very difficult situation financially so if anyone of you has been thinking about booking a session with Me, involving humiliation, online cuckolding, jerk off instructions, online missions or keyholding then please do so since I need to get back on track. I will also post My fetish paintings in the fetish shop HERE if anyone would like to purchase one.
If you want to reach out and show your support via tribute then please do so on: paypal.me/MissNielsen
I am planning to move this blog to a private domain as soon as possible and if you are an adult blogger with ideas on how to monetize this blog then please feel free to contact Me since all ideas and input are appreciated.
I am considering taking on a female sub or a CD just for doing the chores around the house. It is soo boring to do the dishes, it is not a task suitable for a Queen, wouldn't you agree? ;) I have been thinking about doing an alternative AIR BNB for subs who need a week or weekend away, they can come and they will have a room with a mattress on the floor, water, and porridge during their stay. What do you think, can it be a hit? It is a bit risky but there are ways to make it safe. I really wish I could buy an apartment and turn it into a BDSM dungeon and B&B. I think it could work out really well. Share your thoughts and comments below.
Until next time stay obedient.
~Lady Blaze 💋
Wednesday, December 5, 2018
Cuckold relationships and why I want it.
I wanted to write a little post about why I want to have a cuckold relationship. I learned a long time ago that I will never find everything I seek in one man. I have so many interests and needs, intellectual, emotional and sexual that one man simply can't keep up. Add to that the fact that I get bored really fast once a man stops wooing Me. It is not fair to expect him to fulfill all of My wishes/needs and it is not fair to Me to deny My needs. And for some reason, men become so lazy when they are the only player in the field.. Through in another player and suddenly they have to step up their game and look their best and present their best behavior to be interesting again. Needless to say this is awesome for Me as Woman.
So when I heard about cuckolding it was like a Eureka moment. A man who is OK with his Woman seeing other men while he is home recharging, taking care of his chores and waiting for Me to tell him about My wonderful evening. I mean come on, how does it become any better than this? Why aren't all Women into this? It is the perfect relationship for Me.
I love to flirt and I like attention so it is a perfect way for Me to get that part satisfied, some men are crazy about animal rescue and charities just like I am so I can have that with one lover/boyfriend.
I also like art, culture, shopping, dancing, fine dining etc. I can have that part together with one lover/boyfriend.
And then we have the geek, a man so smart that you wouldn't believe it, think Elon Musk and you get the picture. I need this to satisfy My intellectual side. I think a beautiful brain is My largest fetish. I mean that stuff is such a turn on!
And then I have My dear cuckold. He is the special one, he is My right hand, he is My knight, My protector and My love. I will treasure him for supporting Me, for giving Me the freedom I so crave.
His gift is so precious that I wouldn't have words to express it.
So you see it is not all about sex to Me. When those needs are satisfied I get turned on and then I will have sex with My men. Lady Blaze's Titans. It sure has a nice ring to it. It doesn't hurt if they are tall and good looking as well. It will just make Me use them more haha. But one thing that is really important for Me is that they are long term relationships and that they are really respectful towards My cuckold. I couldn't care less if they are black or white, well equipped or not. As long as they make Me happy and satisfies My needs then I have everything I can ask for.
Some cuckolds wants to be present when his Wife is meeting Her lover and he wants to interact with the bull/lover. For Me it is MY time when I am with a lover and My cuckold simply has to stay at home and suffer through his chores and his fantasies, after all the power of your mind is stronger than the reality..
So there you have it, it has very little to do with you guys and everything to do with Me. What can I say, I was spoiled and pampered as a child and I like to keep it that way.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
So when I heard about cuckolding it was like a Eureka moment. A man who is OK with his Woman seeing other men while he is home recharging, taking care of his chores and waiting for Me to tell him about My wonderful evening. I mean come on, how does it become any better than this? Why aren't all Women into this? It is the perfect relationship for Me.
I love to flirt and I like attention so it is a perfect way for Me to get that part satisfied, some men are crazy about animal rescue and charities just like I am so I can have that with one lover/boyfriend.
I also like art, culture, shopping, dancing, fine dining etc. I can have that part together with one lover/boyfriend.
And then we have the geek, a man so smart that you wouldn't believe it, think Elon Musk and you get the picture. I need this to satisfy My intellectual side. I think a beautiful brain is My largest fetish. I mean that stuff is such a turn on!
And then I have My dear cuckold. He is the special one, he is My right hand, he is My knight, My protector and My love. I will treasure him for supporting Me, for giving Me the freedom I so crave.
His gift is so precious that I wouldn't have words to express it.
So you see it is not all about sex to Me. When those needs are satisfied I get turned on and then I will have sex with My men. Lady Blaze's Titans. It sure has a nice ring to it. It doesn't hurt if they are tall and good looking as well. It will just make Me use them more haha. But one thing that is really important for Me is that they are long term relationships and that they are really respectful towards My cuckold. I couldn't care less if they are black or white, well equipped or not. As long as they make Me happy and satisfies My needs then I have everything I can ask for.
Some cuckolds wants to be present when his Wife is meeting Her lover and he wants to interact with the bull/lover. For Me it is MY time when I am with a lover and My cuckold simply has to stay at home and suffer through his chores and his fantasies, after all the power of your mind is stronger than the reality..
So there you have it, it has very little to do with you guys and everything to do with Me. What can I say, I was spoiled and pampered as a child and I like to keep it that way.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
Sunday, December 2, 2018
First of advent (+18)
Of course, My Jester lil dean was as helpful as ever. I wonder what he will do next Sunday when we need to light 2 candles. ;)
I did make some new connections with other Dommes and Doms this weekend so that was nice. I also spent some time thinking about My projects, paintings, and future blog posts. Since I am approached daily by cuckolds who talk about their fantasies I might share My point of view of cuckolding in My next post.
Until next time, stay obedient.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
Thursday, November 29, 2018
A loving sadist?
I talked with someone on Chastity Mansion and he is one the people who read My blog (thank you) and he mentioned that it was odd that I can be this nurturing, loving breastfeeding Domme and yet I can be this sadistic, ruthless Mistress who enjoys performing Falaka/Bastinado and other corporal punishments.
I never thought about it like that, but he has a point. I knew that I am a somewhat rare unicorn when it comes to My kinks. Breastfeeding is definitely considered one of the rarer kinks since it demands a lot of time and effort if you actually want to induce lactation. Falaka/Bastinado is rare amongst Dommes since it is more commonly performed by men on female subs, I guess you have to be tough to perform it since it really hurts.
I am a really sweet, positive and kind Woman. I even bake, cook, cuddles babies and save kittens/puppies and I will bring you a bowl of chicken soup if you are ill (I will leave the dishes for you though, everything within reason..) I will cuddle you and have fun with you for sure. If we are in a relationship where I let you suckle My breasts then we will have a very strong and deep bond for sure.
However, people tend to mistake My kindness and care for weakness and thinks that I am not firm enough. Well, I simply learned that you catch more flies with honey than with salt. ;) But strangely enough, I do not enjoy spanking/tormenting people for no reason. (if you pay Me for it I will actually enjoy it) But I truly enjoy handing out consequences and punishments when it is called for. It gives Me a very deep satisfaction. So if you mess up you will get punished and the punishment will be in relation to the severeness of your mistake.
I always strive for perfection, I always notice the things that can be improved and how to do it. I am actually paid to improve things, humans and situations. But I will give you an example.. If you bring Me, My coffee and it is not perfect, I will let you know and I will give you a small punishment, like standing in the corner. If you bring it again not to My liking, I will explain it again exactly how I want it and how you should do it and you will sit down and write one hundred lines about how to make perfect coffee for your Mistress.
If I notice that you are doing it a third time then you are either stupid or ignoring My wishes or trying to manipulate Me into spanking you because that is what you dream of. If it is because you are being stupid you will have a somewhat sore ass, if you are ignoring My wishes then you will have a really sore ass and in both scenarios, you will learn to do My coffee right by negative association. I have trained dogs and humans for a living, you are not a match for Me to train.
But if you are a manipulative little sub trying to top from the bottom I will make sure that you will not sit comfortably for a very, very long time and that every step you take will remind you of what you did and you will get more than you bargained for and you will think both once, twice and maybe five times before you try that again. Am I clear?
And if you are a masochist I will find other ways to punish you of course... *grins*
I am a reflection of your behavior, you choose what side of Me you want to see. The only thing I can say is to choose wisely...
By the way, if you haven't followed Me on Twitter yet, @LadyBlaze6, then head over there and do so right now.
Until next time, stay obedient.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
I never thought about it like that, but he has a point. I knew that I am a somewhat rare unicorn when it comes to My kinks. Breastfeeding is definitely considered one of the rarer kinks since it demands a lot of time and effort if you actually want to induce lactation. Falaka/Bastinado is rare amongst Dommes since it is more commonly performed by men on female subs, I guess you have to be tough to perform it since it really hurts.
I am a really sweet, positive and kind Woman. I even bake, cook, cuddles babies and save kittens/puppies and I will bring you a bowl of chicken soup if you are ill (I will leave the dishes for you though, everything within reason..) I will cuddle you and have fun with you for sure. If we are in a relationship where I let you suckle My breasts then we will have a very strong and deep bond for sure.
However, people tend to mistake My kindness and care for weakness and thinks that I am not firm enough. Well, I simply learned that you catch more flies with honey than with salt. ;) But strangely enough, I do not enjoy spanking/tormenting people for no reason. (if you pay Me for it I will actually enjoy it) But I truly enjoy handing out consequences and punishments when it is called for. It gives Me a very deep satisfaction. So if you mess up you will get punished and the punishment will be in relation to the severeness of your mistake.
I always strive for perfection, I always notice the things that can be improved and how to do it. I am actually paid to improve things, humans and situations. But I will give you an example.. If you bring Me, My coffee and it is not perfect, I will let you know and I will give you a small punishment, like standing in the corner. If you bring it again not to My liking, I will explain it again exactly how I want it and how you should do it and you will sit down and write one hundred lines about how to make perfect coffee for your Mistress.
If I notice that you are doing it a third time then you are either stupid or ignoring My wishes or trying to manipulate Me into spanking you because that is what you dream of. If it is because you are being stupid you will have a somewhat sore ass, if you are ignoring My wishes then you will have a really sore ass and in both scenarios, you will learn to do My coffee right by negative association. I have trained dogs and humans for a living, you are not a match for Me to train.
But if you are a manipulative little sub trying to top from the bottom I will make sure that you will not sit comfortably for a very, very long time and that every step you take will remind you of what you did and you will get more than you bargained for and you will think both once, twice and maybe five times before you try that again. Am I clear?
And if you are a masochist I will find other ways to punish you of course... *grins*
I am a reflection of your behavior, you choose what side of Me you want to see. The only thing I can say is to choose wisely...
By the way, if you haven't followed Me on Twitter yet, @LadyBlaze6, then head over there and do so right now.
Until next time, stay obedient.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
Monday, November 26, 2018
Why chastity?
Some people ask Me why I want My partner to wear a chastity device. Simply put, I will never trust a man to not play with his most precious possession, his cock if he has one big enough to be called that.. Most men do not have enough self-control to stay away from touching themselves when the urge gets too strong. They are after all the weaker sex.
But there are more reasons to why I want it. As a Professional Dog Trainer I have learned to study patterns and men who are in chastity and under orgasm control shows a different behavior than a man who gets to roam free and come when he wants. A man in chastity is helpful, caring, loving, attentive, he courts his Woman and focuses on Her, he bends over backward for Her, but the moment he gets his release, he becomes less attentive, less caring and loving. He doesn't help out and he slides back into his old patterns because he got to come and if he was really lucky, he got the cookie ´meaning he got to have sex with his Woman.
I personally think a man is a competitive creature by nature so he needs to have a goal to work for. It goes for everything in his life, work, sports, girls, material stuff etc. That's why so many relationships fail because once he gets the girl and the cookie he gets bored, he pays less attention to the girl and that is the beginning to the end.
But if you take away access to his little toy and orgasms and make him fight for it and earn it, then you suddenly have a much more attentive man in front of you. If My partner is a good lover I would definitely enjoy to have intercourse with him but he wouldn't necessarily come every time. But just because My man is in chastity and under orgasm control it doesn't mean that I should suffer. Because We Women are different, in fact, We are opposed to men. If we have an underfucked vagina that has dried up We are turned into some real bitter bitches. Sorry ladies but the that is the truth. A woman who is satisfied sexually and emotionally is a beautiful, positive, and happy.
So I personally think that 13 orgasms to Me and 1 to him is a pretty fair ratio. After all, if the Queen is happy, everyone is happy.
And the best part as a keyholder, you get to decide when he will have sex IF he will be allowed to have sex or orgasms at all. If you have a pesky husband that is nagging you for sex then here you have the perfect solution. Lock him up and teach him how to satisfy you and not until he does the job well is he allowed to have a release. Maybe you are turned on by watching him do housework, or by having him massaging you instead of pleasing you sexually. It is up to you what you as a keyholder wants from him. You are calling the shots and you make the rules. Control a mans cock and orgasms and you control the man. That's why concubines have been so important throughout the history of time because men are weak and slave under their orgasms.
Another positive side effect from wearing a chastity device is that he will not be able to stick his little dick in where it doesn't belong so he won't bring home any genital STD:s and he won't make another woman pregnant. However, he will still be able to cheat so if he is a notorious cheater this will not stop him from being with and satisfying other women and men. Yeah, they can be slutty like that.
If you want to be sure that he doesn't cheat and gets it off I would recommend having his little cock pierced and the piercing attached to the chastity device itself. Personally, I prefer metal models but you can find silicone, plastic and even rubber models. I wouldn't even bother with the rubber models because they can still orgasm with that if they play enough. I would also stay away from all the CB3000 CBbla bla, bla models because they are not that safe, to begin with, and a bit hard to put on. Most men choose this model though as their first model, I have absolutely no clue why.
Anyway, this was a few My thoughts about chastity. I do not currently have anyone in lockup but I do offer an affordable keyholding service so if you want to know more about this then please email Me at servingLadyBlaze@gmail.com
Sissyblueballs might have a few things to say as well about this subject and I would love to see both his and your thoughts about this in the comments below.
Until next time, take care.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
But there are more reasons to why I want it. As a Professional Dog Trainer I have learned to study patterns and men who are in chastity and under orgasm control shows a different behavior than a man who gets to roam free and come when he wants. A man in chastity is helpful, caring, loving, attentive, he courts his Woman and focuses on Her, he bends over backward for Her, but the moment he gets his release, he becomes less attentive, less caring and loving. He doesn't help out and he slides back into his old patterns because he got to come and if he was really lucky, he got the cookie ´meaning he got to have sex with his Woman.
I personally think a man is a competitive creature by nature so he needs to have a goal to work for. It goes for everything in his life, work, sports, girls, material stuff etc. That's why so many relationships fail because once he gets the girl and the cookie he gets bored, he pays less attention to the girl and that is the beginning to the end.
But if you take away access to his little toy and orgasms and make him fight for it and earn it, then you suddenly have a much more attentive man in front of you. If My partner is a good lover I would definitely enjoy to have intercourse with him but he wouldn't necessarily come every time. But just because My man is in chastity and under orgasm control it doesn't mean that I should suffer. Because We Women are different, in fact, We are opposed to men. If we have an underfucked vagina that has dried up We are turned into some real bitter bitches. Sorry ladies but the that is the truth. A woman who is satisfied sexually and emotionally is a beautiful, positive, and happy.
So I personally think that 13 orgasms to Me and 1 to him is a pretty fair ratio. After all, if the Queen is happy, everyone is happy.
And the best part as a keyholder, you get to decide when he will have sex IF he will be allowed to have sex or orgasms at all. If you have a pesky husband that is nagging you for sex then here you have the perfect solution. Lock him up and teach him how to satisfy you and not until he does the job well is he allowed to have a release. Maybe you are turned on by watching him do housework, or by having him massaging you instead of pleasing you sexually. It is up to you what you as a keyholder wants from him. You are calling the shots and you make the rules. Control a mans cock and orgasms and you control the man. That's why concubines have been so important throughout the history of time because men are weak and slave under their orgasms.
Another positive side effect from wearing a chastity device is that he will not be able to stick his little dick in where it doesn't belong so he won't bring home any genital STD:s and he won't make another woman pregnant. However, he will still be able to cheat so if he is a notorious cheater this will not stop him from being with and satisfying other women and men. Yeah, they can be slutty like that.
If you want to be sure that he doesn't cheat and gets it off I would recommend having his little cock pierced and the piercing attached to the chastity device itself. Personally, I prefer metal models but you can find silicone, plastic and even rubber models. I wouldn't even bother with the rubber models because they can still orgasm with that if they play enough. I would also stay away from all the CB3000 CBbla bla, bla models because they are not that safe, to begin with, and a bit hard to put on. Most men choose this model though as their first model, I have absolutely no clue why.
Anyway, this was a few My thoughts about chastity. I do not currently have anyone in lockup but I do offer an affordable keyholding service so if you want to know more about this then please email Me at servingLadyBlaze@gmail.com
Sissyblueballs might have a few things to say as well about this subject and I would love to see both his and your thoughts about this in the comments below.
Until next time, take care.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
Sunday, November 25, 2018
The servant
Hello again,
Last time I talked about what kind of sub/slave/cuck I want from a relationship point of view.
Today I want to talk about service subs. These are men I would not have sex with, they only exist to serve Me. A Queen always has servants around Her and that is My long-term goal. I want to have a household with multiple servant subs, like a driver, a butler etc. that will cater to My and My lover's needs.
That means that these men clean, shops, drives, gives massages/pedicures/manicures, they will deal with My social accounts, wannabe subs, manage My webpage, so on, so on.
They will have their slave accommodation and little uniforms and chastity device. Again My subs will never be naked, I absolute dislike watching naked men unless they have a body as a God.
They will be serving when I have My dinner parties, they will take care of My friends when we are having an SPA night etc. They will be around for our pleasure, nothing else. If they are well-behaved Me and My friends might reward them with a foot/boot licking session.
But if he misbehaves he will go to bed hungry and sleep on the floor with a thin blanket. If he is showing a very bad behavior, he will get spanked and flogged and trust Me, he will remember this lesson every time he sits down for a week.
Besides this we will work on his general appearance, to get him to level up at work and I will motivate him to be the best version of him he can possibly be because it will make Me feel fulfilled.
This was a little bit about My thoughts about this. Please share your thoughts in the comment section below.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
Last time I talked about what kind of sub/slave/cuck I want from a relationship point of view.
Today I want to talk about service subs. These are men I would not have sex with, they only exist to serve Me. A Queen always has servants around Her and that is My long-term goal. I want to have a household with multiple servant subs, like a driver, a butler etc. that will cater to My and My lover's needs.
That means that these men clean, shops, drives, gives massages/pedicures/manicures, they will deal with My social accounts, wannabe subs, manage My webpage, so on, so on.
They will have their slave accommodation and little uniforms and chastity device. Again My subs will never be naked, I absolute dislike watching naked men unless they have a body as a God.
They will be serving when I have My dinner parties, they will take care of My friends when we are having an SPA night etc. They will be around for our pleasure, nothing else. If they are well-behaved Me and My friends might reward them with a foot/boot licking session.
But if he misbehaves he will go to bed hungry and sleep on the floor with a thin blanket. If he is showing a very bad behavior, he will get spanked and flogged and trust Me, he will remember this lesson every time he sits down for a week.
Besides this we will work on his general appearance, to get him to level up at work and I will motivate him to be the best version of him he can possibly be because it will make Me feel fulfilled.
This was a little bit about My thoughts about this. Please share your thoughts in the comment section below.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
Friday, November 23, 2018
What is it I want from a sub/slave?
I feel that My previous post perhaps doesn't reveal in detail what I expect from a sub/slave from a submissive perspective.
⚜️ I expect to be on the subs/slaves mind when he wakes up and when he goes to bed. Meaning I expect there to be a good morning text and a good night text, every day.
⚜️ I expect the sub/slave to take care of most of the household chores. I enjoy doing housework sometimes (rarely) but most of the time it will be the subs/slaves responsibility. If he is not physically present and can perform the job then he will provide the funds for Me to hire someone to do his job for him.
⚜️ I expect him to follow the news and report back to Me any important things I need to know. I don't follow news on a daily basis since it makes Me depressed.
⚜️ I expect him to be an advisor in the areas where he has knowledge. Just because I am a Domme it doesn't mean that I cannot listen to advice from people with more knowledge. I am a leader, that is what the leader does and that's why they are successful.
⚜️ I expect him to be able to tell Me his needs, his wants, his dreams, what he is curious about, what he dislikes and what his hard limits are. This is to understand him better. Depending on the relationship I might or might not respect his thoughts. I also expect him to tell Me his ideas of rewards and punishments on different levels.
⚜️ I expect him to have a safeword that we will use while we are getting to know each other. Later on, this might or might not disappear.
⚜️ I want the sub/slave to be free to satisfy Me as he sees fit but he will always respect My say in things. Meaning that if he wants to wake Me up with a morning orgasm he is free to do so if he sees that My shoulders are tense he is free to come and give Me a shoulder rub or bring Me water when he sees that I haven't been drinking properly etc. Heck, he can even through Me over his shoulders with a roar when he is bursting from being horny, as long as he stops when I say so. You see, I need a functioning relationship with vanilla parts. Sometimes pure vanilla sex is highly underestimated.
⚜️ I need him to follow while I lead. I am not an easy person to live with but I am definitely worth it.
⚜️ I need him to confide in Me, discuss with Me, challenge My brain. I need his help to make him the best version of him he can possibly be and I need him to push Me to grow as well and to be the sensual and feminine Woman I am.
⚜️ I need him to make My life better and to make Me happy and buying Me time is making Me happy, being able to be creative makes Me happy. I cannot be this divine Goddess when I am working as a slave on 2 jobs to make ends meet and then come home and turn in to a sexy feminine Domme that will rock a subs/slaves world. That ain't happening today, and it ain't tomorrow.
So when I say that I want to have My bills and expenses paid, I am not talking about handbags and stuff. I want to have freedom, not stress about money, I want to be able to focus on the things that make Me happy, painting, writing, sex etc. I will always do some small work but right now I want to invest in Myself (education to build a small business, buy properties to get a passive income etc) to build a good life for both of us. If I am happy, the sub/slave is happy. Think of it as a stay at home Domme.
⚜️ I need him to share My kinks. And I need him to be able to understand that being submissive to Me has nothing to do with being naked, sleeping in a cage or drinking water from a bowl. That is play for betas. This is real, this is where boys become men and damn good ones! You can rule the world but rest assure that I will rule you.
⚜️ I need him to match My efforts on making the relationship work.
⚜️ And lastly, I need a sub/slave to be somewhat independent. I absolutely dislike needy and insecure people, it drives Me crazy. With this, I mean that We will have a schedule and a system/protocol that We both will follow. once this is established then I don't want to micromanage the sub/slave.
I hope this explains it a bit better.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
⚜️ I expect to be on the subs/slaves mind when he wakes up and when he goes to bed. Meaning I expect there to be a good morning text and a good night text, every day.
⚜️ I expect the sub/slave to take care of most of the household chores. I enjoy doing housework sometimes (rarely) but most of the time it will be the subs/slaves responsibility. If he is not physically present and can perform the job then he will provide the funds for Me to hire someone to do his job for him.
⚜️ I expect him to follow the news and report back to Me any important things I need to know. I don't follow news on a daily basis since it makes Me depressed.
⚜️ I expect him to be an advisor in the areas where he has knowledge. Just because I am a Domme it doesn't mean that I cannot listen to advice from people with more knowledge. I am a leader, that is what the leader does and that's why they are successful.
⚜️ I expect him to be able to tell Me his needs, his wants, his dreams, what he is curious about, what he dislikes and what his hard limits are. This is to understand him better. Depending on the relationship I might or might not respect his thoughts. I also expect him to tell Me his ideas of rewards and punishments on different levels.
⚜️ I expect him to have a safeword that we will use while we are getting to know each other. Later on, this might or might not disappear.
⚜️ I want the sub/slave to be free to satisfy Me as he sees fit but he will always respect My say in things. Meaning that if he wants to wake Me up with a morning orgasm he is free to do so if he sees that My shoulders are tense he is free to come and give Me a shoulder rub or bring Me water when he sees that I haven't been drinking properly etc. Heck, he can even through Me over his shoulders with a roar when he is bursting from being horny, as long as he stops when I say so. You see, I need a functioning relationship with vanilla parts. Sometimes pure vanilla sex is highly underestimated.
⚜️ I need him to follow while I lead. I am not an easy person to live with but I am definitely worth it.
⚜️ I need him to confide in Me, discuss with Me, challenge My brain. I need his help to make him the best version of him he can possibly be and I need him to push Me to grow as well and to be the sensual and feminine Woman I am.
⚜️ I need him to make My life better and to make Me happy and buying Me time is making Me happy, being able to be creative makes Me happy. I cannot be this divine Goddess when I am working as a slave on 2 jobs to make ends meet and then come home and turn in to a sexy feminine Domme that will rock a subs/slaves world. That ain't happening today, and it ain't tomorrow.
So when I say that I want to have My bills and expenses paid, I am not talking about handbags and stuff. I want to have freedom, not stress about money, I want to be able to focus on the things that make Me happy, painting, writing, sex etc. I will always do some small work but right now I want to invest in Myself (education to build a small business, buy properties to get a passive income etc) to build a good life for both of us. If I am happy, the sub/slave is happy. Think of it as a stay at home Domme.
⚜️ I need him to share My kinks. And I need him to be able to understand that being submissive to Me has nothing to do with being naked, sleeping in a cage or drinking water from a bowl. That is play for betas. This is real, this is where boys become men and damn good ones! You can rule the world but rest assure that I will rule you.
⚜️ I need him to match My efforts on making the relationship work.
⚜️ And lastly, I need a sub/slave to be somewhat independent. I absolutely dislike needy and insecure people, it drives Me crazy. With this, I mean that We will have a schedule and a system/protocol that We both will follow. once this is established then I don't want to micromanage the sub/slave.
I hope this explains it a bit better.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
Punishment for being so pathetic.. (+18)
Little dean got another zap, zap punishment because he got busted while doing one of his naked runs. Poor people who had to see his pathetic little wobble cock. He recorded it for your entertainment. Oh, by the way, he hasn't had an orgasm in 80 days and that is without a chastity device.
Enjoy the video.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
Enjoy the video.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
My dream sub/slave
My friend Sissyblueballs, asked Me what I was searching for in a sub/slave. Interesting question and it is very hard to answer since I am not 100% sure. This is what I have come up with so far and this list might change over time but this is what I want right now today.
I do know that the man I have a domestic relationship with has to be an Alpha or an Alpha sub. I don't become sexually attracted to beta men. That's why I don't do sissy play. I much rather see MY sub as My titan or champion. There is nothing sexier than a strong man who is more than capable to rule everyone in his surrounding and yet he chooses to submit to Me and Me only. That is a major turn on. He is most likely a man other men look up to and respects. He is smart, driven, capable, well mannered and have good social skills. He takes pride in making My life easier in every way he can and he makes sure that My needs are met and that I am cared for. We will be a power couple for sure.
⚜️ He knows how to treat Me like the sensual and feminine Woman I am. He is a gentleman who knows how to court Me to keep Me interested.
I do know that the man I have a domestic relationship with has to be an Alpha or an Alpha sub. I don't become sexually attracted to beta men. That's why I don't do sissy play. I much rather see MY sub as My titan or champion. There is nothing sexier than a strong man who is more than capable to rule everyone in his surrounding and yet he chooses to submit to Me and Me only. That is a major turn on. He is most likely a man other men look up to and respects. He is smart, driven, capable, well mannered and have good social skills. He takes pride in making My life easier in every way he can and he makes sure that My needs are met and that I am cared for. We will be a power couple for sure.
⚜️ He knows how to treat Me like the sensual and feminine Woman I am. He is a gentleman who knows how to court Me to keep Me interested.
⚜️ He is 100% submissive. I don't like to interact with switches.
⚜️ He is funny, interesting and a great communicator.
⚜️ He is taller than Me so taller than 1.70m. I find short men to be so annoying and most of the time suffering from the short man syndrome.
⚜️ He knows how to fix simple things around the house. With other words, he is capable to sort out any home or car problems.
⚜️ He takes good care of himself and his appearance.
⚜️ He constantly tries to grow as a sub/slave and as a human.
⚜️ He takes good care of himself and his appearance.
⚜️ He constantly tries to grow as a sub/slave and as a human.
⚜️ He can function like a normal person within the relationship even though We have the D/s dynamic. I am always dominant and the Queen but I have no desire to follow him around 24/7 and micromanage him. That is work and I don't like work.
⚜️ He craves to live in an FLR. It is a big plus if he is absolutely crazy about foot and pussy worship. Adult breastfeeding is another thing he must love since it is one of My major kinks.
⚜️ He is a cuckold who understands that sex is not what drives Me to have more than one relationships. I love to flirt and I grow tired of people fast, and one man cannot satisfy all of My needs so I find it to be the best lifestyle for Me. I get to keep My freedom and he gets to shut up and accept it. And while I am out having fun, he gets to clean the house and do his chores and fantasize about what I will be doing.
⚜️ He is OK with physical punishments. It is a plus if he is a bit of a masochist, it would please My inner sadistress since I love Bastinado/Falaka.
⚜️ He understands that as soon as he has signed his sub/slave contract his body is Mine to do with as I please. I own his orgasms and he will be in chastity 24/7 until I say otherwise.
⚜️ He is smart enough to ask what I want to have done, how I want to have it done, memorize it and then learn My routines so that he can be proactive when it comes to pleasing Me. If given no directions he will figure it out. After all, he is around to please Me and make My life easier in every way he can.
⚜️ He is financially stable without a lot of debts.
⚜️ He loves animals and kids
⚜️ His ultimate goal is to build a long-term relationship with Me and carry My permanent symbol one day.
⚜️ He understands that a Domme can be just as weak as she is strong and sometimes She needs a break.
⚜️ He understands that a Domme can be just as weak as she is strong and sometimes She needs a break.
He is NOT: a sissy, toilet slave.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
~ Lady Blaze 💋
Wednesday, November 21, 2018
Book Review: How to Be a Dominatrix: How to become a Dominatrix
Thanks to a dear switch who knows how to treat a Woman I had the opportunity to read this book:
I want to start with saying that wouldn't recommend anyone to buy this book and I returned it myself and gave it a 2 star review on Amazon, so if you want to purchase it and judge for yourself you have been warned. The book is 14 pages long, she manages to misspell BDSM to DBSM, she mentions diapers alot, doesn't even explain what safewords mean and the importance of it, same with subspace and she gives lousy whipping and flogging instructions. Do NOT give this book to a beginner Domme! That is My honest opinion and I am amazed by how much information these "guidebooks" are lacking. Scary to say the least. And I suspect that the author of this book just copied a bit of information from the book below and published it as her own. It is almost identical but Ms Lawsons book contains more information and is a much better purchase.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
~ Lady Blaze 💋
(If you are purchasing books via links on this page you will support Me, thank you! ;)
Book Review: Dominatrix 101: The Good Girl's Quick Guide to Dominating Her Man
I'm a bookworm and I like to read the work of other Dommes, because I get asked for advice so many times and it is handy to have a book recommendation to give them. I just finished reading this book:
(If you purchase any books by following links on My page you are supporting Me, thank you! ;)
It is a good but very basic book for couples who are a bit curious about BDSM and wants to try it out. The author mentions safewords and gives a little bit information about spanking, whipping and flogging, she mentions positions and things around your house that you can incorporate into your play. This author also mentions the use of diapers in BDSM play and rubber chastity devices (which I don't recommend). That makes Me think that this book was the role model for How to Be a Dominatrix: How to Become a Dominatrix by Veronica Salazar because they are extremely similar, but the later one lacks tons of information and I don't recommend this book.
If you have no knowledge at all about BDSM then Dominatrix 101 is the book for you.
I give it 3 High Heels out of 5
~ Lady Blaze 💋
Monday, November 19, 2018
lil dean and his new collar (+18)
And it was fun to see how excited his tiny, little, useless dick got. Shame he cannot come.. *laughing* zap, zap dean. We will be using it a lot in the future.
~Lady Blaze
Sunday, November 18, 2018
Lady Blaze's Fetish Store
Happy shopping!
~ Lady Blaze
Here we have My very well used sneakers, that has a nice aroma of My foot sweat. Walked barefoot in them all summer. I will wear them a bit more before I ship them off to you so they have a really strong smell when you sniff and lick them. Size 7
Price starts at 50 euros or 60 US dollars + shipping
Saturday, November 17, 2018
Spanking preparation...
I was having a very nice conversation with the sub "SBB"and we started talking about punishment spanking and how some people in the community advocates to not spank when you are angry and to warm up the areas before you start..
Let Me put it like this, what a load of nonsense! If you piss Me off you will face the repercussions effective immediately, with no cooling off time, you will just drop your pants, bend forward and count every single stroke you get until Me and My inner sadist are satisfied. you will also thank Me for your punishment and you will kiss My whip/cane/ rattan or whatever I used to punish you with. After that, you may take that sore behind and go and sit down on a hard chair and do some writing assignments. I will love to watch you squirm while you are sitting down. *hehe*
I don't have the lust, time or energy to prepare you or your ass for a spanking, you should have thought about that before you messed up subby boy. End of story.
Of course, if it is a sensitive little sissy that visits Me for Pro Domme sessions then it is totally different. Then we have to discuss the situation and follow the protocol.
What is your experience and what do you prefer?
~ Lady Blaze
Let Me put it like this, what a load of nonsense! If you piss Me off you will face the repercussions effective immediately, with no cooling off time, you will just drop your pants, bend forward and count every single stroke you get until Me and My inner sadist are satisfied. you will also thank Me for your punishment and you will kiss My whip/cane/ rattan or whatever I used to punish you with. After that, you may take that sore behind and go and sit down on a hard chair and do some writing assignments. I will love to watch you squirm while you are sitting down. *hehe*
I don't have the lust, time or energy to prepare you or your ass for a spanking, you should have thought about that before you messed up subby boy. End of story.
Of course, if it is a sensitive little sissy that visits Me for Pro Domme sessions then it is totally different. Then we have to discuss the situation and follow the protocol.
What is your experience and what do you prefer?
~ Lady Blaze
Friday, November 9, 2018
TGIF!
~ Lady Blaze
Storytime Hilton Istanbul
I started writing this story a while ago, let Me know what you think in the comments. Constructive feedback is appreciated via mail.
The valet is opening the car door for Me and I thank him, gives him a smile and I start walking slowly towards the entrance, as you are thanking the town car driver for his service.
I can hear you hurrying up behind Me because I know that you hate it when another man gets to open the door for Me, and I smile to Myself, you are so Alpha and yet you are so submissive My dear pet.
You have made reservations for us to stay in Hilton Istanbul Bosphorus for a relaxing weekend. Correction, I will relax, mingle, shop and you will do what you do best, serve Me and work.
We go over to the elevator and as always you wait for Me to go in first. As we come to our suite you open the door for Me. I walk over to the armchair and I sit down waiting for you to drop down to the floor and remove My black, leather, Jimmy Choo Mitchell ankle boots. My feet are warm after a whole day in boots so I teasingly tell you to clean them up, with your tongue.
You are not late to respond and as you lay there, on your knees, smelling, licking and kissing My feet, sucking on My pretty little toes with ruby red nail polish. I can see that you are loving every minute of it, eagerly licking Me between My toes and it feels so good I close My eyes and enjoy the moment.
I lean forward after a little while and I lift your head up by pulling you in your hair as I say in a soft yet assertive voice: "It's enough, now run along and prepare My bath!"
Mumbling and disappointed you reply "Yes Miss."
Do you think I should continue this story?
~ Lady Blaze
Misspyretttablaze@gmail.com
The valet is opening the car door for Me and I thank him, gives him a smile and I start walking slowly towards the entrance, as you are thanking the town car driver for his service.
I can hear you hurrying up behind Me because I know that you hate it when another man gets to open the door for Me, and I smile to Myself, you are so Alpha and yet you are so submissive My dear pet.
You have made reservations for us to stay in Hilton Istanbul Bosphorus for a relaxing weekend. Correction, I will relax, mingle, shop and you will do what you do best, serve Me and work.
We go over to the elevator and as always you wait for Me to go in first. As we come to our suite you open the door for Me. I walk over to the armchair and I sit down waiting for you to drop down to the floor and remove My black, leather, Jimmy Choo Mitchell ankle boots. My feet are warm after a whole day in boots so I teasingly tell you to clean them up, with your tongue.You are not late to respond and as you lay there, on your knees, smelling, licking and kissing My feet, sucking on My pretty little toes with ruby red nail polish. I can see that you are loving every minute of it, eagerly licking Me between My toes and it feels so good I close My eyes and enjoy the moment.
I lean forward after a little while and I lift your head up by pulling you in your hair as I say in a soft yet assertive voice: "It's enough, now run along and prepare My bath!"
Mumbling and disappointed you reply "Yes Miss."
Do you think I should continue this story?
~ Lady Blaze
Misspyretttablaze@gmail.com
Gifts and packages
Hello boys and girls, I hope you all have been behaving well in My absence?
I have gotten a few questions about how you can send gifts and money. Since I live in Turkey it is a bit tricky to send money and things to Me over here. The Turkish Customs has a new rule so anything worth more than approx. 20 euros get charged a ridiculous amount of tax that we have to pay before we can pick it up at the post office. That means that even if you buy and pays for it to have it delivered here it will get caught in customs. We are also limited when it comes to sending money via Cashapp etc.
To solve this you can:
A. Repackage things and send it as a gift.
I have gotten a few questions about how you can send gifts and money. Since I live in Turkey it is a bit tricky to send money and things to Me over here. The Turkish Customs has a new rule so anything worth more than approx. 20 euros get charged a ridiculous amount of tax that we have to pay before we can pick it up at the post office. That means that even if you buy and pays for it to have it delivered here it will get caught in customs. We are also limited when it comes to sending money via Cashapp etc.
To solve this you can:
A. Repackage things and send it as a gift.
B. Send Me a gift card on Amazon so I can buy books for My kindle.
C. Send money via Paypal, Transferwise, Payson, WU.
D. Send bitcoins
E. Send a prepaid debit card
For more specifik details email Me at MissPyrettaBlaze@gmail.com
If you tell Me that you want to give Me something specific with the money, like a pedicure, shoes etc I will make sure to send you a picture of it to confirm. Trust works in both ways.
And at last but definitely not least, thank you Alan for the gift card, it is very much appreciated.
So if you don't hear from Me for a couple of days, I am reading My new books! ;)
Don't forget to connect with Me on Twitter @LadyBlaze6
Until next time, behave!
~ Lady Blaze
C. Send money via Paypal, Transferwise, Payson, WU.
D. Send bitcoins
E. Send a prepaid debit card
For more specifik details email Me at MissPyrettaBlaze@gmail.com
If you tell Me that you want to give Me something specific with the money, like a pedicure, shoes etc I will make sure to send you a picture of it to confirm. Trust works in both ways.
And at last but definitely not least, thank you Alan for the gift card, it is very much appreciated.
So if you don't hear from Me for a couple of days, I am reading My new books! ;)
Don't forget to connect with Me on Twitter @LadyBlaze6
Until next time, behave!
~ Lady Blaze
Thursday, November 8, 2018
Think before you act and verified Dommes
I'm so tired of all the little princesses that shows up on Twitter and Tumblr, hiding their faces and they don't know and don't care about dominance, subs, and subspace.
Sure it is a great way to make easy money and some of you subs are so stupid that you deserve to be used like that. I have no sympathy at all for you if they emptied your accounts. You are all accountable and responsible for your life and actions. Either you do your research and interact with verified Dommes and use your brain or you will pay a very high price. It is your choice.
Personally, I prefer to build friendships with My subs. I am a natural born leader and a Domme. I have always been like that and I will always be like that. I know how important you subs are and that we need each other to be happy. You are My loyal men and servants.
Of course, I want to be spoiled, pampered and not worry about boring, mortal things like bills, cleaning etc. I want to relax, train, meditate, working on becoming the best possible version of Me and continue to grow as a person. Who doesn't?! If your
Queen is happy, you are happy, that is law.
So don't ask what your Queen can do for you, ask yourself what you can do for your Queen.
~Lady Blaze
Sure it is a great way to make easy money and some of you subs are so stupid that you deserve to be used like that. I have no sympathy at all for you if they emptied your accounts. You are all accountable and responsible for your life and actions. Either you do your research and interact with verified Dommes and use your brain or you will pay a very high price. It is your choice.
Personally, I prefer to build friendships with My subs. I am a natural born leader and a Domme. I have always been like that and I will always be like that. I know how important you subs are and that we need each other to be happy. You are My loyal men and servants.
Of course, I want to be spoiled, pampered and not worry about boring, mortal things like bills, cleaning etc. I want to relax, train, meditate, working on becoming the best possible version of Me and continue to grow as a person. Who doesn't?! If your
Queen is happy, you are happy, that is law.
So don't ask what your Queen can do for you, ask yourself what you can do for your Queen.
~Lady Blaze
Monday, November 5, 2018
Keyholding and orgasm control
"If you control a mans orgasms, you control the man" ~ Lady Blaze
I absolutely love orgasm control and the power it gives Me. It is a massive turn on to literally have your balls in My hand. As a professional dog trainer, it is really funny to see how similar you subs are to other animals and how easy it is to train you. All I need to do is to take away your possibility to play with your pathetic cocks and you will submit and do anything I say. I have been told that I am too strict because I keep men locked up for long periods and I make you earn your orgasms. However, of course, they will be ruined or less enjoyable than normal. Not many subs can manage to be locked up by Me, I don't play with wimps. There are plenty of Dommes who do.
I play with the elite, the strong subs who genuinely wants to submit their body, mind, and heart to Me. The satisfaction I get when I see My sub locked up with My lock and his key in My neck chain knowing that he is helpless, he has no other option than to obey... A fantastic feeling! If that isn't the ultimate power then I don't know what is. Of course, the ultimate goal is to train him so well that he doesn't need to wear a chastity device at all. But that takes a lot of willpower, determination, and dedication and only 1% of you subs have the capacity to manage it.
However, I know that many of you subs and cuckolds don't have a keyholder and you long to be controlled and have a Woman like Me control your orgasms and lock your useless cocks away. Now you will have the opportunity to be locked away by Me. I know the online keyholding services that are available today are quite expensive and not a possible option for all of you so I have decided to help you subs out, this offer will expire on 23 of November.
Online keyholding Basic I (with your lock and key and you send your spare key to Me)
Includes: 1 email per day, where you send your picture and I will do random control: $150/month
If you prefer that I will send you My lock with one key, sealed then it will cost $250 for the first month after that $150/month.
If you prefer plastic locks or want to add humiliation or tease sessions via skype or kik please contact Me directly via mail:servingLadyBlaze@gmail.com
I absolutely love orgasm control and the power it gives Me. It is a massive turn on to literally have your balls in My hand. As a professional dog trainer, it is really funny to see how similar you subs are to other animals and how easy it is to train you. All I need to do is to take away your possibility to play with your pathetic cocks and you will submit and do anything I say. I have been told that I am too strict because I keep men locked up for long periods and I make you earn your orgasms. However, of course, they will be ruined or less enjoyable than normal. Not many subs can manage to be locked up by Me, I don't play with wimps. There are plenty of Dommes who do.
I play with the elite, the strong subs who genuinely wants to submit their body, mind, and heart to Me. The satisfaction I get when I see My sub locked up with My lock and his key in My neck chain knowing that he is helpless, he has no other option than to obey... A fantastic feeling! If that isn't the ultimate power then I don't know what is. Of course, the ultimate goal is to train him so well that he doesn't need to wear a chastity device at all. But that takes a lot of willpower, determination, and dedication and only 1% of you subs have the capacity to manage it.
However, I know that many of you subs and cuckolds don't have a keyholder and you long to be controlled and have a Woman like Me control your orgasms and lock your useless cocks away. Now you will have the opportunity to be locked away by Me. I know the online keyholding services that are available today are quite expensive and not a possible option for all of you so I have decided to help you subs out, this offer will expire on 23 of November.
Online keyholding Basic I (with your lock and key and you send your spare key to Me)
Includes: 1 email per day, where you send your picture and I will do random control: $150/month
If you prefer that I will send you My lock with one key, sealed then it will cost $250 for the first month after that $150/month.
If you prefer plastic locks or want to add humiliation or tease sessions via skype or kik please contact Me directly via mail:servingLadyBlaze@gmail.com
Sunday, November 4, 2018
Lady Blaze and Mr Z
It is an amazing feeling when you meet someone who loves you exactly the way you are. It is even more wonderful when a kinky person like Myself meets a vanilla Alpha man who totally supports this side of Me and takes his role as My lover and My champion. So I want to introduce you to Mr Z, he is a tall silver fox, a gentleman who spent some time in the Turkish army and he is very capable in many areas. *giggles* But you losers wouldn't know anything about that because you will never be able to please Women like Me. The only thing we can do with you and your wiggle worms is to lock you up and keep it out of sight! A steel cage that is permanently locked! Wouldn't you like that?
There will be some short stories about Me and Mr Z coming up in the near future that might turn you cuckolds on. ;) At least you will get a glimpse of how a real Alpha satisfies a woman.
There will be some short stories about Me and Mr Z coming up in the near future that might turn you cuckolds on. ;) At least you will get a glimpse of how a real Alpha satisfies a woman.
Falaka/ Bastinado
Ever since I was a teenager I have been fascinated by foot torture and especially Bastinado also known as Falaka. I read about it in a novel and it just stuck in My mind.
Falaka/Bastinado is when you hit someone on the soles of their feet, you can use a riding crop, rattan, cables etc. They used this punishment in harems back in the day. It was very effective since it is extremely painful but doesn't leave a mark on the body. So the girls in the sultan's harem would still be able to perform their duties and look pretty. I love the fact that it doesn't leave any marks and the sub will remember Me and the session with every step he takes. That is a major turn on for the sadist in Me.
And isn't it funny that I ended up living in Turkey, the country of Falaka? To top it off I will get a lesson in it from someone who did it to people the army way, just the thought of it turns Me on! We just need to find a willing masochist. ;)
Do you like foot torture and what have experienced? Be a good sub and leave a comment below.
~Lady Blaze
Falaka/Bastinado is when you hit someone on the soles of their feet, you can use a riding crop, rattan, cables etc. They used this punishment in harems back in the day. It was very effective since it is extremely painful but doesn't leave a mark on the body. So the girls in the sultan's harem would still be able to perform their duties and look pretty. I love the fact that it doesn't leave any marks and the sub will remember Me and the session with every step he takes. That is a major turn on for the sadist in Me.
And isn't it funny that I ended up living in Turkey, the country of Falaka? To top it off I will get a lesson in it from someone who did it to people the army way, just the thought of it turns Me on! We just need to find a willing masochist. ;)
Do you like foot torture and what have experienced? Be a good sub and leave a comment below.
~Lady Blaze
Friday, November 2, 2018
A new beginning.
Dear subs and followers, you may have noticed that I have been absent for quite some time. I had to take a break from everything because I ended up being burned out. Now I am in a new stage in My life, I have realized that I was not created to work for someone else, I am supposed to inspire, rule and be adored so this is the start of My new life. I will work on inspiring women and men who want to learn about feminine and classy dominance, Alpha Subs, FLR, D/s, cuckolding, chastity and of course corporal punishment as Falaka. It will be both My job and My lifestyle since it is who I am and I cannot suppress it anymore. I have some exciting projects planned. There will be a members club for Dommes and one for subs. There will be events presented and BDSM holiday opportunities. I will also start publishing some of My short stories so you have an opportunity to see a glimpse of My kinky brain.
I will also start providing the following services online via Skype or KIK to very reasonable prices:
I will also start providing the following services online via Skype or KIK to very reasonable prices:
- Chastity and cuckolding.
- Foot torture sessions.
- Foot worship sessions.
- Humiliation and SPH sessions.
- Weight loss for subs coaching.
- The Gentleman sub coaching.
If you are interested in anything of the above, to show your appreciation and support then please contact Me via mail: missninanielsen@gmail.com
Have a kinky weekend you all.
~ Lady Blaze
Have a kinky weekend you all.
~ Lady Blaze
Saturday, March 24, 2018
Sub school.
Every single day when I open My inbox I see this:
"Hey!"
"Hi I want to meet u."
"do u like to watch"
"Hey!"
"Hi I want to meet u."
"do u like to watch"
"mistress what can i do for you..."
The lack of respect many of you subs show online is unbelievable.. Saying "u" to any person is disrespectful and if you do it to a Domme She should smack your fingers with a ruler. It is spelled You when you are writing with a Domme.
Don't hey Me.. I am not some random girl you bump into. Introduce yourself properly, like a man!
And let's make something very clear. Just because I am a Domme and you are a sub it doesn't mean that we automatically should meet. It takes a little bit more for Me to be excited enough to even engage in conversation. There is 1000 of you and 1 of Me, do the math.
Mistress this, princess that. I am not your Mistress, you have not earned the privilege to call Me that so just don't.
And do I like to watch? Watch what? My bank account after our online session? Or watching the cleaning lady, you paid for, doing her job? Yes, I do like that a lot! Sitting and watching you naked online, not so much..
So please dear subs, if you want to be more successful when it comes to finding a Domme, then take a long and good look at yourself. If you are not approaching her like she is Marilyn Monroe or Beyonce then do better and improve your manners.
~ Lady Blaze
The lack of respect many of you subs show online is unbelievable.. Saying "u" to any person is disrespectful and if you do it to a Domme She should smack your fingers with a ruler. It is spelled You when you are writing with a Domme.
Don't hey Me.. I am not some random girl you bump into. Introduce yourself properly, like a man!
And let's make something very clear. Just because I am a Domme and you are a sub it doesn't mean that we automatically should meet. It takes a little bit more for Me to be excited enough to even engage in conversation. There is 1000 of you and 1 of Me, do the math.
Mistress this, princess that. I am not your Mistress, you have not earned the privilege to call Me that so just don't.
And do I like to watch? Watch what? My bank account after our online session? Or watching the cleaning lady, you paid for, doing her job? Yes, I do like that a lot! Sitting and watching you naked online, not so much..
So please dear subs, if you want to be more successful when it comes to finding a Domme, then take a long and good look at yourself. If you are not approaching her like she is Marilyn Monroe or Beyonce then do better and improve your manners.
~ Lady Blaze
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