When you have a problem you decide how to handle it and how to look at it. And I decided to use it to explain something that might be an eye-opener to some of you.
As a Professional Dog trainer I have learned to study behaviors and patterns and in today's society, we have a tendency to not appreciate the things that are given to us freely or easily. This is the mentality of humans. It is really not nice but this is how it is.
It becomes pretty clear if we take a look at the shelters and rehoming ads of pets today. It is most of the time the cheap mix breeds that are up for adoption and sent to the shelters, dumped in the woods or euthanized when they are ill instead of receiving medical treatment etc.
Pedigree dogs and cats hold a higher value and people seem to take care of them much more, they get medical treatments for them, they go to doggy school, they take out insurance for them and they are rarely sent to the shelters. Why is that? Because they are much more expensive to purchase and people have INVESTED more money into the pedigree pet so it has a higher value.
It is the same with horses, you can get a cheap mix breed horse that has been rehomed 15 times and finally it ends up as a hamburger on your table because they don't want to spend money on medical bills or when they are tired of caring for it. How often do you think that happens to a horse that costs 50.000 Euros to purchase? Do you think they buy the cheap saddle for that horse or a more expensive one? Of course the more expensive one.
Heck even lock at the foster/daycare today, so many kids in foster/daycare today are treated so much worse than the carers own kids, why? They haven't invested emotions, time and money in the child, they didn't carry it for 9 months and they didn't stay up at night to nurse it when it was ill.
The same goes for us Women, a basic chick who is paying for her man to sit home all day and bends over backward for him, she gets cheated on, yelled at, she gets used and abused, she is nothing more than a free pussy and he will leave her and her wet behind when he comes across something more valuable. This is why I cut Mr Z off immediately when he stopped investing in Me. I refuse to be that basic woman.
But men who INVEST his time and money in his woman tends treats Her better. A Woman who is high maintenance seldom gets divorced or cheated on. Why? Because She is VALUABLE and he knows it will cost him so much more if he loses Her. And a smart Woman returns the favor by VALUING his efforts. They are both INVESTING in each other. This is what most people miss when it comes to relationships. You might read My posts here about a generous sub, about how I want to be cared for. There are a reason and logic behind everything I do. And every time I step away from it and lower My standards to fit in the shit hits the fan. This is why I don't INVEST My time and energy in online chat or games if the sub haven't INVESTED in Me. It is never going to happen.
When you take ownership of a man's cock and orgasms, magical things happen to his behavior. That's why I want to have a man in chastity. Besides, we all know that you are not capable to control that thing anyway. And when you take a mans money in combination with his orgasms, then you get his undivided attention and emotional investment and that is when he gets to feel the reward of all of his efforts.
And until this day, the most valuable gift I have ever received was an old Braun electric toothbrush, not because it was very expensive at the time, but because he took every last penny he had, he even walked to the store to buy it because if he took the bus he wouldn't be able to buy it for My birthday. That was more than 17 years ago. So it isn't about the amount that was spent, it is about the effort, the sacrifice and investment.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
Thursday, December 27, 2018
Tuesday, December 25, 2018
Mr Z is such a gentleman..
Mr Z was just here and it ended with Me slamming the door in his face after calling him a son of a bitch. I was fuming and I am still upset. I hope I don't run into him and that he keeps his mouth shut if I do.
Mr Z has kittens that I watched for him, for free, both when he left for Ankara and when he urgently left because his friend was ill. One of them destroyed My earphones and when I told him about it he said don't worry, he would buy new ones for Me. To Me it is kind of important because I need them to sleep and you all know My current financial situation.
Today when I wrote to him reminding him about it, he came around here and was angry and demanded money for the rainboots he bought for Me a few months back (I thought it was as a gift) and that I return the money he sent me when he was away. I never asked him to send Me any money or to buy the boots but it all equals $40 in total. He spent so much time here, behaved like My boyfriend, took up My time, drank My wine, ate My food and now he is asking Me for $40?! What am I missing here? Does this mean that I should charge him for the unsatisfying sex we had and the cat sitting I did for free? I'm just asking..
Mr Z has kittens that I watched for him, for free, both when he left for Ankara and when he urgently left because his friend was ill. One of them destroyed My earphones and when I told him about it he said don't worry, he would buy new ones for Me. To Me it is kind of important because I need them to sleep and you all know My current financial situation.
Today when I wrote to him reminding him about it, he came around here and was angry and demanded money for the rainboots he bought for Me a few months back (I thought it was as a gift) and that I return the money he sent me when he was away. I never asked him to send Me any money or to buy the boots but it all equals $40 in total. He spent so much time here, behaved like My boyfriend, took up My time, drank My wine, ate My food and now he is asking Me for $40?! What am I missing here? Does this mean that I should charge him for the unsatisfying sex we had and the cat sitting I did for free? I'm just asking..
It is sad when you genuinely liked someone and they just use people. I missed him so much when he was away in Ankara and I was longing for him to come back but when I realized that his words were all empty and he left Me in a really difficult predicament then I lost all feelings. It became even worse when he said some really insulting things to Me about who I should date. I totally flatlined, and now when I look at him I just feel disgusted. I can't be with a man I can't trust, who doesn't have My back and doesn't care for Me, I just can't.
I want a genuine, loving D/s relationship with My main partner and possibly lovers. It goes against all of My personal beliefs to use people, I cannot be with a person just because of his money. I would feel sick to My stomach. I still believe in love, but I am really disappointed in so-called men. This is why I want a generous and genuinely submissive man. I am so done with the vanilla men that you wouldn't believe it!
I need to meditate and perhaps use Neville Goddards revision technique and revise the situation. I definitely didn't need this extra drama in My life. Oh, I really hope My visitors will come in January, I need something positive to look forward to.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
I want a genuine, loving D/s relationship with My main partner and possibly lovers. It goes against all of My personal beliefs to use people, I cannot be with a person just because of his money. I would feel sick to My stomach. I still believe in love, but I am really disappointed in so-called men. This is why I want a generous and genuinely submissive man. I am so done with the vanilla men that you wouldn't believe it!
I need to meditate and perhaps use Neville Goddards revision technique and revise the situation. I definitely didn't need this extra drama in My life. Oh, I really hope My visitors will come in January, I need something positive to look forward to.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
The fuckery (Personal Rant about vanilla life)
It then went on to have a conversation with an old colleague who insisted on Me coming to Monte Negro for work. I explained that I don't want to because of health reasons My suspected PTSD is acting up and I don't want to leave My ill furlings. And again, another Turk who wouldn't respect My no.
Then I posted a personal ad in a group on FL and one of the subs threw a temper tantrum on there as well because of My ad.. From that moment, the day just continued to be more gloomy, My dog has been ill all day and it was just a really shitty day.
I normally don't have a problem being alone on Christmas but this year it is extra tough. I'm tired, and I feel alone, I need some serious TLC. I realized that when I was doing the dishes, I started crying. I feel lonely, forgotten and unloved. I'm tired of feeling like Atlas, carrying the world on My shoulders. My 2 primary love languages are when people give Me gifts and when they do something for Me, that's why I liked Mr Z. He took care of the cleaning for Me and it meant so much to come into a clean kitchen and bathroom, not having to clean the litterboxes or taking out the garbage etc. It helped Me think better and to be more creative. Now it feels like I either clean or paint or I work. I cannot do all, I cannot cope. I really need to paint, painting makes Me feel so much better and of course My walks. It is impossible to feel bad on the beach.
So I have made Myself a promise, I will not get involved with another man on a personal level unless he is able to provide for Me so I can focus on being the best Woman and leader for him and give him the very best of Me. I just want him to make My life easier so I can focus on love, sex and being happy. I need a fucking break, I have been fighting non-stop since 2009. I wish I could get at least a year off with 1200 euros every month to just destress. Knowing Me I will most likely come up with some project before the year is over but it would be so nice to be cared for and be able to breathe.
To feel loved and supported. Something seriously needs to change.
Well at least My dog is feeling better, I had some Swedish original gingerbread, marzipan, I had some hot spiced wine, and a real traditional Swedish dinner, not Christmas dinner but it was ok. I talked with 2 very dear friends from Sweden who made me feel a bit better. Hopefully, I will have some visitors coming in January that might lead to something.
I genuinely wish you all a much better Christmas than I had. If you have a relative living abroad/far away, reach out to them, it means so much!
Stay blessed.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
Sunday, December 23, 2018
God Yule and Merry Christmas!
My celebration is not different from any other days except that I eat better, doesn't feel guilty for binge-watching something on Netflix and I talk a lot with a really good friend from Sweden who also celebrates alone.
When I was looking for some nice pictures I noticed something and it was that there wasn't really any nice, beautiful and classy Femdom pictures like the ones below. So I have decided that when I get an IRL sub we will take beautiful pictures because there is definitely a need for that.
By the way, I opened an account on bdsmlr.com and you can find Me here: https://ladyblaze.bdsmlr.com
Until next time, Merry Christmas!
~ Lady Blaze 💋
Saturday, December 22, 2018
Day dreaming and a book recommendation
Hello subs, wimps and others, I hope you are all doing well and that you have behaved well so you will get a gift in your stocking and under the tree.
I must have been a very bad Queen because there is absolutely nothing under the tree this year. My "extra" family normally sends a care package but not this year.
I had another lovely walk down by the beach today and I sat down with My dog and daydreamed for a bit. I was thinking about how nice it could be to have a small secluded B&B here in the Marmaris area, totally run by subs. Like a membership hotel, where munches could be held, Dommes could come with their pets and just enjoy themselves. There is a place called the Address in Selimiye, that has the perfect location, it is My dream home but I am not sure how suitable it is for a B&B. the property is gated to ensure privacy and I would have 2-3 rottweilers guarding the premises. My ex has a small boutique hotel next to it, I could always rent that from him perhaps.. It would definitely make more profit if I did! And it has a larger capacity and it has some privacy. Hmm maybe I could find some submissive and kinky investors, that would be a perfect solution. I need to think more about this. The best thing would be a castle or a mansion but they don't have many of those here and it might a little bit much to start off with.
All rooms would be themed. of course. Most do color themed rooms but I think I would take another approach. There would definitely be a room called La Bastille with a small Madame Guillotine for CBT. Don't worry, not to cut off your most precious little part but to hurt it a bit. Instead of a blade, there could be weights.. I would have so much fun with that. And no dungeon is complete without the Iron Maiden. Yes, I do like old school torture devices because they are so evil.
A slave room with cages and hooks in the wall for the subs to be chained to.
What do you guys think, would you suggest a place like that for your Domme as a holiday location?
By the way, for all of you cuckolds out there. I had a nice date today with a vanilla captain, we will see where it might lead to. He is actually younger than Me but that might be exactly what I need. I have a ferocious appetite these days. ;)
Now it is time to relax with a good book. Lyon on a leash. It is a softcore book about a Domme who is pretty similar to Me, that's why I like it. There are not any real scenes described in the book but I like the dominance and submission that it is about and the everyday dynamic between them. Marcus is like the kind of sub I would be attracted to. I like it but I don't know if you men would like it, but if you are more into D/s I am sure you can relate. If you read it please let Me know what you think in the comments.
If you buy the book via this link you will be supporting Me ;)
Stay obedient!
~ Lady Blaze 💋
I must have been a very bad Queen because there is absolutely nothing under the tree this year. My "extra" family normally sends a care package but not this year.
I had another lovely walk down by the beach today and I sat down with My dog and daydreamed for a bit. I was thinking about how nice it could be to have a small secluded B&B here in the Marmaris area, totally run by subs. Like a membership hotel, where munches could be held, Dommes could come with their pets and just enjoy themselves. There is a place called the Address in Selimiye, that has the perfect location, it is My dream home but I am not sure how suitable it is for a B&B. the property is gated to ensure privacy and I would have 2-3 rottweilers guarding the premises. My ex has a small boutique hotel next to it, I could always rent that from him perhaps.. It would definitely make more profit if I did! And it has a larger capacity and it has some privacy. Hmm maybe I could find some submissive and kinky investors, that would be a perfect solution. I need to think more about this. The best thing would be a castle or a mansion but they don't have many of those here and it might a little bit much to start off with.
All rooms would be themed. of course. Most do color themed rooms but I think I would take another approach. There would definitely be a room called La Bastille with a small Madame Guillotine for CBT. Don't worry, not to cut off your most precious little part but to hurt it a bit. Instead of a blade, there could be weights.. I would have so much fun with that. And no dungeon is complete without the Iron Maiden. Yes, I do like old school torture devices because they are so evil.
A slave room with cages and hooks in the wall for the subs to be chained to.
What do you guys think, would you suggest a place like that for your Domme as a holiday location?
By the way, for all of you cuckolds out there. I had a nice date today with a vanilla captain, we will see where it might lead to. He is actually younger than Me but that might be exactly what I need. I have a ferocious appetite these days. ;)
Now it is time to relax with a good book. Lyon on a leash. It is a softcore book about a Domme who is pretty similar to Me, that's why I like it. There are not any real scenes described in the book but I like the dominance and submission that it is about and the everyday dynamic between them. Marcus is like the kind of sub I would be attracted to. I like it but I don't know if you men would like it, but if you are more into D/s I am sure you can relate. If you read it please let Me know what you think in the comments.
If you buy the book via this link you will be supporting Me ;)
~ Lady Blaze 💋
Monday, December 17, 2018
My wishlist
Hello,
I feel really great today, took the dogs for a long walk along the beach and it was a fabulous scenery. I will practice My painting until I can capture some of its beauty. I just love the beach, the sea, and the air. It gives Me the perfect start of My day.
So some of you remember that I am Swedish so that means that I am celebrating Christmas not just one day but we start the 23rd and celebrates until the 26th and we open our gifts on the 24th.
I am not a fan of big parties, I actually prefer to be home and just enjoy the peace and quiet. But I do however absolutely love to be pampered, eat and drink well and to receive gifts so I made a Christmas wishlist for you guys so you can contribute to making My holiday more relaxed.
Lingerie
(In Turkey all the women wear new red lingerie on New Year's Eve)
Helly Hansen jacket
Box Braids at the salon
Nice wine and champagne for New Years Eve
Massage
Whips, riding crop, tawse, and other BDSM equipment
(all of mine are packed up and stored away in Sweden.)
Domain and hosting for this blog
Kindle Paperwhite
Rowing Machine
A smart TV
Marisa Peer Hypnotherapist course
And of course as always money or Amazon Giftcards (US) so I can buy what I want.
I have decided to make a few changes to My life and some of them are to become more healthy so next year I will start dancing again. I love to dance and especially belly dancing since it is so sensual. It is actually the reason for how I ended up in Turkey. I also decided to change My appearance so I want to have box braids again since it always looks good and it is so easy to maintain. I have to look good when I am out walking the dogs, you never know when I will bump into a nice Alpha lover.. ;) And it will really catch their attention since I would be the only one here who has box braids. I feel that it is time to get back out there and find an Alpha man who can do with Me what you boys can't! *giggles* Oh how I wish I could hold the keys to your chastity devices and just tease the hell out of you. Imagine the rush to be in another country and your key is in Turkey. Now that would be like playing in Champions League. I doubt any of you would be able to do it. ;)
And since you are not here to give Me a massage the least you can do is to give Me a professional massage.
I also want to build up My BDSM toybox again especially since I am planning on being more active in the scene here in Turkey and some of you will actually get the opportunity to come and serve Me in real life. I am playing with the idea of offering a slave room for subs who travels out here on holiday. What do you think, would you like to have a holiday where you serve a Domme, be her domestic little house slave and sleep on a mattress on the floor? Being served porridge and water for a week? Would you like that? If nothing else you would lose some weight..
Another thing I decided to change is to start reading again. I have a very old Kindle without a touch screen and it is driving Me crazy so I want a newer one, paperwhite. I currently don't have a TV but I do enjoy watching the occasional film or documentary on Netflix and YouTube so it would be nice to have one.
Well I think it is it for now.
As always you can reach Me on servingLadyBlaze@gmail.com
Stay obedient,
~ Lady Blaze 💋
I feel really great today, took the dogs for a long walk along the beach and it was a fabulous scenery. I will practice My painting until I can capture some of its beauty. I just love the beach, the sea, and the air. It gives Me the perfect start of My day.
So some of you remember that I am Swedish so that means that I am celebrating Christmas not just one day but we start the 23rd and celebrates until the 26th and we open our gifts on the 24th.
I am not a fan of big parties, I actually prefer to be home and just enjoy the peace and quiet. But I do however absolutely love to be pampered, eat and drink well and to receive gifts so I made a Christmas wishlist for you guys so you can contribute to making My holiday more relaxed.
Lingerie
(In Turkey all the women wear new red lingerie on New Year's Eve)
Helly Hansen jacket
Box Braids at the salon
Nice wine and champagne for New Years Eve
Massage
Whips, riding crop, tawse, and other BDSM equipment
(all of mine are packed up and stored away in Sweden.)
Domain and hosting for this blog
Kindle Paperwhite
Rowing Machine
A smart TV
Marisa Peer Hypnotherapist course
And of course as always money or Amazon Giftcards (US) so I can buy what I want.
I have decided to make a few changes to My life and some of them are to become more healthy so next year I will start dancing again. I love to dance and especially belly dancing since it is so sensual. It is actually the reason for how I ended up in Turkey. I also decided to change My appearance so I want to have box braids again since it always looks good and it is so easy to maintain. I have to look good when I am out walking the dogs, you never know when I will bump into a nice Alpha lover.. ;) And it will really catch their attention since I would be the only one here who has box braids. I feel that it is time to get back out there and find an Alpha man who can do with Me what you boys can't! *giggles* Oh how I wish I could hold the keys to your chastity devices and just tease the hell out of you. Imagine the rush to be in another country and your key is in Turkey. Now that would be like playing in Champions League. I doubt any of you would be able to do it. ;)
And since you are not here to give Me a massage the least you can do is to give Me a professional massage.
I also want to build up My BDSM toybox again especially since I am planning on being more active in the scene here in Turkey and some of you will actually get the opportunity to come and serve Me in real life. I am playing with the idea of offering a slave room for subs who travels out here on holiday. What do you think, would you like to have a holiday where you serve a Domme, be her domestic little house slave and sleep on a mattress on the floor? Being served porridge and water for a week? Would you like that? If nothing else you would lose some weight..
Another thing I decided to change is to start reading again. I have a very old Kindle without a touch screen and it is driving Me crazy so I want a newer one, paperwhite. I currently don't have a TV but I do enjoy watching the occasional film or documentary on Netflix and YouTube so it would be nice to have one.
Well I think it is it for now.
As always you can reach Me on servingLadyBlaze@gmail.com
Stay obedient,
~ Lady Blaze 💋
Sunday, December 16, 2018
I love men and I love subs.
Hello, dear subs,
I just feel the need to express how I feel about you guys and some of you might not like it. That's cool you know where the door is and you can show yourself out.
I am online a lot, and on Twitter and I see so many Instadommes and other Pro Dommes who just seems to hate men. I get that there is a market for that and that so many of you are dreaming of a wicked bitch Domme who abuses you and humiliates you. They degrade you to be nothing and if that is what you want it is fine, each to their own and I embrace diversity.
It has never been My style to see men as inferior, or useless. Of course, some of you are absolutely useless but many are absolutely wonderful and I love it. I love the strength and power you have. I love to see a grown man, who can easily overtake Me, obey My commands and show how much he loves Me. It is a gift from him to Me and I appreciate it. To see him bite his teeth when I torment him just to make Me proud and show himself worthy is such a turn on. When he takes the time to learn how to do something perfectly just to get My approval then it is a sign of love. To see the fire in his eyes when he is teased and denied makes Me so incredibly aroused and it makes Me feel so powerful.
But what makes Me feel really valued and adored is when you subs give Me the financial opportunity to be a fulltime Queen and stay in My femininity, to plan wonderful scenarios for us both to enjoy, the gift of time and relaxation is a gift with a big return for everyone involved. It is equal to when a Queen sent Her warriors out and they return bearing gifts from their raids.
I was born Dominant, I have always understood that I wasn't like other Dommes or other Women even My view on Dominance, Leadership, and Alpha Women/Men. I see Dominance where others fail and just see weakness. And when you are kind and loving towards your sub, it can be seen as a weakness amongst other subs and Dommes but it is on them, I don't care, their opinions hold no values to Me, I treat My subs in a way that makes Me and the sub happy. That's all that matters.
One person who is fiction, but whom I really like is Kahleesi in Game of Thrones, Her unsullied army is Her subs by free will and they stay because they want to serve Her. She gets men to serve here just by being kind but brutal. She is a powerful Woman and yes so Feminine. If you understand Her Dominance, then you understand Me..
Have a great day My unsullied. ;)
~ Lady Blaze 💋
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=50iXfEygDIE
Friday, December 14, 2018
Tips for men who single or looking for a Domme.
Hello boys, I hope you are all doing well.
I know I have been writing about this before but clearly, it needs to be said again.
Many of you who approaches Me and other women online are behaving like neanderthals, even a banjo playing redneck would have better manners! That't why you are single or without a Domme.
You don't introduce yourself, you go straight to what you want. I'm not some fast food place where you can order what you want from a menu! If you would go into a bar or a cafe and you were interested in one woman who returned your smile, would you go straight up to her, not introducing yourself, not asking anything about her, not offer a drink and just say: What do you do for a living? Are you kinky? Do you want to see my dick?
Or would you go into a BDSM munch and approach a Domme you never talked with before and say the following: I would like for you to fuck me with a strap-on / I want you to lock my cock up and keep the key / I want to see you fuck other men / I want to lick your feet and sleep in a cage?
I didn't think so.. But why not? You are doing it every day online to so many women online. What you don't get is that a dating site is like a virtual bar/cafe and a fetish site is like a virtual munch. There is absolutely no difference. And you are a major turn off and no fun and you don't care one bit about the woman.
A genuinly submissive man would never, ever dream about approaching a woman or a Domme like that. She is like royalty and should be treated like such with respect. Most of you who claim to be submissive are not submissive, you are just kinky and gets turned on by being humilated when YOU want to and feel like playing. So many men who screams that they want a keyholder and that they want to be a cuckold become really disappointed when they realize that their KH will gladly lock them up and then that's it. No sex, no strap-on, no play or they don't get to see their wife have sex with other men or suck the bulls dick. Then they start complaining that it wasn't what they wanted... Wait, is your submission about you getting your needs met or are you submitting to make your Domme happy? There is bedroom submission and then there are genuine submission. I prefer the later one, if you submit to Me then your only mission in life is to make Me happy.
The same rule goes for Pro Dommes and Escorts as well gentlemen, treat them nicely and respectfully and they will return the favor and give you great value for your money.
It is not so hard to be polite, well mannered and a bit interesting before you overwhelm us with your desires. We know you are horny and desperate for your dreams to come true, but don't try to take a shortcut. Think about how you would behave if you met Dita von Teese and then behave the same way towards the women you meet and you will be way ahead of most men.
Until next time, be polite!
~ Lady Blaze 💋
I know I have been writing about this before but clearly, it needs to be said again.
Many of you who approaches Me and other women online are behaving like neanderthals, even a banjo playing redneck would have better manners! That't why you are single or without a Domme.
You don't introduce yourself, you go straight to what you want. I'm not some fast food place where you can order what you want from a menu! If you would go into a bar or a cafe and you were interested in one woman who returned your smile, would you go straight up to her, not introducing yourself, not asking anything about her, not offer a drink and just say: What do you do for a living? Are you kinky? Do you want to see my dick?
Or would you go into a BDSM munch and approach a Domme you never talked with before and say the following: I would like for you to fuck me with a strap-on / I want you to lock my cock up and keep the key / I want to see you fuck other men / I want to lick your feet and sleep in a cage?
I didn't think so.. But why not? You are doing it every day online to so many women online. What you don't get is that a dating site is like a virtual bar/cafe and a fetish site is like a virtual munch. There is absolutely no difference. And you are a major turn off and no fun and you don't care one bit about the woman.
A genuinly submissive man would never, ever dream about approaching a woman or a Domme like that. She is like royalty and should be treated like such with respect. Most of you who claim to be submissive are not submissive, you are just kinky and gets turned on by being humilated when YOU want to and feel like playing. So many men who screams that they want a keyholder and that they want to be a cuckold become really disappointed when they realize that their KH will gladly lock them up and then that's it. No sex, no strap-on, no play or they don't get to see their wife have sex with other men or suck the bulls dick. Then they start complaining that it wasn't what they wanted... Wait, is your submission about you getting your needs met or are you submitting to make your Domme happy? There is bedroom submission and then there are genuine submission. I prefer the later one, if you submit to Me then your only mission in life is to make Me happy.
The same rule goes for Pro Dommes and Escorts as well gentlemen, treat them nicely and respectfully and they will return the favor and give you great value for your money.
It is not so hard to be polite, well mannered and a bit interesting before you overwhelm us with your desires. We know you are horny and desperate for your dreams to come true, but don't try to take a shortcut. Think about how you would behave if you met Dita von Teese and then behave the same way towards the women you meet and you will be way ahead of most men.
Until next time, be polite!
~ Lady Blaze 💋
Saturday, December 8, 2018
In memory of the first Alpha sub I ever met.
Today it is a special day, it is My late grandma's birthdate, may She rest in peace. She was a wonderful woman and She raised Me well. 💗But it is also 19 years since I met HIM. The man who changed My life forever and I didn't even know it at the time.
He was 6'6 and he had a body like a God, his deep voice sent shivers down My spine. He was so smart and extremely talented with amazing manners. He treated Me not like a Goddess but like a Druidess. He held out his hand for Me to use it as an ashtray. He sat next to Me the whole evening, paying attention to everyone but he only had eyes for Me. I didn't know that he was the first sub that I interacted with. He was just being the perfect gentleman I thought. Back then I was young and had a pretty bitchy and arrogant attitude and I was used to telling people what I thought and what I wanted. I didn't know that it was perceived as Dominant. (Today I am more calm, polite, assertive and direct, but I still intimidate people lol.)
Anyway, it was a very short saga but boy did he impact My life. I will forever be grateful for him and what he did. He was a sub, but when he opened his jacket that freezing day and pulled Me close it was the safest I have ever felt. I have been chasing that feeling ever since. So today I raise My glass of red wine in memory to one of the greatest men who ever lived and may his afterlife be better than the life he lived here! Forever loved and never forgotten.💕
~ Lady Blaze 💋
Friday, December 7, 2018
I need a goddamn warrior!
I absolutely love this and I wanted to share it with you guys. My vanilla friends tagged Me in this post and I smile because it describes so perfectly the man I long for.. Where is he, My warrior?
~Lady Blaze 💋
You are the strength of Turkish coffee at sunrise darlin’ and don’t try to pretend that You’re not.
You are one of the wild ones, and no matter how You tried to hide that fact, You can’t be anything other than what You are — and that’s okay. You are just as You are supposed to be, magnificently wild in all of Your chaotic beauty.
I know You’ve had Your heart broken and I know that You don’t understand why it always seems to never work out, but I’ve finally figured it out:
You don’t need a man, You need a goddamn warrior.
It doesn’t matter if this warrior drives a Jeep or a shiny sports car, and it won’t matter if he wears silk or cotton — it will not even matter if he works in a high-rise, or on the night shift.
What is going to matter is that when it comes to taking bets on Your heart, he is going to be high stakes — all the way.
This warrior of Yours will crave Your strength, and Your intensity. He’s going to look at You and not see something to tame, but something to just fuckin’ admire. This warrior of Yours won’t be someone that You can manipulate or play with as You have in the past, so honey, don’t even try — and trust me, You’re going to love him even more because of it.
Because You aren’t just a Woman, You’re a goddamn Goddess.
Your fierceness is going to bring him to his knees every single time he looks into Your gorgeous eyes, but the difference is, unlike the others, he isn’t going to be scared off. No, this time, You will have finally metYyour match — because a simple man for You just won’t do.
You need someone to match the fire in Your eyes with his own. Not only that, my little wild thing, but this warrior of Yours is going to want to encourage the flames instead of trying to douse them with his own insecurities.
Because for You, a warrior is the only man who will ever live in the wild with You.
He may not have to slay any dragons to earn Your love, but he would still walk through fire if it meant seeing that amazing smile that You hold in reserve for only him.
This is the thing, free spirit, this warrior You seek….he’s seeking You too.
For he’s had failed relationships that have left him wondering if maybe he was meant to be alone for the rest of his journey — and You’re going to change all of that for him. You both have been traveling along on Your separate journeys and have been doing an okay job at it, but that about to change too.
Because Baby, when You and this warrior of Yours meet and collide — it’s going to be a love set on fire.
Don’t try to run this time — I know Your heart has been broken before, and that You’re not used to things working out, but this time it’s different. Give Yourself time to see that.
This warrior of Yours needs to see that it’s possible for someone to see all of his wild, and still be there when he craves his freedom and ventures off into this world for a bit. You won’t always need to follow him, just as he won’t always follow You. Let Yourself stay wild, even when all You want to do is curl up in that spot along his side and forget the rest of the world exists.
Let yourself still wander naked under the full moon, and drink moonshine with the stars. Let Yourself feel the pull of the wind on Your heart, and the sun toward a new journey. Because this warrior is going to love You because of Your wild — and he’ll want You to keep it.
You’ll be in this together now, this amazing, crazy, chaotic, wonderfully heartbreaking life—because it takes a warrior to love a Goddess. And it takes a Goddess to show a warrior what real love is.
So pack up Your insecurities and Your ideas about picket fences, because that was never You anyway. You were born knowing that You were destined for more, and now is the time for You to see what all those dreams look like.
There is no stopping a love like this, so promise me You’ll hold out just a little bit longer.
Have a little bit of hope, and always give love just one more try, because I promise You my sweet wild Woman — the love that You seek is seeking You as well.
By Kate Rose, Aug 12, 2015
~Lady Blaze 💋
You Don’t Need A Man, You Need a Goddamn Warrior.
To my sweet wild Woman, I know why it hasn’t worked out with anyone else — You don’t need a man, but a goddamn warrior.You are the strength of Turkish coffee at sunrise darlin’ and don’t try to pretend that You’re not.
You are one of the wild ones, and no matter how You tried to hide that fact, You can’t be anything other than what You are — and that’s okay. You are just as You are supposed to be, magnificently wild in all of Your chaotic beauty.
I know You’ve had Your heart broken and I know that You don’t understand why it always seems to never work out, but I’ve finally figured it out:
You don’t need a man, You need a goddamn warrior.
It doesn’t matter if this warrior drives a Jeep or a shiny sports car, and it won’t matter if he wears silk or cotton — it will not even matter if he works in a high-rise, or on the night shift.
What is going to matter is that when it comes to taking bets on Your heart, he is going to be high stakes — all the way.
This warrior of Yours will crave Your strength, and Your intensity. He’s going to look at You and not see something to tame, but something to just fuckin’ admire. This warrior of Yours won’t be someone that You can manipulate or play with as You have in the past, so honey, don’t even try — and trust me, You’re going to love him even more because of it.
Because You aren’t just a Woman, You’re a goddamn Goddess.
Your fierceness is going to bring him to his knees every single time he looks into Your gorgeous eyes, but the difference is, unlike the others, he isn’t going to be scared off. No, this time, You will have finally metYyour match — because a simple man for You just won’t do.
You need someone to match the fire in Your eyes with his own. Not only that, my little wild thing, but this warrior of Yours is going to want to encourage the flames instead of trying to douse them with his own insecurities.
Because for You, a warrior is the only man who will ever live in the wild with You.
He may not have to slay any dragons to earn Your love, but he would still walk through fire if it meant seeing that amazing smile that You hold in reserve for only him.
This is the thing, free spirit, this warrior You seek….he’s seeking You too.
For he’s had failed relationships that have left him wondering if maybe he was meant to be alone for the rest of his journey — and You’re going to change all of that for him. You both have been traveling along on Your separate journeys and have been doing an okay job at it, but that about to change too.
Because Baby, when You and this warrior of Yours meet and collide — it’s going to be a love set on fire.
Don’t try to run this time — I know Your heart has been broken before, and that You’re not used to things working out, but this time it’s different. Give Yourself time to see that.
This warrior of Yours needs to see that it’s possible for someone to see all of his wild, and still be there when he craves his freedom and ventures off into this world for a bit. You won’t always need to follow him, just as he won’t always follow You. Let Yourself stay wild, even when all You want to do is curl up in that spot along his side and forget the rest of the world exists.
Let yourself still wander naked under the full moon, and drink moonshine with the stars. Let Yourself feel the pull of the wind on Your heart, and the sun toward a new journey. Because this warrior is going to love You because of Your wild — and he’ll want You to keep it.
You’ll be in this together now, this amazing, crazy, chaotic, wonderfully heartbreaking life—because it takes a warrior to love a Goddess. And it takes a Goddess to show a warrior what real love is.
So pack up Your insecurities and Your ideas about picket fences, because that was never You anyway. You were born knowing that You were destined for more, and now is the time for You to see what all those dreams look like.
There is no stopping a love like this, so promise me You’ll hold out just a little bit longer.
Have a little bit of hope, and always give love just one more try, because I promise You my sweet wild Woman — the love that You seek is seeking You as well.
By Kate Rose, Aug 12, 2015
Another one bites the dust.
Hello peasants,
I hope you are all doing well. It is freezing here today and I finally had to give in and start the AC unit for some heat (buildings here are not insulated so they are pretty cold). I wish I could find some form of self-heating socks/slippers and a heated poncho because it is so freezing inside. If I could I would wrap My electric blanket around Me.
I know it doesn't sound glamorous or sexy for one bit, but guess what, Dommes are not always dressed in leather and latex (mind you I would love to have a pair of leather trousers again for everyday use). In fact most of the time I am dressed like a dog trainer in jeans or very practical and comfortable clothes. At least in the winter, in the summertime, I wear dresses and skirts so I can show off My nice legs and shape.
Anyway, if you have any solutions on how to stay warm inside please share it in the comments because I am trying to cut back on electricity costs.
Some of you know that Mr Z had an accident where he hit his head pretty bad and he hasn't really been himself after that and it strained our friendship and relationship. I have been very patient with him but he let Me down one time too many and if people are not making Me happy, not contributing to improving My life and just gives Me stress, then they have to go. I only have time for things and humans that make Me happy, makes Me grow or makes Me money. It is a shame really because I will miss his cleaning service and the adult breastfeeding part tremendously but once the trust and respect are gone, then there is nothing left. He would have to make some major changes to gain My trust and respect back and honestly, I don't think he can man up for the task.
Unfortunately, Mr Z:s actions left Me in a very difficult situation financially so if anyone of you has been thinking about booking a session with Me, involving humiliation, online cuckolding, jerk off instructions, online missions or keyholding then please do so since I need to get back on track. I will also post My fetish paintings in the fetish shop HERE if anyone would like to purchase one.
If you want to reach out and show your support via tribute then please do so on: paypal.me/MissNielsen
I am planning to move this blog to a private domain as soon as possible and if you are an adult blogger with ideas on how to monetize this blog then please feel free to contact Me since all ideas and input are appreciated.
I am considering taking on a female sub or a CD just for doing the chores around the house. It is soo boring to do the dishes, it is not a task suitable for a Queen, wouldn't you agree? ;) I have been thinking about doing an alternative AIR BNB for subs who need a week or weekend away, they can come and they will have a room with a mattress on the floor, water, and porridge during their stay. What do you think, can it be a hit? It is a bit risky but there are ways to make it safe. I really wish I could buy an apartment and turn it into a BDSM dungeon and B&B. I think it could work out really well. Share your thoughts and comments below.
Until next time stay obedient.
~Lady Blaze 💋
I hope you are all doing well. It is freezing here today and I finally had to give in and start the AC unit for some heat (buildings here are not insulated so they are pretty cold). I wish I could find some form of self-heating socks/slippers and a heated poncho because it is so freezing inside. If I could I would wrap My electric blanket around Me.
I know it doesn't sound glamorous or sexy for one bit, but guess what, Dommes are not always dressed in leather and latex (mind you I would love to have a pair of leather trousers again for everyday use). In fact most of the time I am dressed like a dog trainer in jeans or very practical and comfortable clothes. At least in the winter, in the summertime, I wear dresses and skirts so I can show off My nice legs and shape.
Anyway, if you have any solutions on how to stay warm inside please share it in the comments because I am trying to cut back on electricity costs.
Some of you know that Mr Z had an accident where he hit his head pretty bad and he hasn't really been himself after that and it strained our friendship and relationship. I have been very patient with him but he let Me down one time too many and if people are not making Me happy, not contributing to improving My life and just gives Me stress, then they have to go. I only have time for things and humans that make Me happy, makes Me grow or makes Me money. It is a shame really because I will miss his cleaning service and the adult breastfeeding part tremendously but once the trust and respect are gone, then there is nothing left. He would have to make some major changes to gain My trust and respect back and honestly, I don't think he can man up for the task.
Unfortunately, Mr Z:s actions left Me in a very difficult situation financially so if anyone of you has been thinking about booking a session with Me, involving humiliation, online cuckolding, jerk off instructions, online missions or keyholding then please do so since I need to get back on track. I will also post My fetish paintings in the fetish shop HERE if anyone would like to purchase one.
If you want to reach out and show your support via tribute then please do so on: paypal.me/MissNielsen
I am planning to move this blog to a private domain as soon as possible and if you are an adult blogger with ideas on how to monetize this blog then please feel free to contact Me since all ideas and input are appreciated.
I am considering taking on a female sub or a CD just for doing the chores around the house. It is soo boring to do the dishes, it is not a task suitable for a Queen, wouldn't you agree? ;) I have been thinking about doing an alternative AIR BNB for subs who need a week or weekend away, they can come and they will have a room with a mattress on the floor, water, and porridge during their stay. What do you think, can it be a hit? It is a bit risky but there are ways to make it safe. I really wish I could buy an apartment and turn it into a BDSM dungeon and B&B. I think it could work out really well. Share your thoughts and comments below.
Until next time stay obedient.
~Lady Blaze 💋
Wednesday, December 5, 2018
Cuckold relationships and why I want it.
I wanted to write a little post about why I want to have a cuckold relationship. I learned a long time ago that I will never find everything I seek in one man. I have so many interests and needs, intellectual, emotional and sexual that one man simply can't keep up. Add to that the fact that I get bored really fast once a man stops wooing Me. It is not fair to expect him to fulfill all of My wishes/needs and it is not fair to Me to deny My needs. And for some reason, men become so lazy when they are the only player in the field.. Through in another player and suddenly they have to step up their game and look their best and present their best behavior to be interesting again. Needless to say this is awesome for Me as Woman.
So when I heard about cuckolding it was like a Eureka moment. A man who is OK with his Woman seeing other men while he is home recharging, taking care of his chores and waiting for Me to tell him about My wonderful evening. I mean come on, how does it become any better than this? Why aren't all Women into this? It is the perfect relationship for Me.
I love to flirt and I like attention so it is a perfect way for Me to get that part satisfied, some men are crazy about animal rescue and charities just like I am so I can have that with one lover/boyfriend.
I also like art, culture, shopping, dancing, fine dining etc. I can have that part together with one lover/boyfriend.
And then we have the geek, a man so smart that you wouldn't believe it, think Elon Musk and you get the picture. I need this to satisfy My intellectual side. I think a beautiful brain is My largest fetish. I mean that stuff is such a turn on!
And then I have My dear cuckold. He is the special one, he is My right hand, he is My knight, My protector and My love. I will treasure him for supporting Me, for giving Me the freedom I so crave.
His gift is so precious that I wouldn't have words to express it.
So you see it is not all about sex to Me. When those needs are satisfied I get turned on and then I will have sex with My men. Lady Blaze's Titans. It sure has a nice ring to it. It doesn't hurt if they are tall and good looking as well. It will just make Me use them more haha. But one thing that is really important for Me is that they are long term relationships and that they are really respectful towards My cuckold. I couldn't care less if they are black or white, well equipped or not. As long as they make Me happy and satisfies My needs then I have everything I can ask for.
Some cuckolds wants to be present when his Wife is meeting Her lover and he wants to interact with the bull/lover. For Me it is MY time when I am with a lover and My cuckold simply has to stay at home and suffer through his chores and his fantasies, after all the power of your mind is stronger than the reality..
So there you have it, it has very little to do with you guys and everything to do with Me. What can I say, I was spoiled and pampered as a child and I like to keep it that way.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
So when I heard about cuckolding it was like a Eureka moment. A man who is OK with his Woman seeing other men while he is home recharging, taking care of his chores and waiting for Me to tell him about My wonderful evening. I mean come on, how does it become any better than this? Why aren't all Women into this? It is the perfect relationship for Me.
I love to flirt and I like attention so it is a perfect way for Me to get that part satisfied, some men are crazy about animal rescue and charities just like I am so I can have that with one lover/boyfriend.
I also like art, culture, shopping, dancing, fine dining etc. I can have that part together with one lover/boyfriend.
And then we have the geek, a man so smart that you wouldn't believe it, think Elon Musk and you get the picture. I need this to satisfy My intellectual side. I think a beautiful brain is My largest fetish. I mean that stuff is such a turn on!
And then I have My dear cuckold. He is the special one, he is My right hand, he is My knight, My protector and My love. I will treasure him for supporting Me, for giving Me the freedom I so crave.
His gift is so precious that I wouldn't have words to express it.
So you see it is not all about sex to Me. When those needs are satisfied I get turned on and then I will have sex with My men. Lady Blaze's Titans. It sure has a nice ring to it. It doesn't hurt if they are tall and good looking as well. It will just make Me use them more haha. But one thing that is really important for Me is that they are long term relationships and that they are really respectful towards My cuckold. I couldn't care less if they are black or white, well equipped or not. As long as they make Me happy and satisfies My needs then I have everything I can ask for.
Some cuckolds wants to be present when his Wife is meeting Her lover and he wants to interact with the bull/lover. For Me it is MY time when I am with a lover and My cuckold simply has to stay at home and suffer through his chores and his fantasies, after all the power of your mind is stronger than the reality..
So there you have it, it has very little to do with you guys and everything to do with Me. What can I say, I was spoiled and pampered as a child and I like to keep it that way.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
Sunday, December 2, 2018
First of advent (+18)
Of course, My Jester lil dean was as helpful as ever. I wonder what he will do next Sunday when we need to light 2 candles. ;)
I did make some new connections with other Dommes and Doms this weekend so that was nice. I also spent some time thinking about My projects, paintings, and future blog posts. Since I am approached daily by cuckolds who talk about their fantasies I might share My point of view of cuckolding in My next post.
Until next time, stay obedient.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
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