When you have a problem you decide how to handle it and how to look at it. And I decided to use it to explain something that might be an eye-opener to some of you.
As a Professional Dog trainer I have learned to study behaviors and patterns and in today's society, we have a tendency to not appreciate the things that are given to us freely or easily. This is the mentality of humans. It is really not nice but this is how it is.
It becomes pretty clear if we take a look at the shelters and rehoming ads of pets today. It is most of the time the cheap mix breeds that are up for adoption and sent to the shelters, dumped in the woods or euthanized when they are ill instead of receiving medical treatment etc.
Pedigree dogs and cats hold a higher value and people seem to take care of them much more, they get medical treatments for them, they go to doggy school, they take out insurance for them and they are rarely sent to the shelters. Why is that? Because they are much more expensive to purchase and people have INVESTED more money into the pedigree pet so it has a higher value.
It is the same with horses, you can get a cheap mix breed horse that has been rehomed 15 times and finally it ends up as a hamburger on your table because they don't want to spend money on medical bills or when they are tired of caring for it. How often do you think that happens to a horse that costs 50.000 Euros to purchase? Do you think they buy the cheap saddle for that horse or a more expensive one? Of course the more expensive one.
Heck even lock at the foster/daycare today, so many kids in foster/daycare today are treated so much worse than the carers own kids, why? They haven't invested emotions, time and money in the child, they didn't carry it for 9 months and they didn't stay up at night to nurse it when it was ill.
The same goes for us Women, a basic chick who is paying for her man to sit home all day and bends over backward for him, she gets cheated on, yelled at, she gets used and abused, she is nothing more than a free pussy and he will leave her and her wet behind when he comes across something more valuable. This is why I cut Mr Z off immediately when he stopped investing in Me. I refuse to be that basic woman.
But men who INVEST his time and money in his woman tends treats Her better. A Woman who is high maintenance seldom gets divorced or cheated on. Why? Because She is VALUABLE and he knows it will cost him so much more if he loses Her. And a smart Woman returns the favor by VALUING his efforts. They are both INVESTING in each other. This is what most people miss when it comes to relationships. You might read My posts here about a generous sub, about how I want to be cared for. There are a reason and logic behind everything I do. And every time I step away from it and lower My standards to fit in the shit hits the fan. This is why I don't INVEST My time and energy in online chat or games if the sub haven't INVESTED in Me. It is never going to happen.
When you take ownership of a man's cock and orgasms, magical things happen to his behavior. That's why I want to have a man in chastity. Besides, we all know that you are not capable to control that thing anyway. And when you take a mans money in combination with his orgasms, then you get his undivided attention and emotional investment and that is when he gets to feel the reward of all of his efforts.
And until this day, the most valuable gift I have ever received was an old Braun electric toothbrush, not because it was very expensive at the time, but because he took every last penny he had, he even walked to the store to buy it because if he took the bus he wouldn't be able to buy it for My birthday. That was more than 17 years ago. So it isn't about the amount that was spent, it is about the effort, the sacrifice and investment.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
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