I talked with someone on Chastity Mansion and he is one the people who read My blog (thank you) and he mentioned that it was odd that I can be this nurturing, loving breastfeeding Domme and yet I can be this sadistic, ruthless Mistress who enjoys performing Falaka/Bastinado and other corporal punishments.
I never thought about it like that, but he has a point. I knew that I am a somewhat rare unicorn when it comes to My kinks. Breastfeeding is definitely considered one of the rarer kinks since it demands a lot of time and effort if you actually want to induce lactation. Falaka/Bastinado is rare amongst Dommes since it is more commonly performed by men on female subs, I guess you have to be tough to perform it since it really hurts.
I am a really sweet, positive and kind Woman. I even bake, cook, cuddles babies and save kittens/puppies and I will bring you a bowl of chicken soup if you are ill (I will leave the dishes for you though, everything within reason..) I will cuddle you and have fun with you for sure. If we are in a relationship where I let you suckle My breasts then we will have a very strong and deep bond for sure.
However, people tend to mistake My kindness and care for weakness and thinks that I am not firm enough. Well, I simply learned that you catch more flies with honey than with salt. ;) But strangely enough, I do not enjoy spanking/tormenting people for no reason. (if you pay Me for it I will actually enjoy it) But I truly enjoy handing out consequences and punishments when it is called for. It gives Me a very deep satisfaction. So if you mess up you will get punished and the punishment will be in relation to the severeness of your mistake.
I always strive for perfection, I always notice the things that can be improved and how to do it. I am actually paid to improve things, humans and situations. But I will give you an example.. If you bring Me, My coffee and it is not perfect, I will let you know and I will give you a small punishment, like standing in the corner. If you bring it again not to My liking, I will explain it again exactly how I want it and how you should do it and you will sit down and write one hundred lines about how to make perfect coffee for your Mistress.
If I notice that you are doing it a third time then you are either stupid or ignoring My wishes or trying to manipulate Me into spanking you because that is what you dream of. If it is because you are being stupid you will have a somewhat sore ass, if you are ignoring My wishes then you will have a really sore ass and in both scenarios, you will learn to do My coffee right by negative association. I have trained dogs and humans for a living, you are not a match for Me to train.
But if you are a manipulative little sub trying to top from the bottom I will make sure that you will not sit comfortably for a very, very long time and that every step you take will remind you of what you did and you will get more than you bargained for and you will think both once, twice and maybe five times before you try that again. Am I clear?
And if you are a masochist I will find other ways to punish you of course... *grins*
I am a reflection of your behavior, you choose what side of Me you want to see. The only thing I can say is to choose wisely...
By the way, if you haven't followed Me on Twitter yet, @LadyBlaze6, then head over there and do so right now.
Until next time, stay obedient.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
Thursday, November 29, 2018
Monday, November 26, 2018
Why chastity?
Some people ask Me why I want My partner to wear a chastity device. Simply put, I will never trust a man to not play with his most precious possession, his cock if he has one big enough to be called that.. Most men do not have enough self-control to stay away from touching themselves when the urge gets too strong. They are after all the weaker sex.
But there are more reasons to why I want it. As a Professional Dog Trainer I have learned to study patterns and men who are in chastity and under orgasm control shows a different behavior than a man who gets to roam free and come when he wants. A man in chastity is helpful, caring, loving, attentive, he courts his Woman and focuses on Her, he bends over backward for Her, but the moment he gets his release, he becomes less attentive, less caring and loving. He doesn't help out and he slides back into his old patterns because he got to come and if he was really lucky, he got the cookie ´meaning he got to have sex with his Woman.
I personally think a man is a competitive creature by nature so he needs to have a goal to work for. It goes for everything in his life, work, sports, girls, material stuff etc. That's why so many relationships fail because once he gets the girl and the cookie he gets bored, he pays less attention to the girl and that is the beginning to the end.
But if you take away access to his little toy and orgasms and make him fight for it and earn it, then you suddenly have a much more attentive man in front of you. If My partner is a good lover I would definitely enjoy to have intercourse with him but he wouldn't necessarily come every time. But just because My man is in chastity and under orgasm control it doesn't mean that I should suffer. Because We Women are different, in fact, We are opposed to men. If we have an underfucked vagina that has dried up We are turned into some real bitter bitches. Sorry ladies but the that is the truth. A woman who is satisfied sexually and emotionally is a beautiful, positive, and happy.
So I personally think that 13 orgasms to Me and 1 to him is a pretty fair ratio. After all, if the Queen is happy, everyone is happy.
And the best part as a keyholder, you get to decide when he will have sex IF he will be allowed to have sex or orgasms at all. If you have a pesky husband that is nagging you for sex then here you have the perfect solution. Lock him up and teach him how to satisfy you and not until he does the job well is he allowed to have a release. Maybe you are turned on by watching him do housework, or by having him massaging you instead of pleasing you sexually. It is up to you what you as a keyholder wants from him. You are calling the shots and you make the rules. Control a mans cock and orgasms and you control the man. That's why concubines have been so important throughout the history of time because men are weak and slave under their orgasms.
Another positive side effect from wearing a chastity device is that he will not be able to stick his little dick in where it doesn't belong so he won't bring home any genital STD:s and he won't make another woman pregnant. However, he will still be able to cheat so if he is a notorious cheater this will not stop him from being with and satisfying other women and men. Yeah, they can be slutty like that.
If you want to be sure that he doesn't cheat and gets it off I would recommend having his little cock pierced and the piercing attached to the chastity device itself. Personally, I prefer metal models but you can find silicone, plastic and even rubber models. I wouldn't even bother with the rubber models because they can still orgasm with that if they play enough. I would also stay away from all the CB3000 CBbla bla, bla models because they are not that safe, to begin with, and a bit hard to put on. Most men choose this model though as their first model, I have absolutely no clue why.
Anyway, this was a few My thoughts about chastity. I do not currently have anyone in lockup but I do offer an affordable keyholding service so if you want to know more about this then please email Me at servingLadyBlaze@gmail.com
Sissyblueballs might have a few things to say as well about this subject and I would love to see both his and your thoughts about this in the comments below.
Until next time, take care.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
But there are more reasons to why I want it. As a Professional Dog Trainer I have learned to study patterns and men who are in chastity and under orgasm control shows a different behavior than a man who gets to roam free and come when he wants. A man in chastity is helpful, caring, loving, attentive, he courts his Woman and focuses on Her, he bends over backward for Her, but the moment he gets his release, he becomes less attentive, less caring and loving. He doesn't help out and he slides back into his old patterns because he got to come and if he was really lucky, he got the cookie ´meaning he got to have sex with his Woman.
I personally think a man is a competitive creature by nature so he needs to have a goal to work for. It goes for everything in his life, work, sports, girls, material stuff etc. That's why so many relationships fail because once he gets the girl and the cookie he gets bored, he pays less attention to the girl and that is the beginning to the end.
But if you take away access to his little toy and orgasms and make him fight for it and earn it, then you suddenly have a much more attentive man in front of you. If My partner is a good lover I would definitely enjoy to have intercourse with him but he wouldn't necessarily come every time. But just because My man is in chastity and under orgasm control it doesn't mean that I should suffer. Because We Women are different, in fact, We are opposed to men. If we have an underfucked vagina that has dried up We are turned into some real bitter bitches. Sorry ladies but the that is the truth. A woman who is satisfied sexually and emotionally is a beautiful, positive, and happy.
So I personally think that 13 orgasms to Me and 1 to him is a pretty fair ratio. After all, if the Queen is happy, everyone is happy.
And the best part as a keyholder, you get to decide when he will have sex IF he will be allowed to have sex or orgasms at all. If you have a pesky husband that is nagging you for sex then here you have the perfect solution. Lock him up and teach him how to satisfy you and not until he does the job well is he allowed to have a release. Maybe you are turned on by watching him do housework, or by having him massaging you instead of pleasing you sexually. It is up to you what you as a keyholder wants from him. You are calling the shots and you make the rules. Control a mans cock and orgasms and you control the man. That's why concubines have been so important throughout the history of time because men are weak and slave under their orgasms.
Another positive side effect from wearing a chastity device is that he will not be able to stick his little dick in where it doesn't belong so he won't bring home any genital STD:s and he won't make another woman pregnant. However, he will still be able to cheat so if he is a notorious cheater this will not stop him from being with and satisfying other women and men. Yeah, they can be slutty like that.
If you want to be sure that he doesn't cheat and gets it off I would recommend having his little cock pierced and the piercing attached to the chastity device itself. Personally, I prefer metal models but you can find silicone, plastic and even rubber models. I wouldn't even bother with the rubber models because they can still orgasm with that if they play enough. I would also stay away from all the CB3000 CBbla bla, bla models because they are not that safe, to begin with, and a bit hard to put on. Most men choose this model though as their first model, I have absolutely no clue why.
Anyway, this was a few My thoughts about chastity. I do not currently have anyone in lockup but I do offer an affordable keyholding service so if you want to know more about this then please email Me at servingLadyBlaze@gmail.com
Sissyblueballs might have a few things to say as well about this subject and I would love to see both his and your thoughts about this in the comments below.
Until next time, take care.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
Sunday, November 25, 2018
The servant
Hello again,
Last time I talked about what kind of sub/slave/cuck I want from a relationship point of view.
Today I want to talk about service subs. These are men I would not have sex with, they only exist to serve Me. A Queen always has servants around Her and that is My long-term goal. I want to have a household with multiple servant subs, like a driver, a butler etc. that will cater to My and My lover's needs.
That means that these men clean, shops, drives, gives massages/pedicures/manicures, they will deal with My social accounts, wannabe subs, manage My webpage, so on, so on.
They will have their slave accommodation and little uniforms and chastity device. Again My subs will never be naked, I absolute dislike watching naked men unless they have a body as a God.
They will be serving when I have My dinner parties, they will take care of My friends when we are having an SPA night etc. They will be around for our pleasure, nothing else. If they are well-behaved Me and My friends might reward them with a foot/boot licking session.
But if he misbehaves he will go to bed hungry and sleep on the floor with a thin blanket. If he is showing a very bad behavior, he will get spanked and flogged and trust Me, he will remember this lesson every time he sits down for a week.
Besides this we will work on his general appearance, to get him to level up at work and I will motivate him to be the best version of him he can possibly be because it will make Me feel fulfilled.
This was a little bit about My thoughts about this. Please share your thoughts in the comment section below.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
Last time I talked about what kind of sub/slave/cuck I want from a relationship point of view.
Today I want to talk about service subs. These are men I would not have sex with, they only exist to serve Me. A Queen always has servants around Her and that is My long-term goal. I want to have a household with multiple servant subs, like a driver, a butler etc. that will cater to My and My lover's needs.
That means that these men clean, shops, drives, gives massages/pedicures/manicures, they will deal with My social accounts, wannabe subs, manage My webpage, so on, so on.
They will have their slave accommodation and little uniforms and chastity device. Again My subs will never be naked, I absolute dislike watching naked men unless they have a body as a God.
They will be serving when I have My dinner parties, they will take care of My friends when we are having an SPA night etc. They will be around for our pleasure, nothing else. If they are well-behaved Me and My friends might reward them with a foot/boot licking session.
But if he misbehaves he will go to bed hungry and sleep on the floor with a thin blanket. If he is showing a very bad behavior, he will get spanked and flogged and trust Me, he will remember this lesson every time he sits down for a week.
Besides this we will work on his general appearance, to get him to level up at work and I will motivate him to be the best version of him he can possibly be because it will make Me feel fulfilled.
This was a little bit about My thoughts about this. Please share your thoughts in the comment section below.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
Friday, November 23, 2018
What is it I want from a sub/slave?
I feel that My previous post perhaps doesn't reveal in detail what I expect from a sub/slave from a submissive perspective.
⚜️ I expect to be on the subs/slaves mind when he wakes up and when he goes to bed. Meaning I expect there to be a good morning text and a good night text, every day.
⚜️ I expect the sub/slave to take care of most of the household chores. I enjoy doing housework sometimes (rarely) but most of the time it will be the subs/slaves responsibility. If he is not physically present and can perform the job then he will provide the funds for Me to hire someone to do his job for him.
⚜️ I expect him to follow the news and report back to Me any important things I need to know. I don't follow news on a daily basis since it makes Me depressed.
⚜️ I expect him to be an advisor in the areas where he has knowledge. Just because I am a Domme it doesn't mean that I cannot listen to advice from people with more knowledge. I am a leader, that is what the leader does and that's why they are successful.
⚜️ I expect him to be able to tell Me his needs, his wants, his dreams, what he is curious about, what he dislikes and what his hard limits are. This is to understand him better. Depending on the relationship I might or might not respect his thoughts. I also expect him to tell Me his ideas of rewards and punishments on different levels.
⚜️ I expect him to have a safeword that we will use while we are getting to know each other. Later on, this might or might not disappear.
⚜️ I want the sub/slave to be free to satisfy Me as he sees fit but he will always respect My say in things. Meaning that if he wants to wake Me up with a morning orgasm he is free to do so if he sees that My shoulders are tense he is free to come and give Me a shoulder rub or bring Me water when he sees that I haven't been drinking properly etc. Heck, he can even through Me over his shoulders with a roar when he is bursting from being horny, as long as he stops when I say so. You see, I need a functioning relationship with vanilla parts. Sometimes pure vanilla sex is highly underestimated.
⚜️ I need him to follow while I lead. I am not an easy person to live with but I am definitely worth it.
⚜️ I need him to confide in Me, discuss with Me, challenge My brain. I need his help to make him the best version of him he can possibly be and I need him to push Me to grow as well and to be the sensual and feminine Woman I am.
⚜️ I need him to make My life better and to make Me happy and buying Me time is making Me happy, being able to be creative makes Me happy. I cannot be this divine Goddess when I am working as a slave on 2 jobs to make ends meet and then come home and turn in to a sexy feminine Domme that will rock a subs/slaves world. That ain't happening today, and it ain't tomorrow.
So when I say that I want to have My bills and expenses paid, I am not talking about handbags and stuff. I want to have freedom, not stress about money, I want to be able to focus on the things that make Me happy, painting, writing, sex etc. I will always do some small work but right now I want to invest in Myself (education to build a small business, buy properties to get a passive income etc) to build a good life for both of us. If I am happy, the sub/slave is happy. Think of it as a stay at home Domme.
⚜️ I need him to share My kinks. And I need him to be able to understand that being submissive to Me has nothing to do with being naked, sleeping in a cage or drinking water from a bowl. That is play for betas. This is real, this is where boys become men and damn good ones! You can rule the world but rest assure that I will rule you.
⚜️ I need him to match My efforts on making the relationship work.
⚜️ And lastly, I need a sub/slave to be somewhat independent. I absolutely dislike needy and insecure people, it drives Me crazy. With this, I mean that We will have a schedule and a system/protocol that We both will follow. once this is established then I don't want to micromanage the sub/slave.
I hope this explains it a bit better.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
⚜️ I expect to be on the subs/slaves mind when he wakes up and when he goes to bed. Meaning I expect there to be a good morning text and a good night text, every day.
⚜️ I expect the sub/slave to take care of most of the household chores. I enjoy doing housework sometimes (rarely) but most of the time it will be the subs/slaves responsibility. If he is not physically present and can perform the job then he will provide the funds for Me to hire someone to do his job for him.
⚜️ I expect him to follow the news and report back to Me any important things I need to know. I don't follow news on a daily basis since it makes Me depressed.
⚜️ I expect him to be an advisor in the areas where he has knowledge. Just because I am a Domme it doesn't mean that I cannot listen to advice from people with more knowledge. I am a leader, that is what the leader does and that's why they are successful.
⚜️ I expect him to be able to tell Me his needs, his wants, his dreams, what he is curious about, what he dislikes and what his hard limits are. This is to understand him better. Depending on the relationship I might or might not respect his thoughts. I also expect him to tell Me his ideas of rewards and punishments on different levels.
⚜️ I expect him to have a safeword that we will use while we are getting to know each other. Later on, this might or might not disappear.
⚜️ I want the sub/slave to be free to satisfy Me as he sees fit but he will always respect My say in things. Meaning that if he wants to wake Me up with a morning orgasm he is free to do so if he sees that My shoulders are tense he is free to come and give Me a shoulder rub or bring Me water when he sees that I haven't been drinking properly etc. Heck, he can even through Me over his shoulders with a roar when he is bursting from being horny, as long as he stops when I say so. You see, I need a functioning relationship with vanilla parts. Sometimes pure vanilla sex is highly underestimated.
⚜️ I need him to follow while I lead. I am not an easy person to live with but I am definitely worth it.
⚜️ I need him to confide in Me, discuss with Me, challenge My brain. I need his help to make him the best version of him he can possibly be and I need him to push Me to grow as well and to be the sensual and feminine Woman I am.
⚜️ I need him to make My life better and to make Me happy and buying Me time is making Me happy, being able to be creative makes Me happy. I cannot be this divine Goddess when I am working as a slave on 2 jobs to make ends meet and then come home and turn in to a sexy feminine Domme that will rock a subs/slaves world. That ain't happening today, and it ain't tomorrow.
So when I say that I want to have My bills and expenses paid, I am not talking about handbags and stuff. I want to have freedom, not stress about money, I want to be able to focus on the things that make Me happy, painting, writing, sex etc. I will always do some small work but right now I want to invest in Myself (education to build a small business, buy properties to get a passive income etc) to build a good life for both of us. If I am happy, the sub/slave is happy. Think of it as a stay at home Domme.
⚜️ I need him to share My kinks. And I need him to be able to understand that being submissive to Me has nothing to do with being naked, sleeping in a cage or drinking water from a bowl. That is play for betas. This is real, this is where boys become men and damn good ones! You can rule the world but rest assure that I will rule you.
⚜️ I need him to match My efforts on making the relationship work.
⚜️ And lastly, I need a sub/slave to be somewhat independent. I absolutely dislike needy and insecure people, it drives Me crazy. With this, I mean that We will have a schedule and a system/protocol that We both will follow. once this is established then I don't want to micromanage the sub/slave.
I hope this explains it a bit better.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
Punishment for being so pathetic.. (+18)
Little dean got another zap, zap punishment because he got busted while doing one of his naked runs. Poor people who had to see his pathetic little wobble cock. He recorded it for your entertainment. Oh, by the way, he hasn't had an orgasm in 80 days and that is without a chastity device.
Enjoy the video.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
Enjoy the video.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
My dream sub/slave
My friend Sissyblueballs, asked Me what I was searching for in a sub/slave. Interesting question and it is very hard to answer since I am not 100% sure. This is what I have come up with so far and this list might change over time but this is what I want right now today.
I do know that the man I have a domestic relationship with has to be an Alpha or an Alpha sub. I don't become sexually attracted to beta men. That's why I don't do sissy play. I much rather see MY sub as My titan or champion. There is nothing sexier than a strong man who is more than capable to rule everyone in his surrounding and yet he chooses to submit to Me and Me only. That is a major turn on. He is most likely a man other men look up to and respects. He is smart, driven, capable, well mannered and have good social skills. He takes pride in making My life easier in every way he can and he makes sure that My needs are met and that I am cared for. We will be a power couple for sure.
⚜️ He knows how to treat Me like the sensual and feminine Woman I am. He is a gentleman who knows how to court Me to keep Me interested.
I do know that the man I have a domestic relationship with has to be an Alpha or an Alpha sub. I don't become sexually attracted to beta men. That's why I don't do sissy play. I much rather see MY sub as My titan or champion. There is nothing sexier than a strong man who is more than capable to rule everyone in his surrounding and yet he chooses to submit to Me and Me only. That is a major turn on. He is most likely a man other men look up to and respects. He is smart, driven, capable, well mannered and have good social skills. He takes pride in making My life easier in every way he can and he makes sure that My needs are met and that I am cared for. We will be a power couple for sure.
⚜️ He knows how to treat Me like the sensual and feminine Woman I am. He is a gentleman who knows how to court Me to keep Me interested.
⚜️ He is 100% submissive. I don't like to interact with switches.
⚜️ He is funny, interesting and a great communicator.
⚜️ He is taller than Me so taller than 1.70m. I find short men to be so annoying and most of the time suffering from the short man syndrome.
⚜️ He knows how to fix simple things around the house. With other words, he is capable to sort out any home or car problems.
⚜️ He takes good care of himself and his appearance.
⚜️ He constantly tries to grow as a sub/slave and as a human.
⚜️ He takes good care of himself and his appearance.
⚜️ He constantly tries to grow as a sub/slave and as a human.
⚜️ He can function like a normal person within the relationship even though We have the D/s dynamic. I am always dominant and the Queen but I have no desire to follow him around 24/7 and micromanage him. That is work and I don't like work.
⚜️ He craves to live in an FLR. It is a big plus if he is absolutely crazy about foot and pussy worship. Adult breastfeeding is another thing he must love since it is one of My major kinks.
⚜️ He is a cuckold who understands that sex is not what drives Me to have more than one relationships. I love to flirt and I grow tired of people fast, and one man cannot satisfy all of My needs so I find it to be the best lifestyle for Me. I get to keep My freedom and he gets to shut up and accept it. And while I am out having fun, he gets to clean the house and do his chores and fantasize about what I will be doing.
⚜️ He is OK with physical punishments. It is a plus if he is a bit of a masochist, it would please My inner sadistress since I love Bastinado/Falaka.
⚜️ He understands that as soon as he has signed his sub/slave contract his body is Mine to do with as I please. I own his orgasms and he will be in chastity 24/7 until I say otherwise.
⚜️ He is smart enough to ask what I want to have done, how I want to have it done, memorize it and then learn My routines so that he can be proactive when it comes to pleasing Me. If given no directions he will figure it out. After all, he is around to please Me and make My life easier in every way he can.
⚜️ He is financially stable without a lot of debts.
⚜️ He loves animals and kids
⚜️ His ultimate goal is to build a long-term relationship with Me and carry My permanent symbol one day.
⚜️ He understands that a Domme can be just as weak as she is strong and sometimes She needs a break.
⚜️ He understands that a Domme can be just as weak as she is strong and sometimes She needs a break.
He is NOT: a sissy, toilet slave.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
~ Lady Blaze 💋
Wednesday, November 21, 2018
Book Review: How to Be a Dominatrix: How to become a Dominatrix
Thanks to a dear switch who knows how to treat a Woman I had the opportunity to read this book:
I want to start with saying that wouldn't recommend anyone to buy this book and I returned it myself and gave it a 2 star review on Amazon, so if you want to purchase it and judge for yourself you have been warned. The book is 14 pages long, she manages to misspell BDSM to DBSM, she mentions diapers alot, doesn't even explain what safewords mean and the importance of it, same with subspace and she gives lousy whipping and flogging instructions. Do NOT give this book to a beginner Domme! That is My honest opinion and I am amazed by how much information these "guidebooks" are lacking. Scary to say the least. And I suspect that the author of this book just copied a bit of information from the book below and published it as her own. It is almost identical but Ms Lawsons book contains more information and is a much better purchase.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
~ Lady Blaze 💋
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Book Review: Dominatrix 101: The Good Girl's Quick Guide to Dominating Her Man
I'm a bookworm and I like to read the work of other Dommes, because I get asked for advice so many times and it is handy to have a book recommendation to give them. I just finished reading this book:
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It is a good but very basic book for couples who are a bit curious about BDSM and wants to try it out. The author mentions safewords and gives a little bit information about spanking, whipping and flogging, she mentions positions and things around your house that you can incorporate into your play. This author also mentions the use of diapers in BDSM play and rubber chastity devices (which I don't recommend). That makes Me think that this book was the role model for How to Be a Dominatrix: How to Become a Dominatrix by Veronica Salazar because they are extremely similar, but the later one lacks tons of information and I don't recommend this book.
If you have no knowledge at all about BDSM then Dominatrix 101 is the book for you.
I give it 3 High Heels out of 5
~ Lady Blaze 💋
Monday, November 19, 2018
lil dean and his new collar (+18)
And it was fun to see how excited his tiny, little, useless dick got. Shame he cannot come.. *laughing* zap, zap dean. We will be using it a lot in the future.
~Lady Blaze
Sunday, November 18, 2018
Lady Blaze's Fetish Store
Happy shopping!
~ Lady Blaze
Here we have My very well used sneakers, that has a nice aroma of My foot sweat. Walked barefoot in them all summer. I will wear them a bit more before I ship them off to you so they have a really strong smell when you sniff and lick them. Size 7
Price starts at 50 euros or 60 US dollars + shipping
Saturday, November 17, 2018
Spanking preparation...
I was having a very nice conversation with the sub "SBB"and we started talking about punishment spanking and how some people in the community advocates to not spank when you are angry and to warm up the areas before you start..
Let Me put it like this, what a load of nonsense! If you piss Me off you will face the repercussions effective immediately, with no cooling off time, you will just drop your pants, bend forward and count every single stroke you get until Me and My inner sadist are satisfied. you will also thank Me for your punishment and you will kiss My whip/cane/ rattan or whatever I used to punish you with. After that, you may take that sore behind and go and sit down on a hard chair and do some writing assignments. I will love to watch you squirm while you are sitting down. *hehe*
I don't have the lust, time or energy to prepare you or your ass for a spanking, you should have thought about that before you messed up subby boy. End of story.
Of course, if it is a sensitive little sissy that visits Me for Pro Domme sessions then it is totally different. Then we have to discuss the situation and follow the protocol.
What is your experience and what do you prefer?
~ Lady Blaze
Let Me put it like this, what a load of nonsense! If you piss Me off you will face the repercussions effective immediately, with no cooling off time, you will just drop your pants, bend forward and count every single stroke you get until Me and My inner sadist are satisfied. you will also thank Me for your punishment and you will kiss My whip/cane/ rattan or whatever I used to punish you with. After that, you may take that sore behind and go and sit down on a hard chair and do some writing assignments. I will love to watch you squirm while you are sitting down. *hehe*
I don't have the lust, time or energy to prepare you or your ass for a spanking, you should have thought about that before you messed up subby boy. End of story.
Of course, if it is a sensitive little sissy that visits Me for Pro Domme sessions then it is totally different. Then we have to discuss the situation and follow the protocol.
What is your experience and what do you prefer?
~ Lady Blaze
Friday, November 9, 2018
TGIF!
~ Lady Blaze
Storytime Hilton Istanbul
I started writing this story a while ago, let Me know what you think in the comments. Constructive feedback is appreciated via mail.
The valet is opening the car door for Me and I thank him, gives him a smile and I start walking slowly towards the entrance, as you are thanking the town car driver for his service.
I can hear you hurrying up behind Me because I know that you hate it when another man gets to open the door for Me, and I smile to Myself, you are so Alpha and yet you are so submissive My dear pet.
You have made reservations for us to stay in Hilton Istanbul Bosphorus for a relaxing weekend. Correction, I will relax, mingle, shop and you will do what you do best, serve Me and work.
We go over to the elevator and as always you wait for Me to go in first. As we come to our suite you open the door for Me. I walk over to the armchair and I sit down waiting for you to drop down to the floor and remove My black, leather, Jimmy Choo Mitchell ankle boots. My feet are warm after a whole day in boots so I teasingly tell you to clean them up, with your tongue.
You are not late to respond and as you lay there, on your knees, smelling, licking and kissing My feet, sucking on My pretty little toes with ruby red nail polish. I can see that you are loving every minute of it, eagerly licking Me between My toes and it feels so good I close My eyes and enjoy the moment.
I lean forward after a little while and I lift your head up by pulling you in your hair as I say in a soft yet assertive voice: "It's enough, now run along and prepare My bath!"
Mumbling and disappointed you reply "Yes Miss."
Do you think I should continue this story?
~ Lady Blaze
Misspyretttablaze@gmail.com
The valet is opening the car door for Me and I thank him, gives him a smile and I start walking slowly towards the entrance, as you are thanking the town car driver for his service.
I can hear you hurrying up behind Me because I know that you hate it when another man gets to open the door for Me, and I smile to Myself, you are so Alpha and yet you are so submissive My dear pet.
You have made reservations for us to stay in Hilton Istanbul Bosphorus for a relaxing weekend. Correction, I will relax, mingle, shop and you will do what you do best, serve Me and work.
We go over to the elevator and as always you wait for Me to go in first. As we come to our suite you open the door for Me. I walk over to the armchair and I sit down waiting for you to drop down to the floor and remove My black, leather, Jimmy Choo Mitchell ankle boots. My feet are warm after a whole day in boots so I teasingly tell you to clean them up, with your tongue.You are not late to respond and as you lay there, on your knees, smelling, licking and kissing My feet, sucking on My pretty little toes with ruby red nail polish. I can see that you are loving every minute of it, eagerly licking Me between My toes and it feels so good I close My eyes and enjoy the moment.
I lean forward after a little while and I lift your head up by pulling you in your hair as I say in a soft yet assertive voice: "It's enough, now run along and prepare My bath!"
Mumbling and disappointed you reply "Yes Miss."
Do you think I should continue this story?
~ Lady Blaze
Misspyretttablaze@gmail.com
Gifts and packages
Hello boys and girls, I hope you all have been behaving well in My absence?
I have gotten a few questions about how you can send gifts and money. Since I live in Turkey it is a bit tricky to send money and things to Me over here. The Turkish Customs has a new rule so anything worth more than approx. 20 euros get charged a ridiculous amount of tax that we have to pay before we can pick it up at the post office. That means that even if you buy and pays for it to have it delivered here it will get caught in customs. We are also limited when it comes to sending money via Cashapp etc.
To solve this you can:
A. Repackage things and send it as a gift.
I have gotten a few questions about how you can send gifts and money. Since I live in Turkey it is a bit tricky to send money and things to Me over here. The Turkish Customs has a new rule so anything worth more than approx. 20 euros get charged a ridiculous amount of tax that we have to pay before we can pick it up at the post office. That means that even if you buy and pays for it to have it delivered here it will get caught in customs. We are also limited when it comes to sending money via Cashapp etc.
To solve this you can:
A. Repackage things and send it as a gift.
B. Send Me a gift card on Amazon so I can buy books for My kindle.
C. Send money via Paypal, Transferwise, Payson, WU.
D. Send bitcoins
E. Send a prepaid debit card
For more specifik details email Me at MissPyrettaBlaze@gmail.com
If you tell Me that you want to give Me something specific with the money, like a pedicure, shoes etc I will make sure to send you a picture of it to confirm. Trust works in both ways.
And at last but definitely not least, thank you Alan for the gift card, it is very much appreciated.
So if you don't hear from Me for a couple of days, I am reading My new books! ;)
Don't forget to connect with Me on Twitter @LadyBlaze6
Until next time, behave!
~ Lady Blaze
C. Send money via Paypal, Transferwise, Payson, WU.
D. Send bitcoins
E. Send a prepaid debit card
For more specifik details email Me at MissPyrettaBlaze@gmail.com
If you tell Me that you want to give Me something specific with the money, like a pedicure, shoes etc I will make sure to send you a picture of it to confirm. Trust works in both ways.
And at last but definitely not least, thank you Alan for the gift card, it is very much appreciated.
So if you don't hear from Me for a couple of days, I am reading My new books! ;)
Don't forget to connect with Me on Twitter @LadyBlaze6
Until next time, behave!
~ Lady Blaze
Thursday, November 8, 2018
Think before you act and verified Dommes
I'm so tired of all the little princesses that shows up on Twitter and Tumblr, hiding their faces and they don't know and don't care about dominance, subs, and subspace.
Sure it is a great way to make easy money and some of you subs are so stupid that you deserve to be used like that. I have no sympathy at all for you if they emptied your accounts. You are all accountable and responsible for your life and actions. Either you do your research and interact with verified Dommes and use your brain or you will pay a very high price. It is your choice.
Personally, I prefer to build friendships with My subs. I am a natural born leader and a Domme. I have always been like that and I will always be like that. I know how important you subs are and that we need each other to be happy. You are My loyal men and servants.
Of course, I want to be spoiled, pampered and not worry about boring, mortal things like bills, cleaning etc. I want to relax, train, meditate, working on becoming the best possible version of Me and continue to grow as a person. Who doesn't?! If your
Queen is happy, you are happy, that is law.
So don't ask what your Queen can do for you, ask yourself what you can do for your Queen.
~Lady Blaze
Sure it is a great way to make easy money and some of you subs are so stupid that you deserve to be used like that. I have no sympathy at all for you if they emptied your accounts. You are all accountable and responsible for your life and actions. Either you do your research and interact with verified Dommes and use your brain or you will pay a very high price. It is your choice.
Personally, I prefer to build friendships with My subs. I am a natural born leader and a Domme. I have always been like that and I will always be like that. I know how important you subs are and that we need each other to be happy. You are My loyal men and servants.
Of course, I want to be spoiled, pampered and not worry about boring, mortal things like bills, cleaning etc. I want to relax, train, meditate, working on becoming the best possible version of Me and continue to grow as a person. Who doesn't?! If your
Queen is happy, you are happy, that is law.
So don't ask what your Queen can do for you, ask yourself what you can do for your Queen.
~Lady Blaze
Monday, November 5, 2018
Keyholding and orgasm control
"If you control a mans orgasms, you control the man" ~ Lady Blaze
I absolutely love orgasm control and the power it gives Me. It is a massive turn on to literally have your balls in My hand. As a professional dog trainer, it is really funny to see how similar you subs are to other animals and how easy it is to train you. All I need to do is to take away your possibility to play with your pathetic cocks and you will submit and do anything I say. I have been told that I am too strict because I keep men locked up for long periods and I make you earn your orgasms. However, of course, they will be ruined or less enjoyable than normal. Not many subs can manage to be locked up by Me, I don't play with wimps. There are plenty of Dommes who do.
I play with the elite, the strong subs who genuinely wants to submit their body, mind, and heart to Me. The satisfaction I get when I see My sub locked up with My lock and his key in My neck chain knowing that he is helpless, he has no other option than to obey... A fantastic feeling! If that isn't the ultimate power then I don't know what is. Of course, the ultimate goal is to train him so well that he doesn't need to wear a chastity device at all. But that takes a lot of willpower, determination, and dedication and only 1% of you subs have the capacity to manage it.
However, I know that many of you subs and cuckolds don't have a keyholder and you long to be controlled and have a Woman like Me control your orgasms and lock your useless cocks away. Now you will have the opportunity to be locked away by Me. I know the online keyholding services that are available today are quite expensive and not a possible option for all of you so I have decided to help you subs out, this offer will expire on 23 of November.
Online keyholding Basic I (with your lock and key and you send your spare key to Me)
Includes: 1 email per day, where you send your picture and I will do random control: $150/month
If you prefer that I will send you My lock with one key, sealed then it will cost $250 for the first month after that $150/month.
If you prefer plastic locks or want to add humiliation or tease sessions via skype or kik please contact Me directly via mail:servingLadyBlaze@gmail.com
I absolutely love orgasm control and the power it gives Me. It is a massive turn on to literally have your balls in My hand. As a professional dog trainer, it is really funny to see how similar you subs are to other animals and how easy it is to train you. All I need to do is to take away your possibility to play with your pathetic cocks and you will submit and do anything I say. I have been told that I am too strict because I keep men locked up for long periods and I make you earn your orgasms. However, of course, they will be ruined or less enjoyable than normal. Not many subs can manage to be locked up by Me, I don't play with wimps. There are plenty of Dommes who do.
I play with the elite, the strong subs who genuinely wants to submit their body, mind, and heart to Me. The satisfaction I get when I see My sub locked up with My lock and his key in My neck chain knowing that he is helpless, he has no other option than to obey... A fantastic feeling! If that isn't the ultimate power then I don't know what is. Of course, the ultimate goal is to train him so well that he doesn't need to wear a chastity device at all. But that takes a lot of willpower, determination, and dedication and only 1% of you subs have the capacity to manage it.
However, I know that many of you subs and cuckolds don't have a keyholder and you long to be controlled and have a Woman like Me control your orgasms and lock your useless cocks away. Now you will have the opportunity to be locked away by Me. I know the online keyholding services that are available today are quite expensive and not a possible option for all of you so I have decided to help you subs out, this offer will expire on 23 of November.
Online keyholding Basic I (with your lock and key and you send your spare key to Me)
Includes: 1 email per day, where you send your picture and I will do random control: $150/month
If you prefer that I will send you My lock with one key, sealed then it will cost $250 for the first month after that $150/month.
If you prefer plastic locks or want to add humiliation or tease sessions via skype or kik please contact Me directly via mail:servingLadyBlaze@gmail.com
Sunday, November 4, 2018
Lady Blaze and Mr Z
It is an amazing feeling when you meet someone who loves you exactly the way you are. It is even more wonderful when a kinky person like Myself meets a vanilla Alpha man who totally supports this side of Me and takes his role as My lover and My champion. So I want to introduce you to Mr Z, he is a tall silver fox, a gentleman who spent some time in the Turkish army and he is very capable in many areas. *giggles* But you losers wouldn't know anything about that because you will never be able to please Women like Me. The only thing we can do with you and your wiggle worms is to lock you up and keep it out of sight! A steel cage that is permanently locked! Wouldn't you like that?
There will be some short stories about Me and Mr Z coming up in the near future that might turn you cuckolds on. ;) At least you will get a glimpse of how a real Alpha satisfies a woman.
There will be some short stories about Me and Mr Z coming up in the near future that might turn you cuckolds on. ;) At least you will get a glimpse of how a real Alpha satisfies a woman.
Falaka/ Bastinado
Ever since I was a teenager I have been fascinated by foot torture and especially Bastinado also known as Falaka. I read about it in a novel and it just stuck in My mind.
Falaka/Bastinado is when you hit someone on the soles of their feet, you can use a riding crop, rattan, cables etc. They used this punishment in harems back in the day. It was very effective since it is extremely painful but doesn't leave a mark on the body. So the girls in the sultan's harem would still be able to perform their duties and look pretty. I love the fact that it doesn't leave any marks and the sub will remember Me and the session with every step he takes. That is a major turn on for the sadist in Me.
And isn't it funny that I ended up living in Turkey, the country of Falaka? To top it off I will get a lesson in it from someone who did it to people the army way, just the thought of it turns Me on! We just need to find a willing masochist. ;)
Do you like foot torture and what have experienced? Be a good sub and leave a comment below.
~Lady Blaze
Falaka/Bastinado is when you hit someone on the soles of their feet, you can use a riding crop, rattan, cables etc. They used this punishment in harems back in the day. It was very effective since it is extremely painful but doesn't leave a mark on the body. So the girls in the sultan's harem would still be able to perform their duties and look pretty. I love the fact that it doesn't leave any marks and the sub will remember Me and the session with every step he takes. That is a major turn on for the sadist in Me.
And isn't it funny that I ended up living in Turkey, the country of Falaka? To top it off I will get a lesson in it from someone who did it to people the army way, just the thought of it turns Me on! We just need to find a willing masochist. ;)
Do you like foot torture and what have experienced? Be a good sub and leave a comment below.
~Lady Blaze
Friday, November 2, 2018
A new beginning.
Dear subs and followers, you may have noticed that I have been absent for quite some time. I had to take a break from everything because I ended up being burned out. Now I am in a new stage in My life, I have realized that I was not created to work for someone else, I am supposed to inspire, rule and be adored so this is the start of My new life. I will work on inspiring women and men who want to learn about feminine and classy dominance, Alpha Subs, FLR, D/s, cuckolding, chastity and of course corporal punishment as Falaka. It will be both My job and My lifestyle since it is who I am and I cannot suppress it anymore. I have some exciting projects planned. There will be a members club for Dommes and one for subs. There will be events presented and BDSM holiday opportunities. I will also start publishing some of My short stories so you have an opportunity to see a glimpse of My kinky brain.
I will also start providing the following services online via Skype or KIK to very reasonable prices:
I will also start providing the following services online via Skype or KIK to very reasonable prices:
- Chastity and cuckolding.
- Foot torture sessions.
- Foot worship sessions.
- Humiliation and SPH sessions.
- Weight loss for subs coaching.
- The Gentleman sub coaching.
If you are interested in anything of the above, to show your appreciation and support then please contact Me via mail: missninanielsen@gmail.com
Have a kinky weekend you all.
~ Lady Blaze
Have a kinky weekend you all.
~ Lady Blaze
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