Why chastity?

Some people ask Me why I want My partner to wear a chastity device. Simply put, I will never trust a man to not play with his most precious possession, his cock if he has one big enough to be called that.. Most men do not have enough self-control to stay away from touching themselves when the urge gets too strong. They are after all the weaker sex.

But there are more reasons to why I want it. As a Professional Dog Trainer I have learned to study patterns and men who are in chastity and under orgasm control shows a different behavior than a man who gets to roam free and come when he wants. A man in chastity is helpful, caring, loving, attentive, he courts his Woman and focuses on Her, he bends over backward for Her, but the moment he gets his release, he becomes less attentive, less caring and loving. He doesn't help out and he slides back into his old patterns because he got to come and if he was really lucky, he got the cookie ´meaning he got to have sex with his Woman.

I personally think a man is a competitive creature by nature so he needs to have a goal to work for. It goes for everything in his life, work, sports, girls, material stuff etc. That's why so many relationships fail because once he gets the girl and the cookie he gets bored, he pays less attention to the girl and that is the beginning to the end.

But if you take away access to his little toy and orgasms and make him fight for it and earn it, then you suddenly have a much more attentive man in front of you. If My partner is a good lover I would definitely enjoy to have intercourse with him but he wouldn't necessarily come every time. But just because My man is in chastity and under orgasm control it doesn't mean that I should suffer. Because We Women are different, in fact, We are opposed to men. If we have an underfucked vagina that has dried up We are turned into some real bitter bitches. Sorry ladies but the that is the truth. A woman who is satisfied sexually and emotionally is a beautiful, positive, and happy.
So I personally think that 13 orgasms to Me and 1 to him is a pretty fair ratio. After all, if the Queen is happy, everyone is happy.

And the best part as a keyholder, you get to decide when he will have sex IF he will be allowed to have sex or orgasms at all. If you have a pesky husband that is nagging you for sex then here you have the perfect solution. Lock him up and teach him how to satisfy you and not until he does the job well is he allowed to have a release. Maybe you are turned on by watching him do housework, or by having him massaging you instead of pleasing you sexually. It is up to you what you as a keyholder wants from him. You are calling the shots and you make the rules. Control a mans cock and orgasms and you control the man. That's why concubines have been so important throughout the history of time because men are weak and slave under their orgasms.

Another positive side effect from wearing a chastity device is that he will not be able to stick his little dick in where it doesn't belong so he won't bring home any genital STD:s and he won't make another woman pregnant. However, he will still be able to cheat so if he is a notorious cheater this will not stop him from being with and satisfying other women and men. Yeah, they can be slutty like that.

If you want to be sure that he doesn't cheat and gets it off I would recommend having his little cock pierced and the piercing attached to the chastity device itself. Personally, I prefer metal models but you can find silicone, plastic and even rubber models. I wouldn't even bother with the rubber models because they can still orgasm with that if they play enough. I would also stay away from all the CB3000 CBbla bla, bla models because they are not that safe, to begin with, and a bit hard to put on. Most men choose this model though as their first model, I have absolutely no clue why.

Anyway, this was a few My thoughts about chastity. I do not currently have anyone in lockup but I do offer an affordable keyholding service so if you want to know more about this then please email Me at servingLadyBlaze@gmail.com

Sissyblueballs might have a few things to say as well about this subject and I would love to see both his and your thoughts about this in the comments below.

Until next time, take care.
~ Lady Blaze 💋