A loving sadist?

I talked with someone on Chastity Mansion and he is one the people who read My blog (thank you) and he mentioned that it was odd that I can be this nurturing, loving breastfeeding Domme and yet I can be this sadistic, ruthless Mistress who enjoys performing Falaka/Bastinado and other corporal punishments.

I never thought about it like that, but he has a point. I knew that I am a somewhat rare unicorn when it comes to My kinks. Breastfeeding is definitely considered one of the rarer kinks since it demands a lot of time and effort if you actually want to induce lactation. Falaka/Bastinado is rare amongst Dommes since it is more commonly performed by men on female subs, I guess you have to be tough to perform it since it really hurts.

I am a really sweet, positive and kind Woman. I even bake, cook, cuddles babies and save kittens/puppies and I will bring you a bowl of chicken soup if you are ill (I will leave the dishes for you though, everything within reason..) I will cuddle you and have fun with you for sure. If we are in a relationship where I let you suckle My breasts then we will have a very strong and deep bond for sure.

However, people tend to mistake My kindness and care for weakness and thinks that I am not firm enough. Well, I simply learned that you catch more flies with honey than with salt. ;) But strangely enough, I do not enjoy spanking/tormenting people for no reason. (if you pay Me for it I will actually enjoy it) But I truly enjoy handing out consequences and punishments when it is called for. It gives Me a very deep satisfaction. So if you mess up you will get punished and the punishment will be in relation to the severeness of your mistake.

I always strive for perfection, I always notice the things that can be improved and how to do it. I am actually paid to improve things, humans and situations. But I will give you an example.. If you bring Me, My coffee and it is not perfect, I will let you know and I will give you a small punishment, like standing in the corner. If you bring it again not to My liking, I will explain it again exactly how I want it and how you should do it and you will sit down and write one hundred lines about how to make perfect coffee for your Mistress.

If I notice that you are doing it a third time then you are either stupid or ignoring My wishes or trying to manipulate Me into spanking you because that is what you dream of. If it is because you are being stupid you will have a somewhat sore ass, if you are ignoring My wishes then you will have a really sore ass and in both scenarios, you will learn to do My coffee right by negative association. I have trained dogs and humans for a living, you are not a match for Me to train.

But if you are a manipulative little sub trying to top from the bottom I will make sure that you will not sit comfortably for a very, very long time and that every step you take will remind you of what you did and you will get more than you bargained for and you will think both once, twice and maybe five times before you try that again. Am I clear?

And if you are a masochist I will find other ways to punish you of course... *grins*

I am a reflection of your behavior, you choose what side of Me you want to see. The only thing I can say is to choose wisely...

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Until next time, stay obedient.

~ Lady Blaze 💋