I feel that My previous post perhaps doesn't reveal in detail what I expect from a sub/slave from a submissive perspective.
⚜️ I expect to be on the subs/slaves mind when he wakes up and when he goes to bed. Meaning I expect there to be a good morning text and a good night text, every day.
⚜️ I expect the sub/slave to take care of most of the household chores. I enjoy doing housework sometimes (rarely) but most of the time it will be the subs/slaves responsibility. If he is not physically present and can perform the job then he will provide the funds for Me to hire someone to do his job for him.
⚜️ I expect him to follow the news and report back to Me any important things I need to know. I don't follow news on a daily basis since it makes Me depressed.
⚜️ I expect him to be an advisor in the areas where he has knowledge. Just because I am a Domme it doesn't mean that I cannot listen to advice from people with more knowledge. I am a leader, that is what the leader does and that's why they are successful.
⚜️ I expect him to be able to tell Me his needs, his wants, his dreams, what he is curious about, what he dislikes and what his hard limits are. This is to understand him better. Depending on the relationship I might or might not respect his thoughts. I also expect him to tell Me his ideas of rewards and punishments on different levels.
⚜️ I expect him to have a safeword that we will use while we are getting to know each other. Later on, this might or might not disappear.
⚜️ I want the sub/slave to be free to satisfy Me as he sees fit but he will always respect My say in things. Meaning that if he wants to wake Me up with a morning orgasm he is free to do so if he sees that My shoulders are tense he is free to come and give Me a shoulder rub or bring Me water when he sees that I haven't been drinking properly etc. Heck, he can even through Me over his shoulders with a roar when he is bursting from being horny, as long as he stops when I say so. You see, I need a functioning relationship with vanilla parts. Sometimes pure vanilla sex is highly underestimated.
⚜️ I need him to follow while I lead. I am not an easy person to live with but I am definitely worth it.
⚜️ I need him to confide in Me, discuss with Me, challenge My brain. I need his help to make him the best version of him he can possibly be and I need him to push Me to grow as well and to be the sensual and feminine Woman I am.
⚜️ I need him to make My life better and to make Me happy and buying Me time is making Me happy, being able to be creative makes Me happy. I cannot be this divine Goddess when I am working as a slave on 2 jobs to make ends meet and then come home and turn in to a sexy feminine Domme that will rock a subs/slaves world. That ain't happening today, and it ain't tomorrow.
So when I say that I want to have My bills and expenses paid, I am not talking about handbags and stuff. I want to have freedom, not stress about money, I want to be able to focus on the things that make Me happy, painting, writing, sex etc. I will always do some small work but right now I want to invest in Myself (education to build a small business, buy properties to get a passive income etc) to build a good life for both of us. If I am happy, the sub/slave is happy. Think of it as a stay at home Domme.
⚜️ I need him to share My kinks. And I need him to be able to understand that being submissive to Me has nothing to do with being naked, sleeping in a cage or drinking water from a bowl. That is play for betas. This is real, this is where boys become men and damn good ones! You can rule the world but rest assure that I will rule you.
⚜️ I need him to match My efforts on making the relationship work.
⚜️ And lastly, I need a sub/slave to be somewhat independent. I absolutely dislike needy and insecure people, it drives Me crazy. With this, I mean that We will have a schedule and a system/protocol that We both will follow. once this is established then I don't want to micromanage the sub/slave.
I hope this explains it a bit better.
~ Lady Blaze 💋
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