Monday, January 4, 2016

If you want to meet a Dominant woman

So I am on this dating site and I put in My profile that I am looking for My life partner and a FLR.
It has gotten Me a ton of visitors. Some are really nice and others are just rude.
I don't know how many times these submissive men has written a message with the following:
Hello I am looking for a dominant woman.
The reply they get is:  That's cool, have you tried the yellow pages? They don't like that...

You see, yes I am a Dominant woman and yes I am looking for My life partner and long term subs but that doesn't mean that every sub or slave that I come a cross are of interest to Me. There has to be a connection, a chemistry, you know the click!  I don't understand why men thinks it is any different with Us Dommes.
Men does not normally just write to a woman on POF or whatever, "Hey I am looking for a blond woman"
One simply does not do that!

So here is a quick guide for you subs who lacks some social skills:

  1. READ the profile, TWICE before you write to Us!
  2. Introduce yourself properly and use correct language. Ma'am is a good way to show respect to the Domme.
  3. Do NOT use text language, EVER! It is so disrespectful towards the person you are chatting with.
  4. Treat the Domme just as you would treat a Rhianna,  Madonna, Beyonce, Shakira, Lady Gaga, your CEO, your Mother, The Queen of England etc! With other words, be polite and have something interesting to say or ask serious questions.
  5. A Dominant woman is a woman who is approached by many, many men. Most of them has absolutely nothing of value to say and they don't know what they want, they have no limits, no dreams or desires etc when asked. Don't be one of these men. A slave or a sub should have an answer to these kind of questions. They should know what they want, what they want to try, what they don't want to try and what kind of woman and Domme they are looking for!
  6. Respect that you are not the only sub the Domme is talking to, so don't expect Her to give you attention 24/7 on skype or KIK etc. Write something and then wait for Her to answer, She will answer when She has the time.
  7. Don't ask Her what She would do to you if you were with Her unless you have agreed to have a session. Dommes are not interested in painting up scenarios for every sub who comes into Our computer screen unless A you are Her sub or B She is a Pro Domme and you are paying Her for it!
    If you want to have the cookie, you get to pay for the cookie! Understand? Good boy!
  8. Always be a gentleman!
  9. Do NOT send pictures of your cock!  Send normal pictures of yourself instead.
  10. Use your common sense, a Domme is a woman, a person just like anyone else.
Good luck!

~Lady Blaze

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