My dream sub/slave

My friend Sissyblueballs, asked Me what I was searching for in a sub/slave. Interesting question and it is very hard to answer since I am not 100% sure. This is what I have come up with so far and this list might change over time but this is what I want right now today.

I do know that the man I have a domestic relationship with has to be an Alpha or an Alpha sub. I don't become sexually attracted to beta men. That's why I don't do sissy play. I much rather see MY sub as My titan or champion. There is nothing sexier than a strong man who is more than capable to rule everyone in his surrounding and yet he chooses to submit to Me and Me only. That is a major turn on. He is most likely a man other men look up to and respects. He is smart, driven, capable, well mannered and have good social skills. He takes pride in making My life easier in every way he can and he makes sure that My needs are met and that I am cared for. We will be a power couple for sure.

⚜️ He knows how to treat Me like the sensual and feminine Woman I am. He is a gentleman who knows how to court Me to keep Me interested.

⚜️ He is 100% submissive. I don't like to interact with switches.

⚜️ He is funny, interesting and a great communicator.

⚜️ He is taller than Me so taller than 1.70m. I find short men to be so annoying and most of the time suffering from the short man syndrome.

⚜️ He knows how to fix simple things around the house. With other words, he is capable to sort out any home or car problems.

⚜️ He takes good care of himself and his appearance.

⚜️ He constantly tries to grow as a sub/slave and as a human. 

⚜️ He can function like a normal person within the relationship even though We have the D/s dynamic. I am always dominant and the Queen but I have no desire to follow him around 24/7 and micromanage him. That is work and I don't like work.

⚜️ He craves to live in an FLR. It is a big plus if he is absolutely crazy about foot and pussy worship. Adult breastfeeding is another thing he must love since it is one of My major kinks.

⚜️ He is a cuckold who understands that sex is not what drives Me to have more than one relationships. I love to flirt and I grow tired of people fast, and one man cannot satisfy all of My needs so I find it to be the best lifestyle for Me. I get to keep My freedom and he gets to shut up and accept it. And while I am out having fun, he gets to clean the house and do his chores and fantasize about what I will be doing.

⚜️ He is OK with physical punishments. It is a plus if he is a bit of a masochist, it would please My inner sadistress since I love Bastinado/Falaka.

⚜️ He understands that as soon as he has signed his sub/slave contract his body is Mine to do with as I please. I own his orgasms and he will be in chastity 24/7 until I say otherwise.

⚜️ He is smart enough to ask what I want to have done, how I want to have it done, memorize it and then learn My routines so that he can be proactive when it comes to pleasing Me. If given no directions he will figure it out. After all, he is around to please Me and make My life easier in every way he can. 

⚜️ He is financially stable without a lot of debts.

⚜️ He loves animals and kids

⚜️ His ultimate goal is to build a long-term relationship with Me and carry My permanent symbol one day. 

⚜️ He understands that a Domme can be just as weak as she is strong and sometimes She needs a break. 

He is NOT: a sissy, toilet slave.


~ Lady Blaze 💋

  

Book Review: How to Be a Dominatrix: How to become a Dominatrix

Thanks to a dear switch who knows how to treat a Woman I had the opportunity to read this book:

I want to start with saying that wouldn't recommend anyone to buy this book and I returned it myself and gave it a 2 star review on Amazon, so if you want to purchase it and judge for yourself you have been warned. The book is 14 pages long, she manages to misspell BDSM to DBSM, she mentions diapers alot, doesn't even explain what safewords mean and the importance of it, same with subspace and she gives lousy whipping and flogging instructions. Do NOT give this book to a beginner Domme! That is My honest opinion and I am amazed by how much information these "guidebooks" are lacking. Scary to say the least. And I suspect that the author of this book just copied a bit of information from the book below and published it as her own. It is almost identical but Ms Lawsons book contains more information and is a much better purchase.

~ Lady Blaze 💋

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Book Review: Dominatrix 101: The Good Girl's Quick Guide to Dominating Her Man

I'm a bookworm and I like to read the work of other Dommes, because I get asked for advice so many times and it is handy to have a book recommendation to give them. I just finished reading this book:

 (If you purchase any books by following links on My page you are supporting Me, thank you! ;)

It is a good but very basic book for couples who are a bit curious about BDSM and wants to try it out. The author mentions safewords and gives a little bit information about spanking, whipping and flogging, she mentions positions and things around your house that you can incorporate into your play. This author also mentions the use of diapers in BDSM play and rubber chastity devices (which I don't recommend). That makes Me think that this book was the role model for How to Be a Dominatrix: How to Become a Dominatrix by Veronica Salazar because they are extremely similar, but the later one lacks tons of information and I don't recommend this book. 

If you have no knowledge at all about BDSM then  Dominatrix 101 is the book for you. 
I give it 3 High Heels out of 5

~ Lady Blaze 💋

lil dean and his new collar (+18)

This made Me laugh so much! How I wish I could push the buttons on that remote. Wunderbar!! The Queen is pleased, you did well.
And it was fun to see how excited his tiny, little, useless dick got. Shame he cannot come.. *laughing*  zap, zap dean.  We will be using it a lot in the future.

~Lady Blaze

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~ Lady Blaze

Here we have My very well used sneakers, that has a nice aroma of My foot sweat. Walked barefoot in them all summer. I will wear them a bit more before I ship them off to you so they have a really strong smell when you sniff and lick them. Size 7
Price starts at 50 euros or 60 US dollars + shipping

Spanking preparation...

I was having a very nice conversation with the sub "SBB"and we started talking about punishment spanking and how some people in the community advocates to not spank when you are angry and to warm up the areas before you start..

Let Me put it like this, what a load of nonsense! If you piss Me off you will face the repercussions effective immediately, with no cooling off time, you will just drop your pants, bend forward and count every single stroke you get until Me and My inner sadist are satisfied. you will also thank Me for your punishment and you will kiss My whip/cane/ rattan or whatever I used to punish you with. After that, you may take that sore behind and go and sit down on a hard chair and do some writing assignments. I will love to watch you squirm while you are sitting down. *hehe*
I don't have the lust, time or energy to prepare you or your ass for a spanking, you should have thought about that before you messed up subby boy. End of story.

Of course, if it is a sensitive little sissy that visits Me for Pro Domme sessions then it is totally different. Then we have to discuss the situation and follow the protocol.

What is your experience and what do you prefer?

~ Lady Blaze

TGIF!

A little video greeting for you guys. Have a nice weekend everyone, enjoy! 💋🌸

~ Lady Blaze