I came across this a few months ago and I just fell in love with it so I thought I would share it since it sums things up so perfectly, I need a Goddamn Warrior. ~ Lady Blaze
You Don’t Need A Man, You Need a Goddamn Warrior.
By Kate Rose, Aug 12, 2015
Warning: naughty language ahead!
To my sweet wild woman, I know why it hasn’t worked out with anyone else—you don’t need a man, but a goddamn warrior.
You are the strength of Turkish coffee at sunrise darlin’ and don’t try to pretend that you’re not.
You are one of the wild ones, and no matter how you tried to hide that fact, you can’t be anything other than what you are—and that’s okay. You are just as you are supposed to be, magnificently wild in all of your chaotic beauty.
I know you’ve had your heart broken and I know that you don’t understand why it always seems to never work out, but I’ve finally figured it out:
You don’t need a man, you need a goddamn warrior.
It doesn’t matter if this warrior drives a Jeep or a shiny sports car, and it won’t matter if he wears silk or cotton—it will not even matter if he works in a high-rise, or on the night shift.
What is going to matter is that when it comes to taking bets on your heart, he is going to be high stakes—all the way.
This warrior of yours will crave your strength, and your intensity. He’s going to look at you and not see something to tame, but something to just fuckin’ admire. This warrior of yours won’t be someone that you can manipulate or play with as you have in the past, so honey, don’t even try—and trust me, you’re going to love him even more because of it.
Because you aren’t just a woman, you’re a goddamn goddess.
Your fierceness is going to bring him to his knees every single time he looks into your gorgeous eyes, but the difference is, unlike the others, he isn’t going to be scared off. No, this time, you will have finally met your match—because a simple man for you just won’t do.
You need someone to match the fire in your eyes with his own. Not only that, my little wild thing, but this warrior of yours is going to want to encourage the flames instead of trying to douse them with his own insecurities.
Because for you, a warrior is the only man who will ever live in the wild with you.
He may not have to slay any dragons to earn your love, but he would still walk through fire if it meant seeing that amazing smile that you hold in reserve for only him.
This is the thing, free spirit, this warrior you seek….he’s seeking you too.
For he’s had failed relationships that have left him wondering if maybe he was meant to be alone for the rest of his journey—and you’re going to change all of that for him. You both have been travelling along on your separate journeys and have been doing an okay job at it, but that about to change too.
Because baby, when you and this warrior of yours meet and collide—it’s going to be a love set on fire.
Don’t try to run this time—I know your heart has been broken before, and that you’re not used to things working out, but this time it’s different. Give yourself time to see that.
This warrior of yours needs to see that it’s possible for someone to see all of his wild, and still be there when he craves his freedom and ventures off into this world for a bit. You won’t always need to follow him, just as he won’t always follow you. Let yourself stay wild, even when all you want to do is curl up in that spot along his side and forget the rest of the world exists.
Let yourself still wander naked under the full moon, and drink moonshine with the stars. Let yourself feel the pull of the wind on your heart, and the sun toward a new journey. Because this warrior is going to love you because of your wild—and he’ll want you to keep it.
You’ll be in this together now, this amazing, crazy, chaotic, wonderfully heartbreaking life—because it takes a warrior to love a goddess. And it takes a goddess to show a warrior what real love is.
So pack up your insecurities and your ideas about picket fences, because that was never you anyway. You were born knowing that you were destined for more, and now is the time for you to see what all those dreams look like.
There is no stopping a love like this, so promise me you’ll hold out just a little bit longer.
Have a little bit of hope, and always give love just one more try, because I promise you my sweet wild woman—the love that you seek is seeking you as well.
AUTHOR: Katie Rose
Tuesday, December 29, 2015
Monday, December 28, 2015
Puppy & pony play
I sometimes get the question if I enjoy puppy and pony play and I do not.
Yes I am a trained professional dog trainer and behaviorist and I do implement My skills in when I train My slaves, but I find it absolutely ridiculous walking around with a man on all four with his wagging butt plug tail. There is nothing sexy about this picture what so ever, and I want to be turned on by My sub so no way.
Watching you drink or eat from a bowl is just disgusting and we wouldn't have any sexual games that month I can tell you that...
Yes, I love animals, they are cute and beautiful, but when you are trying to imitate them, you are not! Besides, My pets are just like any canine in the US Army, higher ranked than the person looking after them so when you try to imitate them it is an insult to the animals and I don't like insults.
Sure if I was a Pro Domme I could play along with this, but then I don't have My emotions involved and I would not focus on being turned on.
If you like it great, each to their own and I hope you find a Domme who shares your feelings but in My house this will never happen.
So there you have My take on animal play.
~Lady Blaze
Yes I am a trained professional dog trainer and behaviorist and I do implement My skills in when I train My slaves, but I find it absolutely ridiculous walking around with a man on all four with his wagging butt plug tail. There is nothing sexy about this picture what so ever, and I want to be turned on by My sub so no way.
Watching you drink or eat from a bowl is just disgusting and we wouldn't have any sexual games that month I can tell you that...
Yes, I love animals, they are cute and beautiful, but when you are trying to imitate them, you are not! Besides, My pets are just like any canine in the US Army, higher ranked than the person looking after them so when you try to imitate them it is an insult to the animals and I don't like insults.
Sure if I was a Pro Domme I could play along with this, but then I don't have My emotions involved and I would not focus on being turned on.
If you like it great, each to their own and I hope you find a Domme who shares your feelings but in My house this will never happen.
So there you have My take on animal play.
~Lady Blaze
The Perfect New Year...
With 2015 coming to an end and 2016 standing there knocking on the door, I spend a lot of time thinking about how I would like to 2016 to be, but I am also thinking about what the perfect New Years Eve would look like.
I am used to not celebrating New Year like other people since I am owned by the Royal Cats and before that My precious dogs. So I am always at home with them and I started to see it as a spiritual day, first cleaning and clearing My home, then spend the day with meditation, affirmations, leaving the unwanted things in the past and setting My intentions for the year to come. I would not want to change this for anything but if I would have a primary partner then there would be a few changes to My routine.
He would be doing all the cleaning of course so I could focus on Me entirely. When that's done we would sit together and work out our goals for the new year. Our desires and dreams, both personal and for the relationship. He would pamper Me all day and evening, cook a delicious meal for us and serve Me all evening. We would be surrounded of soft music to set the mood and candle light with a light sensual fragrance.
I would be relaxing with a glass of Veuve Clicquot YL. while he gives My beautiful feet a massage. When it would get closer to midnight I would tell him to come and sit in between My legs, and he would eagerly please Me with his mouth and fingers as we step into 2016. That my friends would be My perfect New Years Eve.
Don't get Me wrong, to find a sub who does this for Me is very easy, in fact they would run down the door to fill that spot, however, finding the right, primary, alpha sub is very difficult. And until I do I will celebrate My New Year alone with the Royal Cats.
But a Domme can dream...
I am used to not celebrating New Year like other people since I am owned by the Royal Cats and before that My precious dogs. So I am always at home with them and I started to see it as a spiritual day, first cleaning and clearing My home, then spend the day with meditation, affirmations, leaving the unwanted things in the past and setting My intentions for the year to come. I would not want to change this for anything but if I would have a primary partner then there would be a few changes to My routine.
He would be doing all the cleaning of course so I could focus on Me entirely. When that's done we would sit together and work out our goals for the new year. Our desires and dreams, both personal and for the relationship. He would pamper Me all day and evening, cook a delicious meal for us and serve Me all evening. We would be surrounded of soft music to set the mood and candle light with a light sensual fragrance.
I would be relaxing with a glass of Veuve Clicquot YL. while he gives My beautiful feet a massage. When it would get closer to midnight I would tell him to come and sit in between My legs, and he would eagerly please Me with his mouth and fingers as we step into 2016. That my friends would be My perfect New Years Eve.
Don't get Me wrong, to find a sub who does this for Me is very easy, in fact they would run down the door to fill that spot, however, finding the right, primary, alpha sub is very difficult. And until I do I will celebrate My New Year alone with the Royal Cats.
But a Domme can dream...
Sunday, December 27, 2015
The kinky side of Lady Blaze
Subs/slaves often asks Me what I like so here we go. Please note that this is what I like right now, it might have changed if you check back later.
FLR ~ This is a given since I have a Dominant personality both inside and outside of the bedroom. I see My partner as an adviser and I respect his opinions and ideas even if I might not act upon them. It is not only a bedroom game for Me, it is a lifestyle. I am the CEO of the relationship. When you are at your work and among your friends you can be the big Alpha Male, but not with Me. You will be My advisor, My sub/slave, one of My Titans and in the end My knight.
Mental Dominance ~ This is what I enjoy the most, being able to control you with My words and looks. It is linked to behaviors and that fascinates Me a lot. It is also very fun when performed online or in long distance relationships.
Sensual Dominance and BDSM ~ To lovingly torment you with feathers, hot and cold games, to caress you and push your limits in a sensual but firm way. Nothing extreme and not something hurtful.
Orgasm control ~ I just love it! It is so much fun to edge you and keep you there and then to have you back down to slowly build it up again. To let you please Me when at the same time you are being denied from coming yourself. How does it get any better than that?
Ruined orgasms ~ I like to ruin orgasms or have My sub/slave continue to play with himself even after he came. I like to see how it torments him, I guess it makes My inner sadist happy.
Chastity devices ~ I don't trust a man to stay away from touching himself for more than a few days so I like the thought of men in Chastity devices controlled by Me. And we all know that when the opportunity presents itself, most of you have a hard time to say no, so it keeps you in line and your attention where it should be, on Me! When in a long distance relationship it is mandatory that My slave/sub is locked up in a chastity device.
Prostate massage /anal play ~ I like it when the sub/slave enjoys it and gets turned on by it. This also involve figging and hot and cold play.
Prostate milking ~ This is something I have not yet explored but I am sure I will like this very much.
Adult Breastfeeding ~ Please do not confuse this with the whole Mommy Domme thing! This involves a man and a woman who connects while he suckles Her breasts. It is the most peaceful and calming feeling in the world and the bond it creates is amazing! For Me this has nothing to do with Dominance, it is just a wonderful feeling and I have experienced it in Vanilla relationships. Yes I can lactate but I choose not to at this moment since I don't have a regular partner.
Cuckolding ~ I like to have several partners but not at the same time, so no gangbangs or one night stands from the bar. I prefer to have regular boyfriends/partners because it gives Me the most satisfaction when I have a connection with the person I am intimate with plus it is more safe for everyone involved. This is not only about sex for Me, it is very much about the intellectual and emotional part as well. A simple way of putting it, I can not find everything I seek in one man and it is not fair to you men if I would expect that from you.
Having My feet pampered ~ I love to have My feet rubbed with lotion and having you kissing them and resting them in your lap. I have loved this since I was a child and I make sure to keep them beautiful with a nice pedicure because there is nothing worse than a pair of ugly feet.. I will also expect you to keep your feet in good shape. One does simply not have ugly feet! If you can give Me a pedicure it would be even better.
Massage ~ Since I have a chronic pain issue, I really enjoy and need regular massage so every sub will need to take a short course in massage so they can make Me more comfortable.
Trampling~ I like to have My feet on My subs chest or on his genitals, it keeps them warm.
Oral pleasure & Queening ~ I love it when a man licks My wet, juicy pussy like his life depended on it. The more you are into it, the more I enjoy it and it doesn't matter what time in the month it is I just love it and I want it.
Falaka/Bastinado~ Is something I have been curious about since I was 15 years old and read about it in a book. I can't wait to try it because after a session, every step you will take will remind you of Me.
CBT~ I have not really explored it but some light version of it seems very interesting.
Household slave ~ I hate to clean but I love to have a clean house. I am a very creative person so when I have to do boring things like cleaning instead of painting and writing I am not happy so I love it when My subs takes over that part so I can enjoy Myself. A happy Mistress is a generous Mistress...
Cooking~ I am a pretty good cook but I don't want to cook all the time so a sub who can cook healthy and tasty vegan or raw food would be very appreciated.
Spanking & Whipping ~ Hmm, a tough one, so far I'm not turned on by it but if I see that you are enjoying it or gets turned on by it then it is a bit of a turn on. Of course it is the perfect punishment for bad behavior if you don't like it. I do however enjoy pinching people a lot. So as a punishment it gives Me satisfaction.
Consequences & Punishments ~ Every action has a consequence and I like to punish people, when it is called for, in a physical and non physical way. Nothing extreme though.
Small penis humiliation ~ I never thought I would like this but I do enjoy it quite a lot and it is really fun.
Yoni Massage ~ I have never tried it but I can't wait to do so. It seems so nice and relaxing.
Golden showers ~ Can be fun sometimes but not every day.
Things I don't like is the following:
Toilettslaves - Just don't even ask!!
Sissyfication and forced cross dressing - It is not My cup of tea, it is not logical and it is not reflecting well on Women.
Extreme bondage or spanking - I don't like anything extreme
Abuse and strap on rape - Hell no.
Keeping a gimp in a cage 24/7 - Are you kidding Me? That would be causing Me more problems than joy.
Anal Fisting - It might lead to chronic damage so nope.
Monster cocks and black lovers - I am not a Hotwife. I take normal sized men based on how we connect on an intellectual or emotional level, not depending on their skin color or cock size.
Gang Bangs ~ No thank you.
To be continued..
FLR ~ This is a given since I have a Dominant personality both inside and outside of the bedroom. I see My partner as an adviser and I respect his opinions and ideas even if I might not act upon them. It is not only a bedroom game for Me, it is a lifestyle. I am the CEO of the relationship. When you are at your work and among your friends you can be the big Alpha Male, but not with Me. You will be My advisor, My sub/slave, one of My Titans and in the end My knight.
Mental Dominance ~ This is what I enjoy the most, being able to control you with My words and looks. It is linked to behaviors and that fascinates Me a lot. It is also very fun when performed online or in long distance relationships.
Sensual Dominance and BDSM ~ To lovingly torment you with feathers, hot and cold games, to caress you and push your limits in a sensual but firm way. Nothing extreme and not something hurtful.
Orgasm control ~ I just love it! It is so much fun to edge you and keep you there and then to have you back down to slowly build it up again. To let you please Me when at the same time you are being denied from coming yourself. How does it get any better than that?
Ruined orgasms ~ I like to ruin orgasms or have My sub/slave continue to play with himself even after he came. I like to see how it torments him, I guess it makes My inner sadist happy.
Chastity devices ~ I don't trust a man to stay away from touching himself for more than a few days so I like the thought of men in Chastity devices controlled by Me. And we all know that when the opportunity presents itself, most of you have a hard time to say no, so it keeps you in line and your attention where it should be, on Me! When in a long distance relationship it is mandatory that My slave/sub is locked up in a chastity device.
Prostate massage /anal play ~ I like it when the sub/slave enjoys it and gets turned on by it. This also involve figging and hot and cold play.
Prostate milking ~ This is something I have not yet explored but I am sure I will like this very much.
Adult Breastfeeding ~ Please do not confuse this with the whole Mommy Domme thing! This involves a man and a woman who connects while he suckles Her breasts. It is the most peaceful and calming feeling in the world and the bond it creates is amazing! For Me this has nothing to do with Dominance, it is just a wonderful feeling and I have experienced it in Vanilla relationships. Yes I can lactate but I choose not to at this moment since I don't have a regular partner.
Cuckolding ~ I like to have several partners but not at the same time, so no gangbangs or one night stands from the bar. I prefer to have regular boyfriends/partners because it gives Me the most satisfaction when I have a connection with the person I am intimate with plus it is more safe for everyone involved. This is not only about sex for Me, it is very much about the intellectual and emotional part as well. A simple way of putting it, I can not find everything I seek in one man and it is not fair to you men if I would expect that from you.
Having My feet pampered ~ I love to have My feet rubbed with lotion and having you kissing them and resting them in your lap. I have loved this since I was a child and I make sure to keep them beautiful with a nice pedicure because there is nothing worse than a pair of ugly feet.. I will also expect you to keep your feet in good shape. One does simply not have ugly feet! If you can give Me a pedicure it would be even better.
Massage ~ Since I have a chronic pain issue, I really enjoy and need regular massage so every sub will need to take a short course in massage so they can make Me more comfortable.
Trampling~ I like to have My feet on My subs chest or on his genitals, it keeps them warm.
Oral pleasure & Queening ~ I love it when a man licks My wet, juicy pussy like his life depended on it. The more you are into it, the more I enjoy it and it doesn't matter what time in the month it is I just love it and I want it.
Falaka/Bastinado~ Is something I have been curious about since I was 15 years old and read about it in a book. I can't wait to try it because after a session, every step you will take will remind you of Me.
CBT~ I have not really explored it but some light version of it seems very interesting.
Household slave ~ I hate to clean but I love to have a clean house. I am a very creative person so when I have to do boring things like cleaning instead of painting and writing I am not happy so I love it when My subs takes over that part so I can enjoy Myself. A happy Mistress is a generous Mistress...
Cooking~ I am a pretty good cook but I don't want to cook all the time so a sub who can cook healthy and tasty vegan or raw food would be very appreciated.
Spanking & Whipping ~ Hmm, a tough one, so far I'm not turned on by it but if I see that you are enjoying it or gets turned on by it then it is a bit of a turn on. Of course it is the perfect punishment for bad behavior if you don't like it. I do however enjoy pinching people a lot. So as a punishment it gives Me satisfaction.
Consequences & Punishments ~ Every action has a consequence and I like to punish people, when it is called for, in a physical and non physical way. Nothing extreme though.
Small penis humiliation ~ I never thought I would like this but I do enjoy it quite a lot and it is really fun.
Yoni Massage ~ I have never tried it but I can't wait to do so. It seems so nice and relaxing.
Golden showers ~ Can be fun sometimes but not every day.
Things I don't like is the following:
Toilettslaves - Just don't even ask!!
Sissyfication and forced cross dressing - It is not My cup of tea, it is not logical and it is not reflecting well on Women.
Extreme bondage or spanking - I don't like anything extreme
Abuse and strap on rape - Hell no.
Keeping a gimp in a cage 24/7 - Are you kidding Me? That would be causing Me more problems than joy.
Anal Fisting - It might lead to chronic damage so nope.
Monster cocks and black lovers - I am not a Hotwife. I take normal sized men based on how we connect on an intellectual or emotional level, not depending on their skin color or cock size.
Gang Bangs ~ No thank you.
To be continued..
Lady Blaze - The birth of a Sensual & Dominant Queen.
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